I am an older guy. I divourced with my wife a year ago and I am now using online dating sites. I met a woman in her mid-30s for a couple of times. She seems pleasant and perfectly fine, but she told me that in all her life she never had a relationship before. Should this be a dealbreaker? She tells me that she was depressed and unhappy in the past and that she was very shy.
do you have any thoughts about what it could indicate if it were a red flag?
obviously if she doesn't want to be in a relationship you won't have to worry about getting into a relationship. i recommend you proceed, dad
>>17423743
It is just a bit strange that she never had a date in the past
>>17423718
Some people never date until their 60s and then they find love. If she seems ok and stable and like her you could try
>>17424263
Not sure if deal or not
Just go for it
It's strange but in itself not a dealbreaker. Maybe it was for a good reason, maybe not. Keep dating her anyway and see where it goes.
>>17423718
>but she told me that in all her life she never had a relationship before.
>She tells me that she was depressed and unhappy in the past and that she was very shy.
Anon you have found someone who is willing to open up to you and reveal her insecurities. She is trusting you with parts of her that probably make her feel uncomfortable.
There is no perfect person out there. You will need to decide what is the right fit for you and what sort of human failings you are willing to accept in a partner. No one else can decide that for you.
That said, surely there are a lot of good people out there who have suffered from loneliness, depression, unhappiness, and shyness. This is pretty normal stuff.
yes its a dealbreaker
now hand her number to me