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Sexual urges

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Femanon here.

I'm 18 and over the last couple years i've had this insatiable sex drive. Like i think about fucking all the time, i think about how "big" guys that i pass on the street are, i think about what a girl's tits/nipples look like, and i want to fuck aaaalllll the time. I'm ALWAYS horny. I've only had sex three times in my life and i don't act off these urges but it's SO hard not. I feel like i literally need to bite a fucking bullet every time i pass up the chance to fuck or really want to fuck somebody. Please help. Is there a way to supress this better? Is this just a phase? It's such a hindrance.

To the trolls, don't bother calling me a slut, it won't offend me, it'll only probably make me hornier.
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just a phase

t. literally the same as you but male
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>>17427717

Teenage hormones. It will settle with time.
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>>17427717
why don't you just go get laid? Seems pretty straightforward
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Same here, 18 but male but my drive only appeared seriously for 3 years ago
I'm dying from sexual frustration
I can't do casual sex or hookups, and I've been single and sexless for 6 months now after a year long relationship
It's really difficult adjusting from spending a week per month with her fucking 3-5 times a day to absolutely fucking nothing

It will probably pass, I hope. You're not alone on this bullshit.
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>>17427717
You need a release. Some way of nailing, of filling cracks with hot, sticky goo, of handling lots and lots of hard wood of different sizes.

Become a carpenter.
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>>17427717
big as in height? why the quotation marks?

just remember the disgusting diseases you can get from fucking around
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>>17427717
You have high testosterone levels.
Welcome to feeling like a male.

Just rub one out when you feel like it, and that will help you think more clearly for a while. Physical activity and tiring yourself also helps subdue it.

Other than this, look for someone who's decent and could have a long term relationship with. Take some time to make decisions, and do them with a clear head, try not to think with your pussy while dating.
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There's nothing wrong with it. I know a girl exactly like you. Shes doing very well for herself now and tempers herself by signing up to a porn casting agency.
Just use protection and your head when making choices.

Some people just have higher sex drives and enjoy exploring their sexuality.

It was quite fun for me anyway.
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>>17427724
But it seems like NO other female my age is having as hard of a time as i am
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>>17427740
You're an ass lmao
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>>17427717
Masturbate more slut. I'm in my late twenties and I do it 3 times a day to keep myself under control.
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Yea just a phase. M-23 here and it will settle. Best thing you can do is just accept it, and enjoy the ride. Get what ya can when you can, just be safe about it is all.
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>>17427749
that is because like you, they think it is something different and only they are having this much of a problem with it, so they dont talk about it to their friends. But it does happen, to almost everyone (some people just dont have a sex drive, and thats fine to)
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>>17427772
I would love to. But apparently, according to society, that would make me a "slut"
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>>17427781
Ya know what I say about that? Fuck 'em. Don't let what other people think about you ruin what you think about yourself. Society is fucked up. Sex is fun, no one can deny it, and nothing is wrong with enjoying yourself. You are not society, you and you, so go and be you
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>>17427740
This cracked me up
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>>17427717
london?
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>>17427781
You don't have to fuck the neighborhood to have sex often. You only need to find one guy who would do it for you three times a day, and it's not that hard to find, because guys are hormone fueled sexbots at that age, just like you.
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>>17427717
>18
>female
>in heat
that's normal. you're in your sexual prime
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>>17427794
I love the way you think...

You're right.
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I have this a lot, it's sort of just an inherent drive that hasn't put through social sublimination, and probably mixed up with an obsessive tendency towards sexuality. My girlfriend for example has no sex drive, at all, because she's a workaholic she derives an almost sexual pleasure from her job. This both annoys me, because I have your issue OP and want a lot, lot more sex, but also serves as a role model to me about the redirection of that energy, focus and thinking
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WHERE DO YOU LIVE?

But yeah, it's a phase, it will pass. Masturbate, but don't spend all your free time doing it. Find something to do and something to think about, it's also because you have nothing "important" on your mind. If you'd have some big worries or responsibilities you wouldn't be this horny all the time. You'll grow to miss this time.
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>>17427717
If you want to be a slut, be one. Don't seek validation from 4chan.
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>>17427824
I masturbate multiple times a day. It barely makes the struggle easier.
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>>17427860
Why don't you look for a serious boyfriend?
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>>17427861
Tired of getting my feelings hurt
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>>17427877
How do they hurt your feelings, if there is nothing between you?
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>>17427877
So you just want people to say it's ok to whore around? Come here for advice not for affirmation.
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>>17427882
It seems like everytime i get serious about somebody tgey end up manipulating me or taking advantage of me and my sweet, "aim-to-please" nature
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Get a hobby and exercise. You likely have a high concentration of testosterone.
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>>17427877
Starting to slut around now will put you more at risk of getting your feelings hurt when you will look for love later on.
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>>17427905
>aim-to-please" nature
This is your problem.
Being a people pleaser means you lack self respect. If you don't respect yourself, then others won't be able to respect you as well.
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Find a boyfriend
Doesn't need to be serious
Can be an open relationship
Get him to fuck you a couple times a day
And cuddle whenever not horny
It will kill the urges and you'll feel like a new person
Source: experience
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>>17427717
>Is this just a phase?
Yes, it stops around 70.
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>>17427914
I wouldn't say i'm a people pleaser, i just tend to spoil my SO when i get in relationships
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>>17427984
>just tend to spoil my SO when i get in relationships
Don't. Have more respect for yourself. Also, not all men are assholes who wants to exploit you or break your heart, there are some really decent ones that you can rely on.

Sleeping around also gets old fast, and makes you feel like a piece of meat for male consumption. Not the best feeling to have, at least to me.
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I was the same at 16-20

Then I grew out of these urges and now, at 24, I have the libido of a dead woman. I probably have sex once a month or so, if even then.
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>>17427740
10/10 advice
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>>17427998
You're right. But i'm almost desperate for some type of relief. I haven't broken down and resorted to sleeping around but the idea seems wonderful
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>>17427717
Why is this a problem?

Find some guys to fuck you. Being promiscuous is the big thing these days. I guarantee if you go on a dating site just looking for sex you'll find multiple guys/girls you like.

As long as you're being safe and not fucking anybody over, then what you do is your business.
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>Spend so much time laughing at reddit posters

>The more I hear women talk on here, the more it confirms all discussions on r/TheRedPill

>You will NEVER marry a sexually inexperienced cute girl you could have gotten merely 40 years ago

JUST
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>>17428018
The idea is nice, reality is less. Just masturbate, and keep dating.
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>>17428018
>I haven't broken down and resorted to sleeping around but the idea seems wonderful
This, lads, is the 21th century woman.

Good lord, no wonder there's no hope left.
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>>17428037
>wanting a sexually inexperienced girl

why? i want a confident girl who will suck my dick off and be my slut.
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>>17427781
I'll fuck you.
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>>17428054
Because there are studies that show a higher partner count affects a woman's pair bonding system. Get an inexperienced girl and TEACH HER to suck you off like a pornstar. Boom, set for life.
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>>17428054
Thank you. I just find it funny how guys can soend the majority of their lives sleeping around but then want the girl to be a saint.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with an experienced girl. (Difference between an experienced girl and a slut)
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>>17428089
The "slut v.s stud" myth has been debunked endless times, regardless of how frustrating for you it is.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pbvrGiL_s70
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>>17428100
Don't really care about what you or that website is talking about dude. Sorry.
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>>17427794
Society is fucked so I may as well be part of the problem, disgusting tbqh
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>>17427717

It'll pass until your mid-30's and early 40's then it'll come back with a vengeance.

If you do start sleeping around DO NOT GET FUCKING PREGNANT; I know it feels good to bareback and let him cum inside you but you'll fuck up your life if you do.

I'm 30 and a guy; sex doesn't really do it for me anymore. I mean, it feelsgoodman but I enjoy the hunt more than the end result.

If I want to cum, I just jerk it to internet porn in 3 minutes.

When I was younger, I'd have 3-5 hour jacking sessions to porn and was a total pussy hound.

Ah, to be young again.

Winter is coming.
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>>17428143
I take my bc pill religiously so there's no way of the happening lol. But thanks for the input
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>>17428122
> I don't care that my argument is shit and I'm too ignorant to listen to other people!!

This will probably have the undesired effect of turning you on, but I'm so disgusted by your lust, that I just wanna throw you into my basement and treat you like the disgusting cum dumpster you are. You get a few meals every day, but most of your protein will come from busting my load in your throat after nearly choking you to death. I don't like you.
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>>17428100
What does a stand-up comedian know about relationships? Is he also a social scientist on the side? A psychologist? Why should I listen to his opinion?
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>>17428172
Hey babe, that's your fantasy not mine. Came from your mind--whose lust should you really be worried about.

Sounds hot though.
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>>17428182
Solid point. You're asking the important questions lol
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>calling me a slut, it won't offend me, it'll only probably make me hornier.
Then why are you asking us?
You want to be degraded and give up control to your desires, because you feel you can't control them anymore. Be aware though, that degradation will also come with a loss of respect.

>inb4 promiscuos men
That's not the fair comparison.
The fair comparison is submissive men who give in to their desires and let their lives be guided by it, and they do everything just to be near a pussy. What you want is getting drunk, not enjoying a good wine.
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>>17428085
An inexperienced girl is just as likely to break up with you/cheat on you. In fact, its more likely that she'll want to experience more than some delusional faggot like you can offer her. The girls who want to settle down have usually already played the field and had enough.

Plus your theory is absurd. If a girl my age is a virgin then she's got some sort of problem or is just asexual, which I'm not interested in at all. I want a confident, smart woman. Not some mental 10-year-old who i can try to impress with my Pokemon collection.

You will never find your perfect virgin gf who will never cheat on you. You need to leave your house and actually try to learn what real people are like.
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>>17428195
>You want to be degraded and give up control
That's not what i want. I came here because i seek methods on how to reduce the constant sexual tension i feel without sleeping around and/or giving in to my desires.
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I turned 18 last week.
My sex drive is dead. This I beat off to some smut about an anime girl but it didn't even feel good, I was just doing it because I didn't yesterday.
Hell my will to live is dead. All I did today was browse 4chan.
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>>17428208
Thank you for the reality check anon. Beautifully explained
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>>17428217
You said calling you a slut would make you hornier. That means you have the desire to become one, and after reading the thread, it seems that this is what you want, you just have uncertainties about it.

Sex drive is a natural thing. If masturbation doesn't help, the only thing that does is either a long term relationship with someone who loves you and whose kids you wouldn't mind having, or a very strong willpower and self control.
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>>17428208
Have fun with your divorce.
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>>17428236
> a long term relationship with someone who loves you and whose kids you wouldn't mind having, or a very strong willpower and self control.

or having sex with as many people as you want, which, if you're a female, is easy. you fucking virgins are driving me up the wall
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>>17428236
Lmao /thread/

OP; after reading the thread, nothing anyone will say will save you from your lack of self control. You will just have to submit yourself to desire, then swallow the tough pill that men in the future will not be interested in being with a women who's fucked many men. The best and only advice I have for you is to be safe along the way, and pls don't infect people when you inevitably catch something.
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>>17428245
have fun never having sex or a relationship
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Why are all the sluts in this thread trying to turn an 18 year old into one of you
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>>17428236
That was meant to be ironic.

Of course my urges would lead me to want to sleep around and do whatever i want. But my willpower prohibits me. So i came here looking for other solutions. I don't desire to fuck around randomly dude
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>>17428208
>>17428262
The sheer amount of rage in your posts make you seem like a little faggot who can't control your tantrum. Look, no girls like a white Knight pussy like you to jump at their side when someone disagrees with them. Please control your estrogen, you're drying up all the pussy in a 500 km radius.
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>>17428278
Jesus Christ just fiddle yourself like a normal person
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>>17428280
>perfectly reasonable posts with little to no ad hominem
>rage
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>>17428257
If you knew how to read, you would have known that the question she asked excluded that.

>>17428278
Kudos to you then. Later on willpower will pay off. To make that later on earlier, start dating, and look for someone who can love and appreciate you. Heartbreaks will get better as you get more experienced. Until then if it's really bad, get something like pic related. It's not sex, but when your legs don't work for 20 mins, it relieves a lot of that tension.
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>>17427717
lmao you slut
if your sex drive is that intense and you don't actually want to be a big dumb whore then just mastrubate
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>>17428262
I have a wife, and we've been together just fine for the last eight years. I'm her second, she's my third. None of us are sluts.

I accept your opinion, I also recognize that there are numerous people who's lifestyle choices and worldview is described by your opinion well, but please refrain from generalizations and selling it as an objective all encompassing truth and turning to ad hominems when you are met with criticism.
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>>17427717
Hot 2bh, probably gonna think of this when I see my gf tonight
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>>17427717
Craigslist personals -- Looking for 3 BBCs TONIGHT!!!
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>>17428018
same here OP and I too didn't want to sleep around with a bunch of guys and hated being in a relationship and the guy try to own me. I found an older guy, like 40 year old guy that frequented the place I work. Oh my fucking god after a fuck session with him my pussy is spent. Still horny as hell all the time but I just go over his house and ride. He doesn't want a relationship, I don't want a relationship. Neither of us want to go out and socialize. He doesn't call to find out where I am or who I talk to but for me at least I get all the dickin I can handle.
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>>17427717
>Big guys
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>>17428289
Shaming people for not having a high partner count is not a "reasonable post", bub.
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>>17428322
So you suggest that i keep an eye out for an older guy??
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>>17428344
Uumm I don't think that's what he waa trying to do at all
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>>17428322
Try to find a hobby to occupy your mind and hands. Rub one out as you feel you need to.
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>>17428329
If I take that condom off will you die?
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>>17428351
hell yes. I never thought much of it but this guy kept coming in (I thought he was mid thirties) he was good looking, in shape so I tried flirting with him and he bit and was very clever. Great thing is no one knows, I ain't telling and he doesn't know anyone that I know so we're good. He fucking last foreverrrrrrrrrr.
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>>17428373
It would be very messy
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>>17428364
don't have to I got a real live warm one with my name on it.
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>>17428383
you're a big guy
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>>17428379
Nice. I like that advice lol I'll definitely keep that in mind
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>>17427749
This is cultural. Women that are too sexual are seen as slutty, vulgar, and not ladylike.

Research surveys have shown that the average woman is as sexual as the average man. Men can just ahow it because it's a sign of vigor.

You're normal.
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>>17428294

Oh man, I bought this for an ex-grillfriend off Amazon and it came with that amplifier box that had a knob dial you could use to crank that fucker to 11 aka Jack Hammer setting.

Must be why she broke up with me.

A dildo in her pussy, beads in her ass and this monster on her clit.

I was made redundant as fuck.
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>>17428441
LMAO i'm so sorry about that. I'm sure she lost someone special
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>>17428294
>>17428441

Oh and then to top it off (Literally) I got her this.

It attaches to the head of the Hitachi wand so it stimulates the inside of her pussy and her clit.

I can't compete with that; it was just a good thing she had a 'Big Brother' complex and raep fantasies.

I'm 30, she's 21; her 24 year old brother joins the Marines. He comes home on leave and the family has dinner, I'm invited.

I look 95% like this guy; dark hair, blue eyes, broad shoulders, a few freckles across the bridge of this nose.

I'm sitting between them; I at her with a feeling of disgust and arousal.

I start joking with him and making him laugh on my right while my left had is rubbing the inside of her thigh.

Not to digress but she had a 26 year old brother in the Army who she couldn't give a fuck about. At some point he called and asked how she was doing; she told him she started dating me and school was going well.

She told me that he said when he met me, he was going to tell me to treat his sister well and not do anything to hurt her. He was also at that dinner; I looked over at him and said "No worries Matthew, I treat your little sister very well and am a perfect gentleman to her."

He looked down while blushing; I later found out that before joining the Army, he was cleaning his LOADED semi-automatic in his room and it went off out the window.

I then asked him what the first rule of cleaning your weapon was; he whimpers "Always verify your firearm is not loaded."

His family looks confused; her dad has to quickly change the subject.

Oh man, priceless.
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>>17428496
LMAO dude if you have more wild stories like this i could read them all day! Your life must be very entertaining
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>>17428511

Are you serious or just want to subscribe to my blog?
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>>17428552
I'm serious, you're hilarious. I'd love to read your blog if you have one
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>>17428557

Haha, I don't have a blog but I do have a ton of hilarious stories about her and other grillz, I've dated over the years.

When you're 30, you'll have tons of your own.

I usually creep around here so you'll see them from time to time.

And you'll always know it's me because:

I'm 30 and winter is coming.
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>>17427717
>a way to supress this better?
Sorry no way, you could watch for a boyfriend/girlfiend or maybe a fuck budy (as I understand you dont look for something more emotional than phisical).
Beware of double standards

>insatiable sex drive
Both men and women had urges at that age, dont be ashamed. Maybe you can get a work that take your mind busy and out of heat.
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>>17428681

Grill looks too high maintenance for my tastes.

I'll keep my 'Girl next door' grillz who can go from low 7's to solid 8's based on clothes, hairstyle and makeup.

Or booze and/or drugs bringing them up to 9s and 10s.
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>>17427740
Missed you pham
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>>17427740

You know, although funny, it's still kind of true. Chicks that work trade jobs get passed around a jobsite like a piece of meat.

>I work on a multi-billion dollar project
>pussy of every creed and colour
>I can't count the amount of times I've blown a load inside some random whore
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>>17428895

Living the Dream, comrade


My:

Kill count: 65-75 different grillz.

Load blown: Over 9,000

Age: 30
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>>17428126
Society is fucked because they have taken a completely natural activity like sex and demonized and put it on a pedestal so high that people need to have assurance that sex is OK and not some rare end-game trophy.

Accepting that sex is natural and there is nothing wrong with it, no matter how many people you are intimate with, or how little for that matter, as long as it is your decision and you enjoy your life.
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>>17427717
does size matter to you ?
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>>17428100
First off, this coming from a guy who starts his routine bitching about how his major problem in life is how his girlfriend won't take it up the ass. Then owns that he doesn't give a shit if his girlfriend cums.

Yeah, you take it up the ass, Jim Jefferies, then get back to me on how hard your life is.

Second, the video doesn't validate your point. It's like you just heard the words "slut" and "stud" and it wasn't someone complaning about the double standard, so you just took that as proof. All he argues is that it's easy to be a slut and hard to be a stud. I'm not denying that, all you have to do to get fucked as a girl in America is pretty much go to the bar and say "yes." But even he acknowledges that he likes sluts and doesn't want to be with a girl who isn't a slut. That's basically the point that everyone in this thread who is pro-female promiscuity is making. If you fuck a lot, you fuck better. Why wouldn't you want that? If you're gonna restrict yourself to only fucking one person for the rest of your life, don't you want them to be good at it?

Third, your lazy mode of argument reveals your tiny fuckin sub-retard brain. You're so unable to formulate your own opinions that you can't even restate in your own words the shitty ideas that you parrot from bumbling, hypocritical, self-obsessed comedians. You gotta post a fuckin video, only offering some smug one-liner that has no real argumentative content other than "ur wrong lol," and then just keep up with the one-liners that maintain your position and smugness while not actually arguing anything.

Tl;dr - kys desu, you have never had an original thought, and you will never contribute anything of value.
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>I'M A HORNY 18 YEAR OLD GIRL

>...

>105 replies

pathetic.
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>>17428303
Not the anon you were talking to, but
>complaining about ad hominem
...d-did you forget which website you're on? This isn't Facebook, old-timer.

>>17428344
Is this you? Is this the same guy? Are you actually complaining about "shaming" on 4chan?

Goddammit. What happened to the 4chan I loved? Where's the self-deprecation thinly veiling deep self-hatred? Where's the forever alone? Where are the constant emotional harassment and feelings of inadequacy? Fucking Christ, people come on here and they act like their feelings matter now.

Post something cool or smart and I'll appreciate that. I don't give a fuck about you or your feelings. You're just some asshole on the Internet, just like me. Nobody cares.
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>>17429601
I know it's not facebook, but I'd he wants to be taken seriously, he needs to provide content as well, not just a foaming mouth.
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>>17429641
Dude, you're the one who said "Have fun with your divorce."

I'm actually not sure what's gotten so much under your skin. Is it that he was critical of having a lower partner count? If so, be less sensitive. Is it his insulting generalizations about your character? If so, also be less sensitive, that's just how communication works here.

But the reason for the generalizations was, I think, because he (like I) assumed that you were one of the previous posters whose argument came down to "don't fuck a lot of people when you're young because nobody will want you when you're older." Which argument I think both of us personally found gross, because it was both hypocritical and selfish on the part of men. His generalizations come from a kind of jaded worldview that I find realistic, but can only affirm anecdotally.

Your point about a woman's pair-bonding system is well taken and scientifically supported. But both your point about higher partner counts and his points about lower partner counts are generalizations. There are plenty of women (anecdotally, I know plenty) who buck the trend (probably due to high testosterone or something, I'm not a biologist), and like the stereotypical man, sow their wild oats, then want to settle down as they age.

I guess people should just respect people who don't want to have that many partners and people who do want a lot of partners. It reminds me of this conversation I had with my Catholic friend, who's of course saving herself for marriage. Basically it came down to, plenty of people sing the praises of saving yourself, of not sleeping around, or of sleeping around. But there's no way to know what something else would be like. Me personally, I have to go with the option that gives me the most opportunities for research before deciding on a for-life partner. Sexy research, that is.
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>>17429726
I said the divorce comment because it is a fact that promiscuous people can't appreciate their relationships as much as non promiscuous ones. I didn't mean it as a personal attack.

What's gotten under my skin is that he automatically assumed I'm some raging virgin without any real life experience of the problem. I didn't assume him anything, and I expected the same from him.

My argument is that the more you treat people as experiments, the less you will be able to respect and value the relationship they can give you. People who always have three backups, and are experts at getting over breakups like nothing won't put nearly as much work into a relationship, then someone who's emotionally much more invested. If you strangle a kitten, that's horrible. Once you strangled a dozen, you will strangle the next without any second thought if it's meowing annoys you.

What kind of anecdotes you know that support his worldview?

Actually studies show strong correlation with men's pair bonding system as well. It just gets distorted in different ways.

So what you say is that because women with high test (like you I presume) have a high natural sex drive, their pair bonding system is different, and they can still form healthy and strong bonds after a lot of promiscuity?

I agree with you on respect. My experience with friends and relatives is that those who are not sleeping around or saving themselves for marriage have stronger marriages with better communication. I was a nut for pussy, when I was in my early 20s, but I don't regret not sleeping around a lot. I had my way with my then girlfriend multiple times a day, and if something wasn't as we liked it, we communicated. I taught her how to suck dick better, she taught me how to eat her pussy the way she likes it, and at the end it was fun and fullfilling for both of us.

My problem with having lots of partners is that it sets you on a mindset to be judgemental, and less communicative and problem solving.
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>>17428496
How did you not get insecure over the Hitachi? Really struggling with that right now.
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>>17430058
Why did you buy it for her?
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This thread is god damn disgusting.
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>>17428208
>An inexperienced girl is just as likely to break up with you/cheat on you
Wrong. The higher the sex partner count, the more likely to cheat. Applies to both men and women. Don't know about breaking up. When a partner is used to more varying sex, they will desire it more. I've had two perfect virgin GFs, and they have been completely sexually satisfied and only one of them had weird sexual anxiety for the first 2 months, whereas someone who had multiple partners just went ahead and cheated on me, then left me for him when she was stuck in a hospital due to some autoimmune disorder.

This also applies to four of my female friends. The promiscous ones, as in party girls, always cheat. They go on trips to France simply to fuck, they fuck whoever they think is hot at a party and the only reason they keep the boyfriend around is to fuck when there isn't partying.

I myself would prefer a count less than 5, maybe tolerate higher it if my partner is 18-21, over 10 is just a no from experience.
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>>17430199
I made an error derp
*tolerate higher if my partner is older than just 18-21
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>>17430086
Its not a Hitachi but a smaller battery powered one. Bought it cause the thought turned me on but now i only feel insecure. Just want to get out of my head.
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>>17430214
I got over it by realizing I jerk myself off too when I want a quick release, and can make myself cum much faster than with her. That doesn't mean I don't want her anymore.
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>>17430237
Its more the fact that a vibrator is a sensation I can not reproduce on my own. I dont mind her masturbating at all. Just kind of feel like I'm obsolete even though she tells me i make her feel much better.
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Hit me up bby if you want to relieve those urges.
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Between the ages 17-21, I was so horny, I would masturbate for hours on end. During work, I would have to take breaks to masturbate in the bathroom.

It gets easier, but when that happens varies from person to person. My method of calming myself down when things got too bad was to go completely overboard on masturbation. I'd have one day where I'd set a few hours aside, get out my fanciest toys, and fuck myself until I was completely exhausted. That would tide me over for a few days, if not a full week.

Another thing you can do is try to distract yourself. Exercise if you're into self-improvement, video games if you'd rather chill.

Last option, become a camgirl and make some money off of it.
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>>17430430
Tell her to give you a handjob, and ask yourself if she could reproduce what you do as well and as efficiently.

P. S. : fucking a vibrating pussy while it's pushed against her clit feels great
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>>17428054
>MY
>slut

You can only have one bruv
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