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Hey /adv/
I've been dating this girl now for close to five years. She is the one I lost my virginity to, its a long distance one too.
Anyway, we were spilling our guts about things we've done bad and I admitted that when we were 20 (24 now) I cheated on her and when we took a year "break" I had sex with another chick again.
She is mad, understandably so, and wants me to apologize. I don't want to. I regret nothing. Yes it was a mistake but I don't feel that at that point in our relationship it was not truly long term or really serious at that time.
Am I being bull headed or is she?
tl;dr:
Cheated on girlfriend before we got really serious. She found out years later and is mad. What do?
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>>17418718
if you think it's understandable that she's mad why do you also think you have nothing to apologise for? you definitely do need to apologise btw.
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Define break
Maybe apologise (sacrifice) (no you arent weak)
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>>17418730
We broke up. We stopped talking and had no communication for a good year.
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>>17418729
Sure, I understand that she is mad, but we were not serious at the time. I wouldn't claim that barely a year into some long distance dating.
We are serious now. We've been serious since we got back together.
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a year break, what the fuck. that's not cheating, that's being single and fucking a girl.
You are right in not wanting to apologize. Unfortunately for you, if you two are staying together, she will hang this over your head and not fail to bring it up anytime she seems fit.
btw, did she spill the beans on what she did during this year?
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>>17418756
this basically
your apology will never be enough to satisfy her. never. stand your ground. she'll love you more. I guarantee it.
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