How the fuck do I control my load? This problem has been persisting for years now. I'm 23, have had 7 partners, and my dick's sensitivity to vaginas has not decreased. I can beat off for ages, a girl can suck me off for ages (never came from a bj), but when it slides in the v-hole, and the woman moans, I just lose my shit. If I don't swap positions in about 60 seconds, I'm in trouble.
My only technique thus far has been to consistently switch positions, but this doesn't create the rythme required that women need to get off. I can only make them orgasm from oral sex. So far I've generalized it to a few possible sources:
> masturbation/porn likely play a role
> I need to control my arousal levels
> need to train my PC muscle (kegels)
If anyone has advice and/or sources to offer on the subject, I would really appreciate it. Idk how my friends simply plow sluts for 45 min straight, but it's a skill I'd like to get.
>>17441993
I mean you could do drugs to decrease sensitivity, like liquor yourself up.
But there isn't much you can do otherwise. I would recommend you become the king of eating pussy. Get her to orgasm long before you even have sex and there will be little for her to complain about.
>>17442002
I really don't like the quality of sex with alcohol, and quit it completely anyways. I'd like a more permanent solution to PE if it's possible. I'm sure people have conquered it before.
We're cut from the same cloth, m8.
There's some fda approved numbing gel out there now, combine that with a condom and thrust away
>>17442016
The feels man. Have you had any success controlling it outside of external products? From what I hear, strengthening the fuck out of your PC muscle can actually put you in control.
On the topic of penis exercises, I heard you can grow your junk with "jelqing", not sure if it's credible. Worth a try I guess.
>>17442036
My Shay Laren gif corrupted
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>>17441993
Get a desensitizing condom
>>17442148
Any long term effects of this?
Antidepressants onii-senpai. I pair that with viagra (have perscription for this, they're easy to get) and become a sex machine. Like, literally straight stimulation for half an hour. There had been times where she stopped getting wet before I came just cuz we were fucking for that long. It'll make orgasm hard to get, but totally worth it