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I was reluctant to post here because I'm probably just being touchy but long story short

I have a half asian bf, and I'm white. We've been dating for 2 years.
Recently he has hardly paid attention to me, stuck to his computer, I've told him several times that I wish he would spend time with me more and he was really guilty and said he would, and he didn't. Also trying to hide things on the computer from me when I'm near.
Although he doesn't do a very job and its obvious.

I noticed he is obsessed with asians (he is proud of his asian blood) most of his friends are asian and all of his porn is asian.
He hardly has sex with me now and would rather masturbate to-ofc- asians.
He keeps going on about "slutty white girls" and how they are disgusting but doesn't say anything to when the same thing applies to asian girls.He also said to his friend after a previous white ex that "I'm only dating Asian girls now"

I feel like shit as I will never meet to his expectation of this 'cute asian girl'
and as much as he says that I'm perfect and he loves me I just can't get the sickening feeling that Im just some girl he's keeping for the sake of it. I love him to bits but I feel worthless at this point and I don't now what to do.
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>>17440589
Leave him. Done
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To me what isn't a dealbreaker is that he has this fixation on Asian girls. What is, is that any dumb fuck with an ounce of empathy would understand that as a white girl, hearing your own boyfriend trash white women takes its toll on your self esteem. If he does not get that he is either a functional retard or an asshole who does not care about your feelings, or tries to neg you into disproving his stereotypes and feeling inferior. Either one would be a dealbreaker for me.
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Have you told him all of this or just the first part?
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>>17440589
My only question is, how did you end up dating him in the first place if he feels that way?

Just leave him. He sounds immature. If not just try to talk to him first but this doesnt sound like a good relationship.
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>>17440645 Yea, makes me feel horrible in my own skin
and when we go out I get nervous when there is pretty asian girls are about because I have this strong feeling he is longing for them ugh

>>17440648
I am going to call him out for the trashing white girls aspect as he shouldn't be thinking that way in the first place
The sex thing I have and that he is too fixated on his computer but still- hasn't listened.
Other than that I haven't as I'm too nervous to which is pathetic of me as its the strongest relationship I've ever had but its went all downhill all of a sudden

>>17440669
He offered me a place to stay after I was stuck for accommodation for an event then we got talking for a few months as he wanted personal help with alot of things and he confessed
Which has made me think he has only dated me because I was 'nice'
I am trying to find a good moment to state all of this to him but as he hardly gives me attention it's difficult
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fuck this yellow cunt thinks hes big being racist. i would happily support a fellow master race individual with the respect you deserve. were number 1 for a reason honey.
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>>17440818
Too bad she's not into white guys you beta Cuck.

I think your bf is right but at the same time I wouldn't date someone who trash talked my race.

White male FYI
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I dunno have you talked to him about your sex life? Even removing the racial element, it's a problem when the guy would rather jerk off than fuck you. Is he not satisfied? Does he think you're bad a time sex? You need to communicate with him. How can he say he doesn't want to date white girls while dating one? It almost sounds like he doesn't see you two in a relationship anymore if he says that.
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