How does one get enough self-confidence to approach new people at uni, how's it done?
everything you do needs to be in support of yourself; even your thoughts. if your stuck in a mental loop thinking this and that and shoulda done this and god im so stupid STOP that is the reason you have no game
Have sex
by doing it anyway.
i know in your twisted little 'MUH CONDITIONS' world you must find that to not make sense.
but you're wrong.
you can read about all the techniques you want but until you take that pencil to paper, you have no idea what drawing is actually like. social interaction is just like anything, you gotta do it to learn it.
the reason you HAVE CONFIDENCE in yourself to talk to strangers is becaue you
>talked to strangers
>saw that literally nothing bad can happen from just striking up a casual conversation
>and therefore there is no reason to avoid doing it
confidence is literally just a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities.
and as long as you beliea feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities.
and if you KNOW that the worst thing that can happen is you walk away and your life is exactly the same as it was a half hour ago, then there is nothing to lack confidence in