how do i get more confident

You should try to get out there,find a new hobby.At first you are gonna suck but try hard and you will get better at some point.That will make you feel much better.If there is something that you can do to improve your appearce do it for example a diet or exercise more. Also finding a new style sometimes helps too.Keep in mind though that it's gonna be a long process and you will have succeded when you don't really think about it.

>>17442639
ruin your social standing completely so then you will have to either

a) die

b) stop caring what others think

>>17442639

just b urself :)

Seriously, though. If you want to be confident, you have to be satisfied with yourself. What do you think will make you presentable?

just be your confident self

>>17442639
>how do i get more confident
In what?

There are only two ways to get confident with regards to a thing:

1) Do the thing.
2) Try to do the thing, fail, but survive.

There are no other ways. This also means that at least the first few times must be done wkthout the benefit of confidence.

>>17442780
I can speak personally that this works,
once you realize someone thinks your a total piece of shit these things will stop mattering.

I act with confidence knowing I might have to bail on life at any moment.

>>17442639
By consistently improving yourself. The fact that you earned that improvement with hard work means you are a worthwhile human being, therefore better than the beta sjw cucks that settle for "be urself" mediocrity.

That is the only right way.