How do you overcome bad self esteem?

I guarantee that you're not as ugly as you think. People don't notice all the little details that you fuss over so much. I think it's just a case of your mother projecting her own insecurities onto you.

Definitely lose the weight though. The odds of success aren't in your favour. I work as a personal trainer and it pains me to see how many people come in committed to getting fit, only to stop showing up 3 weeks later. It's hard for me to believe in people but I still root for their success regardless, just as I am rooting for you.

>>17408549
Get a job and save up your money to afford the surgery.

In the meantime continue to work out, learn how to dress attractively and wear an attractive haircut. If female, learn how to do makeup.

If you still can't feel good about yourself, try therapy.

Also make friends. Friends are there to boost your esteem.

>>17408561
I've gone about 3 weeks now without soda! I used to have a terrible addiction to it
Thank you for the support though

>>17408564
That was also a concern, getting the surgery and still feeling ugly afterwards

>>17408549

How old are you?

Aging does strange things to people.

>>17408644
19

mind posting a picture of yourself?

>>17408668
Don't do this.

>>17408668
>>17408677
yeeah i'm not looking for compliments(or insults) bad idea