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Please help me get over a crush.
I've had feelings for her for a while, we went together for a coffee a couple of times at the start of the year, chatted a bit but I noticed that she was usually pretty formal with me and spoke like she didn't see me as a man, and never initiated contact either. So I put two and two together, realized it wasn't gonna happen and stepped back.
Now last month I found out that she and one of my mates started dating, with her asking him out, and everything came rushing back, I felt really upset about the situation for a while and angry at myself.
Now I've been keeping myself busy, went back to the gym, keep telling myself that I wasn't in the running anyway, became more productive, chatted a bit with other girls, deleted her number and minimized contact with the both of them as much as I can etc. but I still find that throughout the day I'll just start thinking about her and feel sad about the whole situation, obsessing over various retarded "what-if" scenarios. I try to correct my thoughts quickly but they just end up coming back.
Is there any surefire ways or psychological tricks I can use to get over her quicker?
I can relate anon. I was infatuated with a girl who really wasn't right for me and I was conscious of it. Even then, I felt like the only way to kill those feelings were to make her mine so I could stop wanting what I couldn't have. As time passes those feelings will die down. You've been doing the right things so far and at least your honest with yourself.
not really.
the crush i have now is a batshit insane slut. i really used to like her until i found out how dirty she is. one night she was with 4 different guys but i still like her.
fucking crazy woman and her cuteness. would date openly.
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>>17428053
So just keep doing what I'm doing and give myself more time then?
>>17428305
Yea man. You got the right mentality. The feelings weren't mutual and you had enough social intuition to pick up on it. It happens. You'll look back in 6 months and laugh at yourself.
>>17428315
Fair enough man, shame there's no quicker way though.
fuck loads of other girls