Finding poly-friendly friends

Polyamory is a degenerate practice that not even degenerate primates consider using.

Harems are non-existent unless you're in the Middle East.

Just saying, it's a shit practice for relationships and people have reasons why they look at you funny, even if you're a big titted redhead.

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>>17459198
this desu senpai

>>17459198
Obviously I'm going to disagree. It's been wonderful for me.

You do however represent an obvious example of the difficulty I've been having, so I guess there's that.

I agree. A friend of mine is in this type of relationship. Does polyamory always end in disaster like society says?

As for solution: there are websites such as meetupdotcom and I am sure similar where you can find groups.
As for advice: you are a cancer and you should be purged.

>>17459291
Helps to consider what is the point of comparison. Most relationships, of any variety, ultimately fall apart. With that said, we've been together for 4 years, and are more stable today than ever before.

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I live near a certain liberal city, and meetup is absolutely riddled with poly oriented clubs. It's pretty much that, single mom dating, and coding stuff.

>>17459291
I've seen way more drama come out of poly shit than anything else. Usually one party cares about it more than the other, or someone has shit luck and builds resentment because their partner sleeps around and so on. So while most relationships eventually break up, I've seen way more explosive outcomes come from that stuff.

There's always that hypothetical healthy poly relationship, but I only hear about it online, never real life. Because of that I tend to suspect it's the person who's able to sleep around as they wish that's dolling out its praise rather than it being genuinely healthy.

I wouldn't cut someone out for being poly necessarily, but I'd certainly keep them at arms length.

>>17459291
Your average man is jealous. Your average woman will have an easier time finding extra partners. It's not a hard outcome to anticipate.

Then there are the people who are just trying to have their cake and eat it, too. They have severe commitment issues, so they manipulate a codependent partner into agreeing to the arrangement to gain the stability of a relationship without feeling like they've invested everything and are trapped by that investment.