Hello /adv/, I'm (23 years) really at a loss here.
My gf (18 years) has a crazy high libido, she basically wants to fuck a couple of times every day and there is no way I can keep up with that. She is very, very attractive, in shape, completetly my type and indulges my fetishes, so that's not the problem. On average I'd say we have sex once a day if we both feel fine. This is such a big deal, because everytime I turn her down she gets angry and frustraded and gives me shit, calling me gay or things which provoke a fight which almost happens on a daily base and we both don't want to live with that. I am down to give her head all the time and sometimes when I'm not in the mood for sex I'd still be down to get a handjob or blowjob but I actually don't know the reason for that a 100%. If I nut too early she sometimes gives me shit too or tries to shame me into having sex with her, which could kind of ruin the experience for me too. I never, ever thought I would be complaining about having such a problem.
We are together since almost a year and are living together, the first problems like this appeared after about 2 months into the relationship when we we're already basicly living together. We're currently both on holidays so we're having a lot of free time. I don't watch porn and haven't since about 4 years. How can we fix this?
If there is any important information I didn't give feel free to ask.
Thanks in advance
You know this is sexual abuse right?
I can help out OP if you don't mind getting cucked a little
>>17452117
OP here, to correct it, I might make it sound like she is abusive, but she doesn't give me shit every day, it just happened a few times. It's often the case that once we have sex once a day she is just satisfied too. Still causes a lot of fights, even indirectly.
>>17452115
Eat more varied and maybe a bit more, for that energy
Use tongue and fingers when she is horny
Drink more fluid, also for that energy and to replace semen
Look into the supplements for extra semen, so your balls fill faster
Excersize more, it will give you more energy for sex
Tbh, this is just the opposite of what many men experience. Two people will always have different libidos.
Try fucking her in the morning and in the evening, in the morning it should be quick and brutal and easy. Pee in her while you are at it, make some play out of it
tell her to become a camwhore and make some money if she's that horny.
>>17452182
>pee in her a little bit
Idk why this made me laugh but thanks
Would you say your sex drive is lower than normal? Are you currently under a lot of stress?
Have you tried just having a frank discussion about it? Might be kind of hard because, well, she is a child, but I'd say give that a shot. That kind of sexual pressure can really put a strain on a relationship and cause a lot of anxiety, which will cause a kind of snowball effect.
In the end, there might not be anything to do. I had a relationship end for this exact reason, our libidos just weren't matched up. Now I'm with a woman that is, aesthetically at least, not as attractive to me as my ex, but we fuck like rabbits. I think that "chemistry" is a legit thing, you have it with some people and not with others.
>>17452249
>Would you say your sex drive is lower than normal? Are you currently under a lot of stress?
When I was living alone it was a bit higher, when I was living with my ex it was the same. I think most people my age have more stress than I do.
>Have you tried just having a frank discussion about it? Might be kind of hard because, well, she is a child, but I'd say give that a shot. That kind of sexual pressure can really put a strain on a relationship and cause a lot of anxiety, which will cause a kind of snowball effect.
We are talking regulary about it and she is pretty mature for her age. Snowballeffect could be true.
>In the end, there might not be anything to do. I had a relationship end for this exact reason, our libidos just weren't matched up. Now I'm with a woman that is, aesthetically at least, not as attractive to me as my ex, but we fuck like rabbits. I think that "chemistry" is a legit thing, you have it with some people and not with others.
I really hope that is not the case, it would break my heart.
>>17452182
I eat healthyish, drink a lot and work out 3 or 4 times a week.
>>17452115
There's nothing wrong with you. Your problem is that your girlfriend is a sexed up teenager and very likely arrogant because she knows how "valuable" an attractive, horny woman is to men.
Spoilers: young love doesn't last. Get the shit you want to do with her (sexual or not) out of the way before it fades. It will make the break up easier if you don't have regrets.
>>17452279
>she is pretty mature for her age
Yes, throwing tantrums and belittling a partner. Hallmarks of maturity. Take her off the pedestal.
>>17452285
I told her something similar in nicer words
It isn't true that young love doesn't last, statisticly a marriage would be actually more likely to hold and be happy the earlier we meet.