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My boyfriend can't stay hard? 2016-08-04 15:34:39 Post No.
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My boyfriend and I recently lost our virginities to each other just a couple weeks ago. We have had sex three times since then and it's getting better each time, yet if we stop for a little, he'll get soft. Even if it's just for a second. He gets soft so fast and we have to hurry to get the condom on before he gets soft. I asked him if He's not turned on enough and he says it's definitely not that, he just thinks something might be wrong with him. He is not one to lie, we've been together too long for him to be uncomfortable telling me things. Should we try viagra maybe? That is just a bit odd because he is twenty years old, not fifty.
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he´s just nervous
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>>17427022
This. Try getting him to relax by sucking him off, whispering things in his ear. Pacing is important, he needs to feel like there's rush.
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still happens to me once in awhile, especially with a new girl.
That's why first dates are usually blowjobs only then if they're good at that next date i should be able to dick 'em down no prob
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>>17427019
>My boyfriend and I recently lost our virginities to each other just a couple weeks ag
That's sweet. :)
Cuddle up to him, be lovey dovey, and feel up his dick while you watch netfilx. If he can stay hard for a prolonged period of time from just that, it's 100% nervousness, and he will get better with practice and as he gets more confident.
To give him confidence, the best way is to express your pleasure VERY visibly, and take the initiative. Feel him up, take off his pants, give him a bj, push him on the bed, get on top, start riding him while moaning a lot (!), let him take it from there.
Ask him if he gets soft when he masturbates?
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>>17427019
This is normal. It just happens.
Sex is often times a lot of physical work for the guy, and sometimes boners just don't cooperate.
And putting on condoms is a total boner killer for lots of guys. Maybe you can try putting it on for him while you're stimulating him.
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*Get the thinnest condom you can find
*Put a little of the lube on the inside- that increases sensation
*hold it in your hand before you open it, so it's warm.
If there's a pause, just start making out again- don't make a big deal of it, and it won't be.
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>>17427019
Yeah he's just nervous, and could very well be beating himself up over it inside, I know I did. Don't make a big deal out of it, just be patient with him and let him do other stuff to you if it happens. That's what my girlfriend did the first time and I was so ecstatic she was that cool about it that I was never nervous again and it never happened again, now we fuck like rabbits.
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>>17427202
This. If I eat my gf out for example I will always lose my boner. Some guys just need the stimulation and focus. Just don't make a big deal out of it.
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>>17427019
Tell him to stop jerking off and watching porn. 100% better boners
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