I work in a group with a shy quiet girl, who was definitely abused

That's a pretty bold assumption you're making there.

Or maybe she's just a shit person. Either way, she doesn't need you to 'save' her

Jesus fucking Christ, I bet Jeffrey Dahmer would've loved to have you as a friend.

>>17415781

what's going on? am i being weird again O_O?

don't forget your cape

only thing that might help her is being her friend and being there for her. and disregard everything you think you know about her til you actually spend some time talking to her. you are going way out on a limb assuming all that shit about her. there are many reasons people turn out the way they do.

>>17415790
Not particularly ...

The world needs heroes, sure. Be a firefighter or a 911 dispatcher and _wait_ for someone to ask for help.

I'm similar to the girl in OP, and trust me when I say I would tell you to go fuck yourself.

>>17415790
Kinda. You're assuming some role as this girl's super hero, when she may not even need it. Unless you see absolutely undeniable signs of abuse, then there's not a lot you can do.

>tfw know shy quiet people who weren't abused
OP kill yourself I wasn't abused and am pretty shy around people

okay you guys. Thanks for making me feel stupid. Yeah I forgot my own golden rule "never assume things", fuck!. Yeah I already give her w/e she needs. Her friend is same way too though, I was planning to give them a package.

>>17415853
>Yeah I already give her w/e she needs.
and you know this how?

>>17415853
>Her friend is same way too though, I was planning to give them a package.
do what now? like a group discount on unsolicited help or something?

>>17415732
Put it in her butt.

>>17415857
I was nice to her. Okay maybe I fucked up there too. I guess I should do nothing lol. I am starting to realize i've been doing shit based on assumptions.