Relationship confusion

>>17432913
Abandon ship, OP

Don't cuck yourself. If he loves her there is clearly something to be jealous about.

There is healthy male/female friendships, in which they don't love each other, hang out alone, and then there is shit like your relationship. Fuck that.

>>17432913
>My boyfriend is in love with both me and his best friend romantically.
>He didn't tell be that he had feelings for her at any time before we did stuff.
Yeah, that's not normal friendly love. He wasn't upfront about his feelings for her, so you clearly have reason to be worried. To me, it sounds like polyamory, but you weren't privy to this information until he after he had you hooked.

He's either cheating already, or it's going to happen. Like the others said, abandon ship before this turns in to a fucking disaster.

>>17432931
I've told him on multiple occasions that if he wanted someone else that he should break up with me. I don't get why he would stay with me if he wanted to fuck other girls.

>>17432938

Some people want to have it all. It's possible that he hasn't slept with her, but to have romantic feelings for her is still too much.

>>17432941
This. You can end the relationship too, OP.

If people are given the option to have their cake and eat it too, they will.

>>17432941
I don't want to hurt him. I told him to break up with me if he wanted to date her, he's just confused now >.<

I'm feel so stupid right now.

>>17432952
>I don't want to hurt him.
OP, stop making excuses. This nigga ain't gonna be hurt if you leave because he already has someone else. He'll just go from having two gfs to one. It'd actually be easier for him.

But he is not the focal point of this topic, you are.