>Meet girl on tinder
>Date for 2 months
>Last week she starts getting really distant
>Starts saying really rude things when we talk over the phone
>Wtf
>Call her and tell her that she doesn't seem too interested anymore, and that we should just be friends
>She says "...Okay. Well I like you, but you live too far away. We'll just be friends"
>Tell her "Sounds good, no hard feelings"
>We say bye
>Really really really really really fucking sad
This was the first time that I have actually dated somebody who I liked in nearly 4 years. I liked her more than my long-term relationships.
I'm kinda sad, and kinda mad. She was probably cheating on me during that last week. How do I not be mad?
>>17459070
>you do the breaking up
>lie to her about how you feel
>act like a bitch about it
Gee. Start by not doing those things next time. Communication matters.
Of course you're mad and hurt this is exactly the reason we have angry emotions you're allowed to feel angry and upset it's a totally normal response to the situation.
You would have issues if you didn't feel the way you do right now.
>>17459135
I didn't want her to think that I cared about her, and that it was a big deal.
>>17459070
You fucked it up.
Good job!
>>17459143
How? What was I supposed to do?