Asking Out A Crush With AVPD

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Asking Out A Crush With AVPD 2016-08-08 05:04:22 Post No. 17440010
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Asking Out A Crush With AVPD Anonymous 2016-08-08 05:04:22 Post No. 17440010 [Report]

Little background:

>work with this dark skinned qt3.14
>be very well-respected and well liked at work, she's only been there a couple months
>95% sure she liked me right off the bat
>talk to her a little, flirt eventually, she's into it but I'm very shy and so is she
>the time came to ask her out a couple weeks ago, can't bring myself to do it, even though I feel extremely confident about it
>never actually asked a girl out in person, been rejected every other time
>98% sure I've lived with undiagnosed Avoidant Personality Disorder all my life

How can I go about denying every urge in my body and just ask her the fuck out? I'm sure I'll always regret it if she ends up with someone else.

Anonymous 2016-08-08 05:10:43 Post No.17440022
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Anonymous 2016-08-08 05:10:43 Post No.17440022 [Report]

>>17440010
First off that shit is mental, it's only true if you believe it and limit yourself.

Second off you're literally fetishistic about her skin color, chances are you're a scrawny white guy which isn't wrong but keep in mind.
a) women are very judgemental, if she's got bitches as friends (not real women, bitches) they gonna pick on her for having a scrawny white guy as a bf, which in short will end up in her feeling bad for being with you, which ends up in cheating or a break up.

Third, go for it and stop being a bitch ass pussy limp dick 3 inch hero shy lanky skeleton nigga, even if you fail you will learn from your mistakes after sometime.

Best of luck my nigga

Anonymous 2016-08-08 05:10:47 Post No.17440023
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Anonymous 2016-08-08 05:10:47 Post No.17440023 [Report]

Just dont treat it like its a big deal. Relax dude, you know she likes you so whats stoping you? Dont waste your time dude. If you dont ask her out someone else is gonna do it and you will end up feeling like shit.

Anonymous 2016-08-08 05:42:40 Post No.17440077
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Anonymous 2016-08-08 05:42:40 Post No.17440077 [Report]

>>17440010
Literally just ask. Don't beat around the bush - something along the lines of "I think we could be more than friends" works fine.

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