When is it okay to tell your significant other that you love them?
I have been with my boyfriend for about a month, we've had a lot of close and romantic moments and I feel like I could say 'I love you' and I'm really meaning it with all my heart. It's been over two years since I've really felt this romantically close to someone, the first time I actually feel in love, not like in my previous relationships for the past two years were I just haven't felt that close.
When do you think is an acceptable time to say I love you, /adv/?
>>17465323
When you love them.
There's no set time, but judge the relationship, determine how he would respond. Ask your bf how he likes you.
>>17465330
I just feel like I would make it weird. I honestly just want to tell him but it feels like he would either give the same reply or he would feel like I'm going too fast (I'm his first girlfriend lol).
Casually after breakfast is the probably the best time.
>>17465323
I've been in... six? relationships that have gotten to the L word point. I'd say on average it's happened about four months in, but sometimes sooner. It seems a bit soon, but if you truly feel this way then it's not like you have to withhold it from him. I'd be less concerned with what's appropriate and more focused on whether it's reciprocated or something that's gonna blindside him.
> It's been over two years since I've really felt this romantically close to someone, the first time I actually feel in love, not like in my previous relationships for the past two years were I just haven't felt that close.
Maybe you should just tell him this
>>17465323
>When do you think is an acceptable time to say I love you, /adv/?
In my experience, one month is way too soon. It gives me the impression that you have no idea what you're doing and that you don't know what love really is. It's fine to say that you really like someone when you're at that stage, but anything else will scare off most normal people.
>>17465323
are you both virgins? sure why not. are you both fuckos that live in fucko town like every one else? you been fucko together for a month and want to say that? no don't be retarded. wait a while longer.
it is never okay to tell anyone you love them,
avoid future heartbreak by never committing.
stick with slightly ambiguous positive compliments like, "I enjoy your companionship"