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How can I spice things up in bed?

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My boyfriend and I haven't been dating for too long, around a month or so.
I really enjoy rough sex, ranging from being fucked hard, to bdsm (not that it has to be rough every time, but its much more enjoyable for me when it's is).
My boyfriend on the other hand.... Not so much. Every time we have sex he's always very gentile, with not too much foreplay, and its starting to get boring for me. I've noticed my sex drive toward him going down as time passes, i'm not as turned on by him anymore.
I've talked to him before about how I really love when guys are rough, (even just a little if its out of his comfort zone) and he's listened but never tried to make it rougher, and the one time he did I could tell he felt weird about it which just turned me off also.
I don't know what to do. I really like this guy and our emotional connection is INCREDIBLE, however, our sexual connection... Isn't there for me anymore.
I need advice on how to spice things up
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idk man if it isn't natural it's hard to just be GRR RAWR in bed. Maybe you should have him tie you up and tell him he can explore and whatever with no judgement.

It might just turn into the same sex with restraints but he might also figure out it's ok to start pushing boundaries??
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You should have an honest conversation and talk to him directly about it. Find some porn with rough sex the way you like and watch it together with him.

If it doesn't work and he shows no effort into trying it at least, you should break up.
Emotional connection is very important to any long term relationship, that's obvious, but sexual connection is just as important.
A successful couple has to satisfy each other both emotionally and physically, and incompatibility in either brings down the other too. Because when partners don't connect emotionally, one of them will eventually become worn out and lose sexual attraction to the other, a lack of sexual compatibility leads to the same effect on emotional attraction, that's why both are equally important.
If you don't find a way to make him satisfy you, or if he doesn't want to/care, listen to me and breal-up, because your relationship will fail.
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>>17453860

Can't tell if this is a subtle troll or someone who has never been in a relationship.
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