Going to take and lose virginity of / to the girl of my dreams

>>17464104

Now, I WANT TO have sex with her. I have no clue what to do, though. What should I even wear to her house? How do I confirm the time? I've decided to wear anything that makes me look good and to just call her and ask her if I can come over.

How should I initiate it? Should I go straight for PIV or should I go down on her first? Should I ask her to give me a blowjob? Also, how sensitive are nipples, really? I'm afraid I might bruise it or something because I don't think I'm going to be able to control myself.

Should I bring her flowers or something?

Is using a condom really necessary? I've heard that it dulls the sensation considerably (I have a foreskin) but I want to experience sex fully. Will it be painful for her if I break her hymen? Should I clean my penis after breaking the hymen because it might have blood on it? Does she have to wash her vagina because of the blood? (We're both the same blood group BTW)

If you have any other advice please share it, I'm pretty nervous right now.

she's a slut, don't do it OP.

Wear normal clothes, don't try to hard.

Deodorant and a shower before you head out. Very important but go to the pharmacy and buy anti-bacterial soap for your balls. This will allow them to be clean and smell fresh when it is time ot plow. Buy condoms as well.

Kiss. Slowly take off each other clothes. Foreplay by kissing parts of her body, thighs, tits, stomach, and then start eating her out when she is wet. After that let her blow you, get some lube and then fuck her missionary style. After you cum, start kissing each other again and get her to do a hand job inorder to your hard and then from there feel up her tits and ass then go for round 2. It is your first time so no need to worry if it will be bad, the first time is usually bad for both parties.

>>17464133
What about the blood? Also, cumming in her mouth in a porn thing, right?

>>17464133
Also, thanks for the advice. I didn't know about the anti-bacterial soap part. I should shave my balls, right?

>>17464153

Blood? When you break her hymen there might be some blood but it won't be much. Look use a lot of lube my friend and don't be conservative about it. One thing I find about sex with virgins is how painful the first time it is and so keep it slow and make her relaxed. After the third time she should be good enough to bang hard and fast. So you are going to have to grease the wheels after a bit.

Regarding busting in her mouth, ask her first don't spring it up on her. Nothing worse than a girl spitting your cum on the fucking carpet, almost kicked a girl out because she acted like it was sulfuric acid.

>>17464160

Shave around your dick so she isn't swallowing hair. She probably won't be able to deep throat so I wouldn't be worry too much about getting it all off. Try eating a lot of fruit to make your cum more tasting.

>>17464186
No, no, no. The hymen does not work like that.

First of all, the hymen is a ring around the outside, and not some sort of seal across the vagina except in special medical cases that need surgical intervention.

Think about it, if it really was a seal across the vaginal passage, where would menstrual blood go?

The hymen is not like that. It's a ring, and it stretches, like the rest of the vaginal tissue. The chance of you having to "break" through is is exceedingly low, and would be immediately visible as soon as you look at the vagina.

OP, sex should never be painful. It might be briefly weird or uncomfortable, but pain is a bad thing and means that something is legitimately wrong.

People have this expectation that it's painful, but if you go slowly enough to accommodate stretching and you make sure that she's relaxed and aroused and lubricated enough, then it should not hurt.

Pain means either she's not relaxed enough, not lubricated enough due to nervousness, or you shoved it in too rough and too fast.

If it's the first time having sex, things are probably not going to go perfectly or smoothly. But there should be no pain and no blood.

>>17464186
>lube

okay.

Is cumming on her stomach acceptable?

>fruit
what kind?

>>17464239
thanks for the detailed reply.
Are you sure it won't break during sex? What if it does?

Also, should I bring flowers? What about nipples? Can I bite them or is that too much?

>>17464317
It shouldn't break. If it does tear, it'll just be a tiny bit of blood, and you don't have to worry about it. but if this happens, ask if she's okay. If she is, you need to slow down and use more lube, but you can keep going.

Flowers seem a little silly, unless she really likes them.

As for nipples? I recommend not biting them. At least not as first. With sex, start out gentle, and slow go harder until you find out just how rough she likes. Some people are into it but they're sensitive and a proper bite is a turnoff for most people.

You can try a very gentle nip or catching them between your teeth and worrying them a little bit, to see if she likes it. But in general, if it's a place you wouldn't want bitten, don't bite there.

>>17464317
You're not in a porn movie, it's her first time too don't make her feel uncomfortable. Can't you just cum in the condom while inside her?

Don't make it awkward by bringing flowers.

Nipples vary with each girl, but kiss, lick them and nibble lightly and see how she reacts.

most important thing imo is to be clean and smell nice (perfume!!)

your balls dont have to be clean shaven, but trim it so it looks tidy downstairs, and no risk of hairs in her mouth (if she decides to try doing a bj)

Look its both your first time, dont worry if lots of things make her uncomfortable. Start with the basics (kissing on mouth, kissing uncovered skin, undress her, kiss tits), go genlty inside in missionary.

Anything else is a possibility but not a certainty: eating out, bj, cumming on stomach or in her mouth.. Dont rush it.

Just try to make her enjoy it en trust you, and if its good you will have lots of kinkier sex later.

>>17464317
Best fruit before bj: Pineapple. It makes your cum tastier.

>>17464355
>>17464340
You covered everything, thanks!

>>17464360
okay,will eat some.