does anyone else feel the same way?

>>17434396
Sure, but the nagging sense of biological failure constantly erodes my self esteem. Who cares if I'm pursuing a postgrad degree, have numerous hobbies, am self sufficient etc, when I can't find a girl interested in me? I'm not resentful at all.

>>17434396
i used to feel that dating wasn't important, but now as my parents and family continue to get older i'm starting to realize that if i don't find some one i could easily end up completely and totally alone when they're gone. that would be really terrible.

my track record when it comes to dating is pathetic though.

>>17434396
You're fine. The impulse to date for the sake of dating or to have a gf for the sake of having a gf is itself a kind of mild desperation. As long as you don't close yourself off to the possibility, just go along as you are until a girl appears who makes you want to be with her in particular, not just with someone.

I'm pretty much a fucking loser but I'm not freaking out over not having a girlfriend. I'd like one but it's not consuming me.

>>17434396
Yeah, I feel you OP. I'm not really attractive, I'm mediocre at best imo. Anyway I can be sociable at times (considering I decide not to be an asshole) and I have a good bit of friends and four best friends. I just got out of a relationship and it was overall shit so I don't feel the need to date. Improving myself is better anyway.

wow women don't want anything except the top 20% of men. big surprise.

average and even fat girls pay you no mind? WOW