Hey guys. So, I found out my gf is cheating on me on wednesday.

I just wanna get over her and meet someone new...

>>17437144
what do you actually require from us on /adv/ ?

Time heals all wounds. Meet a girl in a bar and get fucked.

Wake up the next day and keep living.

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>>17437144

Best and quickest way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

Or on top, if she's a lazy cunt.

You're better off without her, mang.

You're free.

>>17437144
Is she hot? I assume she is since she has business

Exercise man
Make yourself the sexiest fucker in the world
And find someone way better
You can do it

Spend all the time that you have now on yourself, on YOU. Do whatever you want and what you feel that is right. Want a whole day sitting on the couch and watching series? Go ahead and do it, but do it right, immerse yourself.

What helped me during my breakup personally is to get some more exercise here and there, get a bit better at cooking, plan a trip or journey to somewhere for a long period, listen to new music, go out, meet people.

>>17437144
>How do I get over her?
Uh, admit to yourself she fucking cheated and lied and made a fool out of you. Not someone that deserves your love. How long was she your gf?

I am sorry for your loss, OP.

>>17437186
>Time heals all wounds.
Time and distance heal all wounds. Time is necessary, yes, but by itself it's not enough. Letting go is the beginning of the healing process, not the end; the timer only starts when you stop clinging.

What you need, OP, are new things to think about. The first step is to transform your headspace into a place where it is possible to think about other things. Any mementos if her that you cannot get rid of ahould be put in a box, and the box should go somewhere safe but out of sight and inconvenient to access (storage units are great for this). You can break the box out later, when you are better able to handle the feels.

The next step is to flood your brain with new information. Have a look at your backlog of things you thought would be neat to learn but never got around to, and take some things off the shelf. I do not recommend artistic pursuits, because it's too easy to create new mementos, and then the whole process backfires. But almost anything else will do. Your brainis cravin new things to think about, so lead it up.

After that, it's just a matter of time.