Questions about breaking up.

Only read part one, but you are fucked op. Sounds like it should be a horror movie. Please leave. You could also set fire to the house while everyone is asleep.

(2/2)

We have both been doing bad things, talking and flirting with other people. I have tried to stop, but it is obvious I am happy right now.

Since I have no car and no friends (and was extremely lonely before I got in this relationship) I am afraid I will end up alone for a long time, and being with her is better than being trapped without transportation or some companionship.

I am also afraid that if I leave her that I will look like a freeloader. At least half of my money has went into my GF, but I still feel like it will look that way. Her mom can also go off the rails if someone does her kids wrong and desu I'm afraid she will do some batshit crazy stuff on me.

One option I am considering is staying for another semester. I'm going to be hitting the gym really hard and maybe I can motivate her to as well. I've heard losing weight can increase libido and it would make her more physically attractive. It also will make it seem less like I used her for free rent.

I really need advice on how I should approach this. Ask any questions and I will answer them truthfully.

I meant to write unhappy and not happy.

>>17415968
>>17415990
You can stay and be miserable, or you can leave her and be happy. The choice is yours

>>17415968
OP, face it. You needed this girl to house you while you need of housing. The relationship didn't develop and you're getting housing soon.

Get your housing, move forward without her.

and this >>17415984

You got what you ultimately needed, now it's time to say your goodbyes.

>>17416004
This.

I am a single Dad with 2 kids. I have helped them with all I have at this point, including personal hygiene.

If my 15yo daughter asked me to cut her toenails, I'd smack her ass upside the head with a fucking kayak paddle.

>>17416004
>>>17415968 (OP) (You)
>OP, face it. You needed this girl to house you while you need of housing. The relationship didn't develop and you're getting housing soon.
>Get your housing, move forward without her.
>and this >>17415984
>You got what you ultimately needed, now it's time to say your goodbyes.

We met over a year ago we both got dumped and were just looking for someone to talk to. It was through YikYak. She pursued me for months and I eventually decided to become official because it was nice to have someone with common interests to hang around with. Housing never was even a consideration for the first 6 months.

I still like the girl, and it's been tearing me up being in limbo whether or not I should end it. I don't want to do anything I might regret.

She sees a future with me, her friends like me a lot, and her family (while fucked up) likes me a lot too. I'm not lonely anymore, but as I've said I'm sexually frustrated.

Another fact to consider is that we have been living the the same room all summer. Maybe it's just because I am not getting my space is why it has went to shit for me.

I also have to mention that my last/first relationship was way worse than this. It was flat out emotionally abusive and messed me up a bit. I believe I will have issues trusting new women going forward.

>>17415968
are you that afraid of being alone? she sounds god awful

reminds me of a buddy that knocked up a girl who was already a single mom before he came along.

after getting her pregnant like an idiot he felt bad about leaving her because she went on daily rants on facebook about how hard it was gunna be being a single mom of two... from two different men... so he stuck around like the moron he is and I see a similar future for you once this batshit crazy woman pokes a hole in the condom one night

Why don't you try talking to her and telling her you're sexually frustrated? Or telling her that you feel like you need some alone time to yourself because being together all of the time doesn't leave you time to just relax the way you would if no one was around.

First thing on the list is moving out. You have to get me those drugs you had when you thought moving in with someone you haven't had sex with is a good idea.

Then you break up obviously.

>>17416245
>Why don't you try talking to her and telling her you're sexually frustrated? Or telling her that you feel like you need some alone time to yourself because being together all of the time doesn't leave you time to just relax the way you would if no one was around.

I have talked about to her a while ago. She said it was because she was insecure with herself. I feel like I shouldn't have to blatantly tell her, because I make it obvious that I want to fuck.

And regardless when I move back into my apartment, I will be asking for time alone.

>>17416271
>First thing on the list is moving out. You have to get me those drugs you had when you thought moving in with someone you haven't had sex with is a good idea.
>Then you break up obviously.

Well I'm a virgin too, so I just thought she needed time to make sure I wasn't going to pump and dump.