long distance waifu

Spunds like a waste of time to me. How do you imagine the long distance relationship being any different from a long distance friendship?

>>17451534
The same way a friendship and relationship is different, minus the physical. If things go well that could change. She isn't that far away

I met my current bf through an mmo and we've been happily dating for almost a year now, recently we spent time together and it's been great really. My best advice is to keep playing with her and talking with her all the time, also try switching to some other platforms, something like skype or even better, discord. We were both shy with communicatig sometimes, but we got lucky since our guild made a discord and we started to use voice chat all together but as time passed only the two of us would remain in the voice channel. That's how we got really close and attached, and where we met each other best I think.
Now you also must be prepared for the hardships of an ldr, I'll just tell you from my own experience it's been pretty hard so far since we both long for the physical touch a lot. You both need to be prepared and have a lot of strength to endure it but I think it's very much possible, judging from my example at least.
I wish you the best anon!

>>17451561
Keep telling yourself that homie. Just dont' come crying when your "gf" starts taking real dick and starts ignoring you.

>>17451703
I have her skype and I've tried to make her get discord but she had excuses. She doesn't seem to understand it's free and easy to use. I didn't want to push it too hard. Also I'm not so sure talking to her all the time is a good idea, wouldn't that just get annoying? She rarely messages me on her own as it is.

>>17451747
Oh I'm sorry I'm a bit tired so my post was kind of messy and I didn't word myself right. When I met my boyfriend I was kind of a shut in so I didn't have problems with talking to him all day sometimes. I think giving her own breathing space irl is important, maybe sometimes wait until she starts talking to you first. Hmm I also think sharing mundane stuff that happened to you irl helps a lot in getting you closer to her, or like sending her pics from outside, but if she's not that interested it might come off as creepy I suppose. Internet relationships are weird because you dont really know where to start from especially if the reason why you two met wasn't initially dating.

LDRs suck ass unless:
>you can regularly visit each other
>you have clear plans for the future

if neither apply, look elsewhere. if you want to break the ice, gauge whether or not you think she likes you that way. go by:
>length of conversations held
>mutual effort made to spend time together
if she really likes spending time with you and she's single, just man the fuck up and tell her you have feelings for her. and be confident about it.

if you say it in a wimpy way your chances are severely diminished. good luck.

>>17451770
Well thanks anyway, sleep tight anon

>>17451530
I met my girlfriend on Omegle, we've been dating for 4 years and are very long distance.

We just started talking and never really stopped. It got to the point where I just realized I loved her, and told her that. She felt the same. Until that point we just thought of ourselves as friends, and hadn't even considered the possibility of a relationship. It just kind of happened. That was probably 4-5 months after initially meeting.

As other anons have said, a LDR is sucky, but definitely manageable if you both have VERY good communication skills. That's the glue that'll hold you together.

I never had one big "ice-breaker", I guess I just brought up more relationship-type subjects. Mild sexual things, what's she into, has she ever done X, if she'd ever want to do Y, etc. Future plans, like if she ever wants to get married, have kids, what role she'd want in a relationship. Complimenting her, flirting with her. If she doesn't respond to those things positively, then she's probably not interested. But there's no set formula, especially for LDR, and it completely depends on what you're comfortable talking about and what she's comfortable talking about. It's tricky. Don't push too hard. No one really wants to allow themselves to be entangled in that kind of a relationship, it has to just progress to the point where it's worth it for the both of you.

No idea if any of that is helpful. Good luck OP.

>>17451960
Holy shit how can you do it for 4 years? Have you met in person yet? I doubt I could handle even one year before dropping it.

>>17452050
Yes, we've met multiple times. We didn't delude ourselves that meeting for real would be exactly like it was online, but we really clicked in person as well.

It's just a matter of wanting her badly enough. If we broke up, I'd still love her, and just want to talk to her. I've never "gotten tired" of her, even with the distance. That, and we figured out a method for long distance "sex" that's satisfying enough to get us through until the next visit. And we do have a plan in place to be in the same location semi-permanently within the next year.

>>17451530

Get a girlfriend near you, faggot.

>>17452232
Tell us about that method please.

>>17452232
How far apart are you? How old are you two? Why haven't you moved close to each other yet?

>>17452343
6600km or 4100 miles, North America to Europe. I'm 22, she's 20. We met when we were 18 and 16.

We're both still in school and living at home. We'll both be done our programs next year, and she's going to move here on a work visa, assuming that everything works out.

>>17452321
No guarantee it'll work for anyone else, and it isn't really groundbreaking.

I like to dominate her in bed, and she's fairly submissive. We phone each other, both naked, in bed, with the lights off. I tell her exactly what to do, when to do it, how hard, what toys/body parts to use, and I just let her know what I'm doing. I call her humiliating names, and she calls me whatever I tell her to. I tell her when to cum, and then I finish along with her. In the dark I can just imagine every little thing she's doing, and hear her reaction as she does it. I listen to her breathing getting more and more ragged, her moaning, the sounds toys make slipping inside her. It's surprisingly satisfying. We don't go on video very much, we find that we just feel really self conscious. Just phoning actually feels more akin to real sex, as you're just focused on the act itself and not on how you look.

I'll also write "porn stories" for her, involving the both of us, which she really likes. She sends me nudes, I send her stories, and the occasional nude.

Also, I give her a schedules of when she's allowed to touch herself. It's just nice to know when she is, and how many she's doing per day or week.

That's just what works for us, and keeps us sane until we're in the same place.