gf did porn

>>17411433
Do break up with her if you feel this strongly, but no reason to share the link on Facebook or anything.

>>17411433
>I feel as if I should completely cut her out of my life and link the video on facebook so all of our friends and family get to see how much of a whore she is.

Yeah, don't do that. She fucked up, no need to drag her through the mud.

>>17411433
Because she herself might be incredibly regretful and ashamed of her past behaviour and not want to dredge up the past? You've been with her 2 years, talk it out and empathise.

>>17411433
No you shouldn't stay with her. She hid a part of herself for a whole 2 years. She has proven she will hide things and possibly lie to your face and be okay with it. Definitely cut her out of her life and for the video youd probably be made into the bad guy instead of her so don't bother. Just keep it just incase.

Was it amateur porn or an actual scene? Either way the past is the past. Has she lied to you about anything before? Maybe she was afraid you would react this way so she kept it a secret.

I'd have a long talk about it, but ending a two year relationship over something she did before you got together seems silly.

Evaluate your relationship and look at it from a larger picture. You are emotional and hurt right now, make your decision once that hurt weens down.

>>17411457
>I'd have a long talk about it, but ending a two year relationship over something she did before you got together seems silly.

I'm not op, but fucking guys for money on camera is pretty morally corrupt, even for me. I don't give a fuck about most things, but that's too low, imagine having a child with a porn star? One day little Jimmy goes to school and his mates are all.laughing because they've seen his mum get fucked by Tyrone like a whore.

dis gon be gud lads

People make mistakes man, don't act so quick. Talk to her about it.

>>17411437
>>17411440
Is sharing the vid on facebook worse than possibly exposing your partner to HIV? If I had knew what she did you couldn't have paid me to kiss those lips.

>>17411442
She is adamant she has no regrets in life and has always been like that. She helped me see regrets as learning experiences etc. It would be very out of character.

>>17411433
>why should I stay with this whore?

She never cheated on you, did she?

She's got skeletons in her closet, and she probably feels like shit about it. I really don't think kicking her out at this point is smart. You need to talk about this. If you've been with her for over 2 years, you obviously care about her. You can be mad that she didn't tell you, but dropping the whole thing just because she did something she regrets when she was younger is just pretty bad, man. And you'll probably regret it.

>>17411474
>Is sharing the vid on facebook worse than possibly exposing your partner to HIV? If I had knew what she did you couldn't have paid me to kiss those lips.

How do you know she didn't get herself tested after the fact to control for that exact possibility? Don't do it my man

You should probably calm down and talk to her about it, then make you decision. Flying into an uncontrollable rage will do no good for anyone

>>17411457
>Was it amateur porn or an actual scene?
Actually, that's a good point.

Is it revenge porn, as in: did she do a sex tape with and for an ex and then the ex put it online, or is it actually porn?

Fuck it fuck her im going through with it.

>>17411490
can you at least link the video

>>17411474
>Is sharing the vid on facebook worse than possibly exposing your partner to HIV? If I had knew what she did you couldn't have paid me to kiss those lips.

You're being a pretty big faggot. What difference does it make that she fucked a dude on camera as opposed to off? Legit porno has really high testing standards, so if she got HIV, she'd probably know it.

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>>17411442
>hides being a former fucking Pornstars from him for 2 years.
>talk it out and empathize

>>17411488
By ops reaction it is payed.

>>17411490
Fuck her odd but don't share the vid, it's probably what the friend wants you to do.

>>17411488
it's her being fucked bukkaked and gargling cum by about 30 guys so no it isn't some fucking revenge porn it looks like it was filmed

>>17411490
God, you're such a fucking faggot. You're going to get raked through the coals for this shit, and you'll deserve every ounce of it.

You're being petty as fuck. What's happening is between you two and no one else. Fucking bitch.

>>17411497
I think your the faggot. She got payed to have sex. She is basically a whore, not only this but thousands of people have seen her fucking. I'd kick her the fuck out. You're probably just a closeted cuck.

>>17411503
I don't actually want to believe this. If it were me I'd fucking murder her.

Still waiting for the video

>>17411504
I don't give a shit. I don't care what other people think I never have I have too much going on to waste time on that

>>17411507
No. You're the faggot. She did some shit once that she regrets. People have fucked up pasts. Yeah, she should have told you. Yeah, you've got a right to be angry. But posting the video on facebook? That's beyond the pale. You'll lose every bit of moral high ground you've got. You'll be the villain. Talk to her. Don't do this stupid-ass shit.

>>17411503
Who knows what the circumstances or context was to make her want to do that, OP. It's same difference, whether it was revenge porn or a single scene. It's not as if she was a pro career porn star for a professional production company that she was hiding from you.

>>17411512
You won't gain a god damn thing for posting it. You're fucking yourself up now.

>>17411509
same

POST THE VID OP

You said you were gonna facebook it. SHOW UP TOO

>>17411520
Wtf? Unless you live in some degenerate shithole people are going to think she's a disgusting whore and understand that OP is justifiably bad for the mostpart.
>>17411522
Are your seriously trying to rationalize letting a group of men cum all over you on camera?

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>>17411522
>Who knows what the circumstances or context was to make her want to do that

>>17411433
>cut her out of my life
probably a good idea.
>link the video on facebook
poor form. i advise against this.

do link us to the video, though. for scientific purposes and whatnot.

>>17411531
No. You'll think she's a disgusting whore. That's just how you are.

Generally, people recognize that a bad decision you made when you were young that hurt literally no one shouldn't define you for life. It's judgmental shit.

>>17411529
If I post the same link for it here you could easily find my fb.

>>17411538
I don't care about finding you on FB. I just want to fap

>>17411522
cuckold detected

>>17411537
>judegmental shit
>you wouldn't date a rapist for fear of being raped
>you wouldn't date a paedophile for fear of him molesting your children
>you wouldn't date a girl who fucks 30 men and swallows their cum for fear of adultery

If OP isn't going to prove his story, or demonstrate how bad this video is, I'm not sure if we can help.

>>17411503
holy shit OP just leave her she's scum

this is unforgivable

move out now who cares about money, money is nothing OP trust me money doesn't make you happy

>>17411537
Then why do criminal records exist you fucking idiot?
Do you live in some sort of dream land where people don't judge you by your past, or are you so insecure about yours that you defend it at any opportunity?

>>17411549
>Generally, people recognize that a bad decision you made when you were young THAT HURT LITERALLY NO ONE shouldn't define you for life.

Don't compare what she did to rape or molestation.

If he's afraid of her being faithful, that's a conversation the two should have in fucking private. It's nobody else's goddamn business.

>>17411551
I've made my decision and I'm waiting for texts/calls. She's with friends atm.

>>17411555
>move out now who cares about money, money is nothing OP trust me money doesn't make you happy
I own the house and I don't have a mortgage, there is no way in hell I am leaving my house, I brought it and paid it off before I met her, I'm only 25. I own my own business. Money does make you happy, happiness is just a reaction.

>>17411486
>>17411472
>>17411457
All op has to say is I can't start a family with this, I've been lied to this whole time. Being a pornstar is a huge deal and your acting like it's not

>>17411560
I'd much rather date a former child molester than a whore who let's dozen of men fuck her on camera for money. It's perfectly fucking comparable, and no well adjusted person is going to disagree.

>>17411520
I'm not op. Op said she doesn't regret anything. She is still a whore. Fucking disgusting. I do agree he shouldn't post the video though.

Why do guys make such a big deal over sex?

>>17411557
Again,

>Generally, people recognize that a bad decision you made when you were young THAT HURT LITERALLY NO ONE shouldn't define you for life.

What she did wasn't a criminal act. When faced with something like this, you need to give people the opportunity to speak for themselves. If she's moved on from that period in her life, sewing on the scarlett letter is fucking worthless.

I understand how this situation would establish a lack of trust within their relationship, but actual bystanders who realize that she did this shit ONCE and before she even met him will generally understand that people do shit they regret, and they change their ways.

>>17411574
Why do girls make such a big deal over sex?

>>17411564
>I've made my decision and I'm waiting for texts/calls. She's with friends atm.

Just call her, tell her she's a whore, and all her stuff is at her parents. Obviously go and dump all her stuff at her parents place first.

>>17411564
Make sure you post the messages/texts here

>>17411574
It's not the sex, it's the getting paid for it, having it filmed, and having a bunch of people fap to it.

>>17411576
Mate, you don't go from being a normal girl to having a bunch of guys fuck you are cum on your face, she's obviously done more than just that. You can date her once op dumps her.

>>17411576
You're absolutely delusional. Those "understanding" people only act a little nice to not cause problems. They'd all be calling her a worthless slut behind her back and none of them would actually date her.
The past doesn't just magically go away.

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still waiting for the video

put it on porn hub

>>17411576
You can't start a family with a literal cum whore, you are living in make believe land. Behavior and past choices matter when it comes to major moral/character flaws

Op is hateful
Replies dont have reading comprehension or the ability to articulate any points
Topic is probably completely made up, bait as fuck

sage

>>17411564
>I've made my decision and I'm waiting for texts/calls. She's with friends atm.

Have fun dealing with this shit, I guess.

All you had to fucking do was talk to her. If you're mad that she lied to you, you fucking cut her loose. If you don't think you can trust her, you fucking cut her loose.

Now you've taken this unnecessary step, and you've won absolutely fucking nothing. You made her life worse, you made your life worse, and now you have to fucking deal with it.

Dumb, childish motherfucker. Can't handle your shit like an adult, so you do shit like this.

>>17411599
THIS

>>17411579
Fine. Why is it most people make such a big deal over sex?

>>17411613
Because it's generally very intimate. To share your body with another person can mean quite a lot. And when someone treats like a fucking handshake it's degrading. Obviously nobody wants the girl who is letting anyone fuck her. Would you want a guy who casually fucks any girl to be the father of your children?

>>17411599
Just to summarize ... is OP posting the video or not?

>>17411600
Person don't act like you know me or I'm some molded human who conforms to whatever moral system you have.

I posted the video from one of the many false fb accs that are tied up with our fl friends and family, no one knows it's me and everyone thinks they're real people we went to hs with.

Her "bf" who showed me the vid is coming to collect her stuff. I will never talk to or think about this girl again and it won't be a big deal, I just went maniac for a moment there because she made me forget for awhile that all people are fundamentally selfish but with that in mind I will continue on as I always have.

You can sit behind your screen and say I'm not an adult because I didn't handle things the way you wanted to or the "standard" way, but to everyone outside out little bubble looking in, all they see is a guy from hs who left down a long time ago and happened to find a video of my gf being fucked and bukkaked by 30 guys.

Life's fall.

>>17411629
Good job, would have done the same.
So... uhh pics?

>>17411629
Her best friend knows what you did. Do you really think she'll keep quiet about it? You didn't dodge shit. Jesus Christ, you are a dumb motherfucker.

I hope you have fun dealing with the consequences.

Nice b8. You're all idiots. End this thread.

>>17411629
Out of curiosity, why would you have numerous fake Facebook accounts?

>>17411640
Can't man you should know how it goes.

>>17411647
>Her best friend knows what you did. Do you really think she'll keep quiet about it?
Yeah because her best friend, who told me all this, is obviously very keen to fuck me and I'm happy to string her along until all this blows over.

Stop talking about the consequences I have everything covered.

If I really wanted to commit I could wait a few months get into her fb and start messing with her friends and family. I'm not going to but I'm trying to give you a picture of the extent to which I could take this.

>>17411651
hey, anon. your new is showing. might want to lurk moar.

>>17411625
If that was in the past, yes. I have dated a former fuccboi in the past. A partners sex history shouldnt define them.

>>17411654
oh, this really is bait

>>17411659
Well, not everyone is dumb enough pick the one with the questionable past.

>>17411503
I feel like this thread is bait, OP probably would have mentioned this in the first place

>>17411713
Yeah, there's a lot of shit like this throughout.

Get your story straight first, OP. Try harder next time!

pretty disgusting op, I'd break up with her
>I feel as if I should completely cut her out of my life and link the video on facebook so all of our friends and family get to see how much of a whore she is.
that's an overreaction you'll regret fampai

>>17411676
Not everyone values a persons sex history more than a person personality.

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>>17411729
men do

>>17411433
>gf did porn


LMAAAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO


>>17411433
>I feel as if I should completely cut her out of my life and link the video on facebook so all of our friends and family get to see how much of a whore she is.


Actually would be a pretty good idea so people know why this shit went down and it can be a easy break.

>>17411433
That's horrible, but you shouldn't drag her life through the mud in front of all her friends and family; it'll reflect badly on you too.
What you should do is remain anonymous here, and post the link for us to see.

The anons in this thread who try to justify the woman's behavior are fucking deplorable.
>inb4 she made a mistake dude...
This isn't a small case, where her actions were a result of a fallacy, this was a universal case, where she thought and completely justified her actions, knowing and accepting the uncertainty of her future.
>OP should talk to her...
He shouldn't, she should've informed him in the beginning stages of the relationship that she did porn.

OP, you should leave her or you will be constantly reminded of your gf getting dicked by other men.

And I bet OP watches porn all day without a care in the world.

Why don't you look down on those women too, huh?

>>17411486
>>17411472
>>17411457
>>17411520
>>17411522
>>17411574
I bet you fuckers would never date a man who went to prostitutes.

>>17411629
>You can say I'm not an adult because I didn't handle things the way you wanted to
And he's right. You have multiple fake Facebook accounts that you use to stir up shit with people. My fiancee did that shit ... IN HIGH SCHOOL. Then she turned 17 and grew out of it.

You're a child.

...

Never mind, I just read a couple replies down. Yeah, inclined to think this is bait too now.

>>17411793
we do

She could have been forced to be in the video OP. Abduction and all that. But whatever, this is a bait thread anyway.

>>17411878
>hey boyfriend, here's a video where I was forced to perform sexual acts for you to watch

>>17411793
Haha we do. They are degenerate whores, and wouldn't even consider dating them.

>>17411811
>>>17411486
>>>17411472
>>>17411457 (You)
>>>17411520
>>>17411522
>>>17411574
>I bet you fuckers would never date a man who went to prostitutes.

I'm a guy, but in this situation I would've talked to my gf about it. 99% of every girl is going to be fucked by many guys in her past. If she's done good by you during the relationship, I don't see what the problem is. She's obviously settled down and you obviously like her.

Go ahead and break up a 2 year relationship without letting her explain herself. If it bothers you to the point you cannot continue, then discuss it calmly. Raging is just screaming that you are insecure.

I don't blame you for wanting to break up, what I am blaming you for is that you are not giving her the ability to defend herself.

>>17412080
Can't turn a ho into a housewife.

>>17412085
>>>17412080 (You)
>Can't turn a ho into a housewife.

One event doesn't define a person. 2 years of being faithful weighs a lot more than doing porn once.

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>>17411433
Link OP? Is it really that bad?

>>17411568
Lmao stop this has gone too far

>>17411573
Wait what? How does he know this

>>17412177
Because he made up this whole story to bait people.

>>17412088
>implying shes been faithful
anon pls

>>17411629
Hahahaha this would be so great if someone were *literally* this stupid but I really doubt any of this is real. Can u imagine tho

>>17412179
Lol you right

Link the video or at least describe what's in it. I mean there's a huge difference between getting her ass prolapsed by three nig nogs and an amateur vanilla vid

>>17411520
Don't worry anon, you're right. These fags are too redpilled

>>17411433
breakup with her if u want, but don't post stuff of her on facebook for friends and family. that's just an asshole move. everyone makes mistakes. if it makes u feel better curse her out, but don't be an ass and make her life fucked up more than it is.

>>17412177
Because >>17411474
Seriously, you guys in this thread have the worst reading comprehension of all time.

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None of this belongs on facebook. Do this in person and end it. Anyone with common sense will know you posted her porn vid. More importantly, you gain nothing from this attempt at making this a public spectacle.
Drop your gf, move on and drop it.

>>17411568
>being this fucking delusional

If this is bait you really got me senpai.

>>17411629
You did the right thing, hope you can find someone in life who makes you regain faith in humanity.

>>17411474
Yes, but you kissed those lips and did all kinds of other shit to her. What does that say about you? Do you want your friends to jack off to this? Do you want them to ask how the mixture of all the other guys seed tastes? Do you want them to ask you what her burps smell like? Bleach?

This is bait. If OP doesn't have the balls to prove his story, it's bait.

>>17412088
>doing porn once
right. you don't begin and end your time on the screen with a gangbang

Click baitery

>>17411811
Like I don't even give a flying fuck about the number of women and men that my partner has dated or fucked, if nothing, I wouldn't prefer if the people my partner banged were hookers, because the legal hookers have more stringent STD testing than a random person

Everyone, male or female, makes such a big deal out of sex. To the point that OP would rather date a bloody criminal child molester, instead of someone who did something completely harmless to everyone else, but no, he rather a soulless human who fucked up a child's life perhaps irrevocably. I could respect his personal views against porn actors in the sense that he has that personal freedom to hold that view- but child rapists? I hope he marries a woman who ends up raping his son in the ass with dildos

Also, I love how the ability to change and make mistakes once and not again, is a generally accepted principle, but which magically, somehow, does not apply to women* who did sex work, or who cheated (she didn't even cheat in this case). Plus, refusing to even talk to someone about their not-even-cheating and just flying into an irreversible rage to burn down two years of a relationship, is so immature

*but apparently men are exempted from this weirdness

>>17412541
of course it's bait. the story has holes throughout

I need to see the video to make a final verdict

>>17411442
>she herself might be incredibly regretful and ashamed of her past behaviour and not want to dredge up the past
AHAHAHAHA that's the most whoreish response you can give.

Anyway, link us the video OP. You're gonna break up with her anyway so who cares?

>>17411564

this is more of an in-person conversation.

>>17411433
Kick out the cunt, fucking lying piece of whore.

>>17412562
Actually- why does she have to be deeply ashamed again? "I once had sexual intercourse in exchange of money, which must definitely show that I like sex so much, I can't hold myself to the contract of monogamy" sounds a logical fallacy. Close to no one is a nymphomaniac, most cheaters are jerks who simply don't care for their partner's feelings- do you have to be such a sociopath, in order to have sex for money while single? Doesn't sound like there's any connection

>>17411576

>she did this shit ONCE

okay then lad
wow

>>17412541
Thanks for pointing out that something on 4chan is fucking fake. Maybe next you'll tell me Pokémon aren't real when I can see them right on my phone camera lol

>>17411654

you said you're 25 op? you're acting like you're 18

>>17412569
>why does she have to be deeply ashamed again?
Because shame is an emotional response not a rational one. You don't control it by telling yourself "oh there's no reason to be ashamed".

ANyway to people saying her being in porn is no big deal, then surely it's an even smaller issue if he posts it?

>>17412578
Yeah I get the mechanism of shame, but I'm asking a question which is more like "well, why does everyone make it seem like she's only a good person if she was deeply ashamed of it?"

I was focused more on the "why is OP so angry over this" issue, if I made porn on a public website, then yes OP has the right to spread it because I should have known the risks of that. But if he wasn't so weirdly angry to begin with, what reason does he have to spread it

>>17411503
Holy fuck.
If she just wanted the money, there are easier ways to get money doing sex work.
She is either an idiot, somehow forced, or really into bukkakes.

>>17411433
let's see. I'm looking for a partner to be proud of and respect.

Prospect one I see a video of her volunteering her time to feed the homeless in a soup kitchen.

Prospect two I see a video of her being fed cum by twelve guys, grinning and looking into the camera asking for more.

>>17412586
Not saying it's the case, but a lot of porn companies make the actors do more than they agreed to, and would withhold payment otherwise. I heard of a lawsuit over it in Japan some time back. Also possible that the contract perfectly stated that the company could go as far as they want, but she was a idiot who didn't bother to read properly

>>17411433
Man, big deal. She had a life before you, she'll have a life after you. You're overreacting really hard.

You're both trash. If this is even true, you having multiple facebook accounts to fuck with people and acting on the lowest instincts pretending to be some edgelord mastermind, pretty disgusting desu

>>17412557
>To the point that OP would rather date a bloody criminal child molester, instead of someone who did something completely harmless to everyone else
Wut
Either I missed a very critical post or you're particularly retarded.

>>17411474
I don't agree with gf doing porn and would break up with too if I found out, but this logic is fucking retarded.


How is this risking you getting hiv? Assuming it was before you were together, Do you not already know her last std test results?


Absolutely retarded. I bet you never even asked her for a test before this, you assumed for some reason she was clean. That's on your dumb ass head.

>>17412663
>How is this risking you getting hiv? Assuming it was before you were together, Do you not already know her last std test results?
That part really struck out to me. Am I the only person that likes to get STD tests before I get physical in a new relationship?

>>17411474
Porn actors get tested for HIV intensively, she probably doesn't have it.

It's true that she kept it from you, but try to see it from her perspective. Would you rather be honest with your partner and have them leave you immediately (cause she probably knew you would) or would you stay quiet and hope they never find out so they wouldn't leave you?

>>17412756
>Would you rather be honest with your partner and have them leave you immediately (cause she probably knew you would) or would you stay quiet and hope they never find out so they wouldn't leave you?
I don't get why someone wouldn't choose the former desu, because the latter just wastes your time and you're spending your life with someone you know that wouldn't truly accept you.

>>17411533
this

>>17412664
>Am I the only person that likes to get STD tests before I get physical in a new relationship?
Nah, that's the normal, responsible thing to do.

Which means that most people on adv don't do this

>>17412664
Does this only apply if you're barebacking and getting into a serious relationship? Never been asked to take an std test before.

>>17412778
Maybe this is normal in Africa. I just assume people are clean and if not they should be honest about it.

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>>17412778
I don't do casual sex, so yeah generally I bring it up when things start becoming physical. I just think it's a good idea, and it would be rather silly to take offense to it like some have said they would. Even if someone was entirely faithful and upright, I ultimately have no clue if their ex was lying to them for instance.

>>17412781
The problem is a lot of STDs are asymptomatic for a while. They may very well believe they are clean when the truth of the situation is different.

>>17411565
>I've been lied to this whole time
So, you don't want to take responsibility for your poor judgement?
If you want so much a girl who has not been a pornstar, why don't you fucking ask her? Or try finding the information?
No, you just want people to go out of their way to do your way, with no reward for them whatsoever.
You act like a woman and woman are shitty people.

>>17411433
>no link

Thread is fake and gay

>>17411565
>Being a pornstar is a huge deal and your acting like it's not
Well, in the liberal world we live in, it's not a big deal.

OP it's not like she fucked you over in some, so I wouldn't share the video.

>>17411433
>no vid
>100+ replies

/adv/ is the easiest board to shitpost

>>17411433
>be out shopping with the love of your life
>guy down the aisle staring
>approaches her
>"have we met?"
>"I don't think so.."
>sudden realization written across his face
>“my mistake"
>he walks past grinning at you
>he knows
every time someone looks at her inquisitively, every time a group of guys is laughing in the corner, they know.
every time someone smiles and shakes your hand,that hand was fapping to the love of your life taking notyourcock.
you're a goofy motherfucker.