19 year old brother being misstreated by parent

>>17410092

Halp

>>17410092
Tell your brother to move out because this isn't healthy for his mental well being. If it's possible your brother could crash at your place, one question though OP, is your brother still going to college or had he given up on education?

There's not much he can do except move out. Your stepdad's an irredeemable cunt, he's never going to change. My best friend's dad had a very similar personality, and it just got worse and worse as he got older

>>17410092
Is your brother violating agreements that he made or rules that he knows about, or are they just making up new ones up when he does something they don't like?

I think it's pretty fucking stupid to bring a person over to someone else's house to spend the night without making sure it's ok first.

Your mom's husband is clearly an asshole, and stuff like being locked out is not cool, but your brother is an adult who is choosing to live with them. Really what it comes down to is either he needs to suck it up or leave.

>>17410159
>>17410190

He's supposed to be moving out when he goes to uni this september. Hasnt decided where he wants to go yet, but got offers to all his choices.

Its only for a few more months in that respect, but he's still based there. His friends and family all live there, its where he'll go back to visit over xmas break and stuff.

Hell Ive got friends and family in the same area, but I gave up on my mum and just go visit my friends directly for the day, they let me crash round their place when I do (I live on the south coast, brother and mum live in london)

>>17410200

>Is he breaking pre-existing rules or are they making up new ones

The latter. Both him and my mum seem to have a relationship based on drama. They couldnt get themselves out of debt (he was a gambling addict) until they won half a million on the lottery, but they argue all the time over money regardless

>When I lived with them, I was the problem, surely when I move out they'll stop arguing
>When I moved out, moneys the problem
>When they win the lottery, my brothers the problem (He really isnt a hassle to live with, he pays rent to them, does chores, is nice and friendly etc.)

Eagerly anticipating what their next source of drama is when my brother's gone and they're on their own

The thing is, you do kinda have a point though. They've never been ok with having people over, even friends visiting during the day.

Like we were never allowed people over for birthdays growing up, we always had birthdays round friends houses. Mums partner is weird like that

I think its because he likes to walk around the house in his boxers

Its a weird relationship. He was my age when he got with my mum after my parents divorced when I was 7 so theres a big difference age wise

>>17410092
Kill the fucking idiot and have the house for yourselves like you're suppose to.
Not even kidding. There are lot of mental retards which should be killed for the safety and prosperity of other much more sane and intelligent human beings.

What you're disgusting, pile of shit step-father is doing is basically kindergarten bullying. Remove this manchild from the gene pool this instant. This is real life, not a pitiful playground from a B-rated summer movie with a shitty plot. We have laws and ethics for this, your father acts like a retarded 5 year old sociopath for whatever reason, whip, beat, cut his balls and treat him like the animal he is. He is not a human being. We are all mammals, some evolved and some inferior like your step-dad. The latter needs to be treated like an animal 24/7 and if he doesn't fix his personality then he needs to be put down like an animal.

I am sick and fucking tired of such creatures existing in this world and being allowed to be called "humans" no these are not humans, these are mentally defunct creatures which should be put in a mental hospital.

>>17410554
Listen to the blood-red pilled man, OP. Call the mercenaries and have the sub-human killed. Don't even bother trying to arrest him, he's not even worth getting ass raped, they'll get aids from him. He's too rotten.