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How to get the most out of girl in open relationship

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She's in an 'open relationship'
>inb4 degenerate
>inb4 kill yourself
>inb4 she's playing you
>inb4 have fun catching STDs

I made out with her in April, but I knew she had a boyfriend, and I was reluctant so didn't go any further. Met her again last weekend, and she wanted to make out, told me she's in an open relationship, but I told her no. I sent her a text an hour later. She came over to my flat after I went home and I fucked her for several hours, because I just though fuck it, I haven't been laid in months.

She wanted to come over the next day, but I was busy. She called me and told me she was really lonely, but I was actually busy, and I wasn't even home.

She has sent me texts every other day for a week. Last time was last night. Thing is, I'm usually very picky with women, and she's got a very bland face. Her body is surprisingly hot though, but she usually hides it very well.

I really don't want to be seen with her, but I wouldn't mind getting some dirty sex out of it. Actually I'd like to take it to extremes, so that she's put off towards the end of it and loses interest.

Any ideas of how to go about it? What should I ask her to do, that isn't vanilla, when I'm used to quite vanilla sex myself? She already told me she wants to be dominated. I got a feeling she might be into degrading shit.

Hit me up with your ideas, anon! Stuff should accelerate over the course of maybe a couple of months, depending on how bored/busy I am.

TL;DR degrading ideas for making a girl run

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How did my thread bump with zero replies?

Also, bump

Come on guys. Sex.
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>>17409920
>I really don't want to be seen with her, but I wouldn't mind getting some dirty sex out of it
Kys
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>>17409920
Nice bait degenerate
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>>17410177
>>17410179
thanks for bumping, permavirgins.

How is a ideas for degrading a girl who can't get enough of cucking her boyfriend general bait?

This isn't even about me, I don't need you to believe me, I just want ideas.
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>>17409920
>>17410219

It's gonna backfire. Rough/degrading sex will just make her even more clingy, she might develop an obsession for you. You will flinch before she does, trust me.

If you really want to get rid of her, go the other direction. Start acting like a typical clingy over-sensitive nice guy. Call her up crying, gush out a big "confession" of your feelings. Tell her you don't want to have sex unless she leaves her boyfriend, because you feel like she's using you. Tell her she's the most wonderful girl you've ever met and you want to devote your life to making her happy.

She'll never text you again
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>>17410227
Haha, yeah I know how to get rid of women by acting needy. It's usually my go-to answer for anyone who wants to get rid of women.

But those guys usually actually don't want to fuck these women. I've already fucked her and it was pretty sweet. I'd like to take advantage of it, since my sex life has been pretty dry the last four months.

She's never going to believe I think she's the most wonderful girl I've ever been with. I couldn't keep a straight face, knowing what I know.
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>>17410237

So you're literally just asking for help thinking of things to do in bed? Don't you have any kinks or fetishes of your own? You're boring as fuck, m8. No wonder this girl is your best option
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>>17410252
Things that'll eventually make her run and NOT fall in love with me.

And not only in bed, I'm thinking degrading porn stuff as well, perhaps posting original material of her on /gif/ or /soc/, but not the kind that'll get me in trouble.
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>>17410219
You're a shitty person who is looking to abuse someone. It doesn't matter that she's fucked up. The world has enough assholes in it already trying to make people miserable so don't expect to get a whole lot of encouragement on how to be another.

I'm curious, is this a story you're planning to proudly relate to other people? How you fucked with some girl and ultimately were so shitty to her that it drove her away? Like you're going to be on a date with someone you're interested in, and you're expecting a positive response?
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>>17410272
No I don't tend to kiss and tell - do you talk about your sex life when you're out on a date?

You can't make someone do anything they don't want to. I'm not going to hold a knife to her, and she's not doing it out of any desperate need for money or anything. She's a 25 year old adult with a degree in psychology, who happens to think I'm incredibly attractive. There's no reason to infantalize her.

Whatever degrading stuff she'll let me do to her, she's going to find someone else to do, if I don't.
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>>17410270

I really can't think of any sexual activity that'd be universally unlovable. Scat, and/or hardcore violence, would scare most people off. But is that really a line YOU want to cross?

If she's got a ton of pride, you could just make her do humiliating stuff, puppy play, age-play, watersports, forced rimming, stuff like that. But some people enjoy the fuck out of those things. Again, it could easily backfire.

I just think you should drop the plan of trying to degrade her until she leaves. Because it's not a good way to make her leave. Just fuck her however you like, be selfish and uncaring, and stop returning her texts when you've had enough
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>>17410311
Hm. I guess you're right. I'm not ready for scat, and I don't expect ever to be.

Same with >>17410227
I bet she's a nasty fucker. You're right, I would probably recoil before she does.

This was a stupid idea. I'll just fuck her until i don't want to anymore.

Sorry, board.
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>>17410320

Both posts were me.

For what it's worth, you've come across as a shit person, and if you had any self-respect you'd see this entire situation as a waste of time. It's degrading to you, honestly, just as much as it is to her. But I don't expect you to do as some stranger on the Internet tells you, so go ahead and take my advice and enjoy your soul-draining hatefucks
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>>17410329
From a stranger to another, why are you here if you never expect people to take you advice. I already admitted you were right. And I understood both of the posts to be you.

My problem is I tend to treat women good. Half of the women I've slept with have developed feelings for me. Two of them have taken almost a decade of my life. Maybe I'm a shit person, but I don't usually make women feel like shit. This girl is already looking to cuck her fat beta 'boyfriend' - last weekend she came to me at 3.30 am - one hour after all the bars in town had closed. Was she walking around aimlessly, or did she leave her boyfriend's apartment to get fucked by someone else? Not really sure if I can respect that type of behaviour - yeah maybe I'm a shitty guy for even want to be near that - but it's not like I'm seducing some innocent soul, make her my slave and ruining her perfect marriage, so I guess I feel like treating someone like that with the lack of dignity it seems like she feels she deserve herself.

I'm tired of being mr nice guy, and she literally begs me.
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>>17410415

I'm not accusing you of corrupting her or ruining her relationship or whatever. It's clear that this whole thing is her decision. I'm just trying to warn you that you're not gonna be the one dragging her down. She's gonna drag you down.

This whole situation is just miserable and depressing from day 1, and it's only gonna get worse as it goes on. There's nothing wrong with casual sex, nothing wrong with getting rough or kinky. But if you've got nothing but contempt and indifference for her, will it even be fun? I've been in a situation kind of like this, and the memories just make me cringe and feel ashamed of myself.

And if you're at the point where you're gleefully fantasizing about degrading & frightening her, it's just like, don't you think you can do better? Is this some kind of thing where you're bitter over a bad breakup and you're trying to take your anger out on women in general? I just don't see any appeal in any of this.
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>>17410457
I'm pretty sure I'll be fine. My former romantic hooks have been over 9s I've loved for years. This thing would just be a bit of fun for me. I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone atm, and I would make it clear to her that I was only in it for the sex - unless I figure out I want to use her for my profession as well.

She has worked as a life model, and I'm an artist. If I managed to combine getting free model work with sex, it could be a sweet deal. And not so unappealing.

And it's not true that I got nothing but contempt - she felt pretty safe when I was spooning her for a couple of hours post-coital. I just don't want to be in a realtionship with her, so I don't see myself socialising with her. I would have to set boundries that I usually feel are unatural, thus treating her unlovingly - which is my natural character with women.
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>>17410485

Alright then, do as you will. Jut don't get attached you poor fucker
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>>17410509
thank you for your consent. My heart belongs to someone 5000 miles away, so it's not getting stolen that easily, at least not by the blandest girl I've ever fucked.
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