I feel jealous of friends who have memories of relationships and flings. It's all so passionate and exciting.
I'll never have memories like that to look back on, I might meet someone but it won't be anywhere near as passionate as we won't be that young
How do I accept my lot and stop wishing I had what everyone else had?
>>17442149
They also have the memories of being dumped, cheated on, rejected, their relationship failing, etc
Grass ain't always greener.
>>17442155
I have memories of heartbreak too involving people who didn't feel the same way about me.
The grass is greener.
>>17442219
the grass is greener where you water it, dumbass stop being such a pussy and pursue women
>>17442240
I've been pursuing men (I'm a straight girl) for a long while now. What's your point?
>>17442299
>plays life on easy mode
>still complains it's too hard
>expects sympathy
A straight woman can realistically have a romantic encounter any time they desire
You become more passionate, do everything with passion, lick the pussy with passion, cook food with passion, put her pleasure before yours and LICK THAT PUSSY, check out elephantjournal.com for passionate tips
You will have memories as long as you experience the moment first. Make your own memories. Concentrate on what you can do to better yourself and plan for the near future. Focus on that; it is a weak mind to pay heed to things that never were or will be uncontrollably. Focus on what there is in your own life and bring it all to the present moment
>>17442373
My memories aren't as good as theirs. Any anything I can have in the future doesn't make up for what I missed out on.
What is in my own life is shit.
>>17442398
Just wait until you have flashbacks that won't go away and make you feel like shit
>>17442398
Your life is not completed and you have much time ahead of you that you could assert your intentions to if you were so inclined. Yiuare foolish to think yourself ever too old to do something about it all and grab afirm of the helm. If you wish to have memories, make them
>>17442436
I'm not that young anymore I can't make those kinds of memories.
>>17442149
There's that saying about only sering the highlight reels of other people's lives, and the bloopers of yours.
Also, life isn't a competition. If you want something simply because someone else has that something, that doesn't mean you actually need whatever it is.