Help me check my privilege? Is this shallow?

don't go to the extremes, go for mere fitness and health. it sounds simple but you'd be surprised by how rare those women are, nonetheless the much rarer type is the athletic
in such cases like appearance, moderation can br good

Not everyone shares your interests or priorities. You're allowed to want what you want, but your desires aren't any more or less valid than any one else's.

Find a normal girl and play sports with her until she becomes your ideal.

>>17461138
If you were good enough, you would be able to get a girl like that.
It's pretty stupid to get triggered just because they don't like you.

>divide the world into "good people like me" and "everyone else, who is evil"
>get real angry
Dumbass

>>17461229
Tbqh literally every group of people does this at some level

>racial groups
>political groups
>nations
>schools
>sports team

It's psychology

So you're mad that you haven't had any luck dating an Olympic level athlete? Not everyone can or wants to spend half the day at the gym. If few or none of the athletic girls you run into are attracted to you, that means that obviously you aren't fit enough for them, so your best bet would be to do what >>17461207 says and try to find a less fit girl and doing lots of active things with her. Honestly I don't understand why you're having all this trouble, there's tons of slutty crossfit girls in my city, but they mostly go for equally muscly crossfit guys with lots of confidence, so if you're just some regular ottermode guy then they won't go for you.

>>17461138
It's not shallow but it limits your options significantly.

I enjoy photography a great deal. I've shot tens of thousands of images in my free time over the years and I've learned a lot about the craft, it's a huge personal passion of mine that I would essentially call my "purpose". I'd love to also be with a girl who enjoys photography, but it gets kind of tricky. One of the main issues is that a lot of the women i meet who are also interested in photography are into it for different reasons. They shoot different subjects, and they approach and think about it differently. Not only that, but when I take photographs, I usually like being alone. Otherwise I can't concentrate as much, and I get rushed by the people I'm with because they don't want to wait around for the right moment like I do.

I could say I want a photography gf but that'd limit my choices a lot. The thing is that I have more interests than just photography to possibly bond over - there's a lot of things I enjoy doing and if I enjoyed the company I'm with it really wouldn't matter what it is.

Yes it would be fantastic to have someone who enjoys the same shit you do. The truth however is that many of the most successful relationships form and remain over much, much deeper things than common interests. By all means, seek out a partner who at least shows interest in her health and could possibly learn something with you, just don't obsess over finding someone who's *exactly* like you are.