Is it gay?

>>17437989

if youwere looking to get off youd be saying 'a hole is a hole' not 'i like dick'. there is something abotu the male form you enjoy.

you are at the very least bisexual. my orommate is on the kinsey scale as well. his trigger is nudism. he doesnt really care for sex with men unless it feels like a spontaneous 'bros hanging out naked, oops i popped a bner, wanna play with it?' kinda situation. for two years hes known im gay and made no moves until he foudn out i was nudist. odd.

you are similar. for now. you prefer the company of women both sexually and platonically, but you also enjoy men to a lesser degree.

this may change. most of the gay guys i dated started off as 'WERE JUST HAVING SEX IM NOT EVEN GAY IM BI CURIOUS' to 'I AHVE SEX WITH MEN BUT I COULD NEVER MARRY ONE I ONLY WANNA MARRY A GIRL CUZ DISNEY MOVIES MADE IT SEEM SO GOOD' to 'hi this is my husband paul, we just bought a time share in palm springs and are expecting our first baby to be delivered from chinatown this fall.

I think that's semantics. I love tits and pussy. I love a woman's ass. I love women's bodies in general. Men, not so much. Dick is fascinating and I know all about it, but the rest of the body doesn't really turn me on. Muscles are OK, but I'd rather have them than look at them.

>>17438043

>i think thats semantics

than why ask for advice?

take it from a certified faggot with tons of experience with guys just like you.

right now you are in the stage of
>gay is bad
>therefore i am not gay
>im just a striaght guy who likes to get off :^)

just like half of my boyfriends.

you arej ust now beginning to understand and accept liking dick, its going to take awhile ebfore you understand that you like their bodies too.

just cuz ur part gay doesnt mean you have to be culturally gay. it doesnt mean you have to be out of the closet, im not.

you do you, but dont look for 'IM TOTALLY STRAIGHT RIGHT BROS?'

>>17437989

I think it's not really worth putting a label on it. Don't stress it. Have relationships with women, be "straight" in public, and occasionally do gay stuff in secret when the mood strikes you. Just like men have done all over the world for thousands of years.

Or maybe you'll meet some gay guy and want to be his boyfriend, who knows. Cross that bridge when you come to it.

>>17438065

I asked because I'm wondering.

I guess it starts coming down to defining what being gay means. One could say I'm bi-sexual (though I'd lean toward omni-sexual based on what I've done in the past), but to me it would seem to involve more than just physical activity.

I once asked a gay fellow the same question after me blew me and his answer was, "no, you just like an occasional dick."

To me, I see being gay as being attracted to the same sex, having crushes on the same sex, and having those feelings of love and so forth. Desiring to create that intimate bond in a romantic way. Sex can involve those feelings, but not necessarily. Like the "thousands of years" comment, two guys having sex while out to sea for months or years, but being strictly hetero while in port would seem to be different than that's the sort of relationship one always seeks out.

I tend to think if I was having a better sex life with women (and watching less porn), I wouldn't be looking at this easier alternative.

>>17438170

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