Should I stay away from younger guys in general?

Well... HOW much younger?

I don't see the problem unless you're dating an immature 15 year old.

This is like asking whether you should date someone if they're black or not. There are differences but they're not all the same.

19yo

>>17427753
>told me that he wouldn't have have never gave me the time of day if I wasn't pretty and was exactly his type
Older men with open options think this way as well, they just don't say it.

He sounds like the textbook female manipulative whore. Guilt tripping, playing victim, blaming you for their errors, etc...

This has nothing to do with maturity sadly. This is the product of insecurity and spoiling. There are people like him and you should avoid them.

If the new guy can act responsibly and in a trustworthy way, give him a chance.

I think that people mature most around the 18-25 age. This means that most people younger than you will seem pretty immature, even if it is a difference of only one or 2 years. This doesn't mean every guy who's younger than you will be an immature ass, but it is quite likely.

Still, if you like someone you shouldn't let the fact that he's a few years younger than you scare you. If you're falling for him already just give it a try. He may turn out to be an annoying cunt or your soulmate, either way it's better than pushing him away just because he's a little younger and regretting it until you fall for someone else.

>>17427759
>Well... HOW much younger?
19 years old

>>17427753

When was the last time you cheated on a boyfriend? Serious question I've noticed girls with daddy issues always being cheaters

>>17427934
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>When was the last time you cheated on a boyfriend? Serious question I've noticed girls with daddy issues always being cheaters
Never actually, I have been cheated on multiple times though, I don't see how daddy issues have anything to do with infidelity, in general, submissive people have the tendency to be loyal mostly

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>>17427753
>Younger

Come on OP, your age gap isn't so bad, you are still in a good range if the guy you are pining for is 19. Not to say you won't find some rotten apples mixed in, but you have to be a good judge of character and hopefully toss out the bad ones before it's too late. That will be true for men all across the board tho.

Now one thing I will say is if you continue to humor younger men while you are still getting a bit older, be mindful of their age. When I was 16 I was in talks with a woman 7 years older than me and oh boy. Did I fall for her hard. It was one of the best relationships I've been in. Either that or my rose colored goggles won't come off. Anyway some time down the road she called it off due to the age gap and the fact that we were both in different places in life. What I'm trying to say is keep in mind that the younger they are and the older you get has a good chance of turning into a deal breaker for a relationship

You can date younger guys, but next time you notice this:

>ended up being a really shallow guy

just fucking bounce. That applies to older dudes (and women, if you're bi) as well.

the f? find someone whos youre age give or take a few years

youre both young so you both can grow up together

>>17428002
Very wrong.
Submissive people are usually submissive because they are very insecure, and love to give up control to someone who can make them feel safe. As soon as that person can't do that anymore, they will cheat. I expereinced this on multiple occasions.

>>17427753
Age isn't what it used to be, as a proxy for being psychologically prepared to handle a relationship. It still works on the low end of the scale, but the bitter unfuckables have gotten numerous enough to skew the demographics at age ranges that were once considered quite safe. I'm afraid you're going to have to step up your anti-creeper heuristics beyond just looking at age.

Nag, you acn't generalize with age. Guys of all ages are douches.

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>>17428005
>>Younger

>Come on OP, your age gap isn't so bad, you are still in a good range if the guy you are pining for is 19. Not to say you won't find some rotten
>apples mixed in, but you have to be a good judge of character and hopefully toss out the bad ones before it's too late. That will be true for men all across the board tho.

>Now one thing I will say is if you continue to humor younger men while you are still getting a bit older, be mindful of their age. When I was 16 I was in talks with a woman 7 years older than me and oh boy. Did I fall for her hard. It was one of the best relationships I've been in. Either that or my rose colored goggles won't come off. Anyway some time down the road she called it off due to the age gap and the fact that we were both in different places in life. What I'm trying to say is keep in mind that the younger they are and the older you get has a good chance of turning into a deal breaker for a relationship
>>17428005
This was very helpful thank you

Nothing wrong with dating older guys. In fact you should give it a try, you would probably be happier.

t. 34 year old dating 23 year old.

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>>17430750
>Nothing wrong with dating older guys. In fact you should give it a try
Still haven't met an older guy that has enough in common with me or doesn't have the creep vibe to him

>>17428031
I'm a sub and I'm obsessed with my bf. I can't even watch porn anymore without feeling bad because its not him.

>>17427753
literally everyone 18-23 is the same mentality

>>17430875
Because you're infatuated. Once that's gone, reality will set in.

I've been with two older dudes and they were both awful. Manipulative, physically forceful, probably did those things because they thought since I was young they could get away with it. The guy I'm dating now is my age. About 10 years younger than the former guys and he is treating me better than any man in my entire life has. Including my own father. Yea he's young and has a lot to learn but so do I, point is we are both respectful and he is way more caring and honest.

My point is maturity and shallowness don't always have to do with age, its just the person inside really.

>>17430858
I'm with an older guy and don't care if we have anything in common. There is no drama at all and he doesn't try to keep a thumb on me all the time. I come and go and the sex is awesome. I know this isn't long term and he's not look for a wife so we're good

>>17430884
We've been together a year and at first I wasn't even sure I liked him at all and nearly broke up. I only grew obsessed in the last 2 months and it just keeps getting stronger.

We never had a honeymoon phase. Our love was built, not found.

>>17430750
Says the creep.

>>17430892
Doesn't sound like you're "with" him. It just sounds like you're fucking.

Don't generalize, OP.
There are very mature young guys as well as immature.

>>17428005
This guy knows. Older 20+ year old women worth their weight in gold as a girlfriend if you're a teen. They can actually act mature and nurturing, unlike your average insecure high school bitch. I had a five year older girlfriend, and I have learnt more from her about life and got more help to become the successful man I'm now than from any other girl in my life.