Hey all, I need advice on fingering. My girlfriend and I enjoy

>>17423571
Has she ever cum from penetration before in her life? Because something like 70% of women can't.

>>17423571

Use your tongue.

>>17423585
How? I have no experience doing so and It'd probably be senseless licking amounting to nothing.

>>17423732
Has she ever masturbated before? Ask her which position she masturbates in and how she does it. Go for clitoral stimulation, rather than fingering which can be down right painful (especially for a girl with little experience).

Also, don't put too much pressure on her having an orgasm because that just acts as a distraction. With female orgasms, you need to keep a constant, prolonged pace and if she gets distracted by thoughts of "I havened come yet, it's taking too long" it will just set you back.

Also, oral. Being eaten out is just heaven.

>>17423571
>She gets so wet and then all of a sudden she just dries up even though she moans and whimpers and states she's gonna squirt. It's extremely frustrating
Firstly, squirting isn't real, it is piss, it is clear because they only have water for a day or two beforehand, there is no secret way that porn guys fuck women into squirting that you can't achieve, it is just piss.
Seeing as you don't know this, I'd say your considerably more experienced girlfriend is just talking dirty.

Aslo if you want to get a girl off without fucking her or going down on her, play with the clit.
You wont get her to piss on you (or you might, seeing as she says that sort of shit), but you might make her climax.

>>17423732
Sounds about right to me lol. It aint rocket science, and it won't amount to nothing. Lick the clit, suck on it, etc.

>>17423764
>Also, don't put too much pressure on her having an orgasm
Ugh this. I can't orgasm, never have, likely never will. I still have plenty of fun without the big ending though, but I remember when I was young and inexperienced feeling so self conscious about this fact. I faked it all the time, in similar ways OP's describing his gf "I'm gonna cum/squirt, despite being dryer than the Sahara over here" because I felt like my dude would be disappointed if I didn't "cum". Even worse, I had dudes who would not be satisfied until I "came" and would just keep beating a dead horse (which is actually painful fyi), so I'd fake it just to end the night.

So OP, I highly suspect this could be happening, she dries up because she's done with the experience, she's no longer getting anything out of it but because she didn't cum she might feel like I did and try to fake an orgasm just so it can be over.
If she doesn't cum, that's fine and tell her that. So long as she enjoyed the ride it doesn't matter if you make it to the destination or not you know?

>>17423799
For me personally it wouldn't be fine. Makes me feel like a failure of a man if I can't make my partner orgasm. I know that's just how it is for some women but I couldn't handle it. Insecurities are not to be underestimated

You're an idiot if you enjoy foreplay that only she really 'enjoys'.
beta fag nobody can give you the right advice
shes going to leave you for someone else and that will be considered better because you failed that means you suck and go feel bad

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>>17424868

>For me personally it wouldn't be fine. Makes me feel like a failure of a man if I can't make my partner orgasm

That there, my friend, is classic insecurity. Women hate it, especially the ones that physically can't orgasm.

>>17423571

Not all women can orgasm. An even smaller percent can orgasm from physical penetration.

Stop making this about you. Nothing is worse to a woman than some guy who hammers away at her vagina, completely ignoring whether or not she's actually enjoying the experience just because he'll feel like less of a man if he doesn't make her cum.

Its irritating. Sex is not the same for women as it is for men. For men the goal is cumming. For women, the goal is physical and emotional connection. An AMAZING number of women will tell you that while orgasm is great its not the primary goal for sex, especially while in a relationship.

Ask her what she likes. Be a generous lover. Be attentive. Her drying up is not always a sign that she's not into it, her vagina isn't an endless supply of lubrication. Sometimes dryness just happens.

Go down on her. Be gentle, start slow, work your way up. If you and her share good communication she'll teach you to make her cum, assuming she's able to do it on her own. AND if it turns out she can't, stow your ego and accept it.

Your insecurities aren't her problem and its unfair to lay that on her just because you want to feel like an alpha male. Before all the 4chan manlets come down on me for saying that I'd say the same thing to a woman who thinks that her boyfriend's occasional erectile dysfunction or porn habit is because he doesn't find her attractive. Insecurities affect men and women equally.

Follow my advice and you'll do fine. Worst case scenario, you're still having sex with a cute girl. Not bad.

>>17425008
I said it's an insecurity, didn't I? I know it's unattractive but it's hard to get over. I'm trying though.