Anyone here have the experience of immediately clicking with someone you've just met and feeling a special bond with them in just one day? This is even possible?
Could be just infatuation, give them time to disappoint you.
Yep. We started dating about two and a half years after we me, and we've been dating almost three years now.
Yes. A mutual friend introduced us over an online messenger, and we clicked immediately. We didn't know what one another looked like either.
The mutual friend said that we both reminded her of one another but she had been hesitating on introducing us because she feared we would start dating and stop hanging out with her. We eventually started dating a few months after that.
Hey if you're not: insecure, evil, stupid. Then yeah sure. A crush is a short-term thing and usually called that because you're completely incompatible.
But usually you have to be a morally sound person with intelligence.
Otherwise you'll just be another naive faggot jumping way deep into the ocean and thinking everything will be alright.
Yes, and it's not worth it. You'll never forget them, and you will compare everyone else to them for the rest of your life. Get out while you can.
Yeah, she has BPD and I probably do as well, both in addition to other shit.
But we still have to meet and even then there will be issues with physical intimacy unless she initiates it, at first anyways.
>>17450031
Finding someone else who can even understand your condition is rare, if I were you I would give it a shot. It's going to be a lot more awkward with someone "normal".
>>17450031
Are you me?
>>17450064
Just a minor variant to double the suffering of course.
>>17450050
Not just the conditions but the circumstances leading to them and our current states are eerily similar.
I'm gonna try, the rest will be up to her.
Of course its possible, dumbass.
Just know that love and feelings are just chemicals that your brain release to tell you to breed and settle down, so your body has a higher chance of surviving and producing offspring. If your brain never made oxytocin you would never feel what we call "love". It usually fades because it doesn't need to stick around to accomplish it's purpose.
>>17450095
Fortunately long term sex agreements exist to save the day.