Sex problem. What. The fuck is wrong with me?

>so what the fuck is wrong with me
you don't like chubby girls, I asked the exact same question

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>>17412489
You said you don't feel attracted to her, that probably has a lot to do with it.

Sounds like you're more interested in an emotional attachment than an attachment based solely off of appearance.

>>17412489
>I am not really attracted to this girl much honestly she is not my type but she is by no means ugly

So what if she isn't ugly? If she's not your type, she's not your type. Being ugly doesn't have anything to do with it. There are some people considered really attractive that I'm not attracted to at all because they're not my type.

The real problem here is that you're trying to force yourself to be attracted to her and your body is telling you flat out that you aren't attracted to her.

>>17412491

True. But sometimes when I would try to fuck my ex I would have the exact same problem.

>>17412493

I would agree with that

>>17412498

>The real problem here is that you're trying to force yourself to be attracted to her and your body is telling you flat out that you aren't attracted to her.

I guess you are right. But in the past with my first ex who I was more attracted to I would sometimes have the same issue when it came to fucking her. What do you think the problem is?

>>17412511
Having it sometimes is normal, it happens to every guy sometimes including myself and is usually caused by stress and even performance anxiety. That being said though, what you described in the OP is definitely due to her not being your type at all.

>>17412549

Ok thanks.

The OP aside. Next time I am with someone I am attracted to, how do I overcome performance anxiety?

>>17412564
I can't really help you there other than sharing a few of my own tips from my own experiences

>a good amount of foreplay, it is so underrated
>ease back on porn (not entirely but just less often)
>jack it less often
And pretty much just not thinking about it. Easier said than done I know but you get what I mean.

Oh and exercise, it can also help a lot.

>>17412577

Thank you. Now in your opinion does my foreskin being tighter when erect affect anything? Any tips for that?

>>17412580
I'm not actually sure what you mean by that so I don't think I can help there. Have you seen a doctor?

>>17412584

Not yet. I read about tight foreskin though and apparently it is an issue but maybe I should discuss it with someone

>>17412489
Hi op.
Have the same problem, and despite having had sex with 3 different women, im still uncertian if im a virgin or not.

The confusion is due to the fact that they were all fat, and as soon as i thought i got it "in" it slipped out.

Best attempt i've done is when i had a girl lay on her back on the bedside, and i was standing on the floor. That way you get a bit closer and it's easier.

Im still not sure if i fucked her pussy or her fat rolls though.

Im planning on getting viagra, just to get to experience what real sex is like. You should probably do the same. Even if it's only mental, you will keep fucking up because you will remember how it didn't work last time, and that will make you nervous again.

Successful sexual intercourse will probably remove anxiety and increase your confidence in your self.

>>17412595

Thanks good luck.

>>17412594
I think it actually could be part of the issue. I know there's a medical condition that sounds like what you're describing (the name escapes me though) so I think it's worth seeing a doctor about it.

>>17412489

>she is by no means ugly. She is just extremely promiscuous and has had a fuck ton of sex partners and is a bit chubby.

HAAAAAAAA HE FELL FOR THE SJW "FAT IS BEAUTIFUL" MEME

YOUR DICK DOESNT LIE, NIGGER, SHE AINT DOIN IT FOR YA

TELL HER TO LOSE WEIGHT

No, but seriously, I have the same problem.
I just fantasize about Azula from Avatar: The Last Airbender giving me a footjob in some kind of hateful way, and it keeps me hard the whole time.
I think about dead puppies and washing machines to not cum too fast

and i think about my ex gf being prostituted to cum quick. like, coercion exploitation kind of deal, then they give her drugs like ecstasy and film it so she looks like she's having the time of her life, etc.

>>17412595

STOP FUCKING FAT GIRLS IT'S THAT EASY OMG YOU FUCKING KEKS

>>17412601

You are probably right

>>17412603
I can't say it will work better with skinny girls because i haven't tried. In porn, most of the guys seem to have no problem fucking even the BWW chicks.

Another aspect is that its MUCH HARDER to attract a fit girl. Especially these days when virtually every other chick is fat.

They all think they're princesses and i can't impress or dominate them in the same way that i can with fat chicks, nuff said.

>>17412601
>TELL HER TO LOSE WEIGHT

As soon as you do this, your sexual relationship with her is over. No exceptions.

Do not ever say it if you want to keep the girl.

>>17412608

Pretty much this. The most attractive girl I attracted was a 7-8/10 red head. You can't be picky if you want to get laid.

>>17412489

I had this with my now girlfriend of 3 years at the very start, it was really hit or miss for a while because i was so concerned about it feeling good for her that i didnt even focus on enjoying the moment and would often go soft if i thought too much about it. Needless to say she mistook this for me not liking her and took it personally which didnt help and actually piled on more pressure for me to stay hard. What i found helped was just working back to foreplay if i went soft and then trying again, after maybe 3-4 different days of having sex some successfully some not it just started to stay hard all the time, because my nerves decreased to a point where it didnt overwhelm my body.

But in your case it sounds like you're not very attracted to this girl which i can understand playing a huge role, if you still insist on having sex with her try to find something you find sexy about her and focus on that, whether it be her ass or breasts or whatever, and dont psyche yourself out by focusing on what you might find unattractive about her body.

I have this exactly same problem, its fucking annoying. My ex was so fucking hot and i lost my virginity to her but after that i have been getting thoughts that i might stay hard and now ive gotten many moments where i could fuck someone but always skipped it due my insecurity of not staying hard. Might Just buy Viagra and get over this insecurity. Anyone can recommend where i could get viagra easily? And if someone has any tips getting over this i would be greatful.

>>17412714

Bump for this