I'm gonna ask this girl out that I really like. Problem is I don't see her anymore since we graduated this summer and I only really talked to her twice. I don't really know her but the impression I got from her is very good.
Should I just message her and ask her out? Should I try to start a conversation about something first? That could be hard because I don't know her interests.
>>17461090
ask her out to a public place.
"hey i was wondering if you wanted to grab a coffee and catch up."
See if she wants to go and play pokemon go.
>>17461094
>>17461093
Can I just ask her out instantly? Like
>hey whats up?
>i was wondering if you wanted to grab a coffee
Feels weird to not have talked to her that much and then suddenly ask her out. But I guess she would accept if she was a bit interested?
>>17461104
Do you mean walk up to her and ask her if she wants grab a coffee? No small talk?
Why not go up to her chat to her.
Make her feel like you actually like her company and are interested in what she has to say.
Then say something like
>Its great bumping into you like this, want to carry on the conversation over a coffee?
>>17461153
I'm gonna message her. We don't really see eachother. So I'm wondering if I should talk to her before asking her out or if I should ask her out to talk to her then.
Text conversations are so awkward.
>>17461169
Yes text conversation are awkward.
Do have text conversations with her currently or are you going to text her to ask her out?
>>17461181
I don't have text conversations currently. That makes it more awkward. To just out of the blue chat her up.
Please, any advice?
>>17461205
Just text her with some casual chit chat and ask her to coffee. The more you drag it out the more awkward it's gonna be so just get to the point quickly.
>>17461880
This is what I was thinking. Do you think I should ask what she's been up to since last we talked? And then ask her out after that conversation topic kinda ends. Would that be enough?