How can I spice things up in bed?

idk man if it isn't natural it's hard to just be GRR RAWR in bed. Maybe you should have him tie you up and tell him he can explore and whatever with no judgement.

It might just turn into the same sex with restraints but he might also figure out it's ok to start pushing boundaries??

You should have an honest conversation and talk to him directly about it. Find some porn with rough sex the way you like and watch it together with him.

If it doesn't work and he shows no effort into trying it at least, you should break up.
Emotional connection is very important to any long term relationship, that's obvious, but sexual connection is just as important.
A successful couple has to satisfy each other both emotionally and physically, and incompatibility in either brings down the other too. Because when partners don't connect emotionally, one of them will eventually become worn out and lose sexual attraction to the other, a lack of sexual compatibility leads to the same effect on emotional attraction, that's why both are equally important.
If you don't find a way to make him satisfy you, or if he doesn't want to/care, listen to me and breal-up, because your relationship will fail.

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Can't tell if this is a subtle troll or someone who has never been in a relationship.