do you ever really get over your first love? Its been almost

You haven't gone out with anyone else in those three years? Go date other girls, it helps a lot. And no, she's not thinking about you

probably. As soon as you'll have real problems and/or passions you'll forget all about this shit.

With the right motivation and/or frame of mind you can learn to not care about them in any way or to hate them. Not caring is probably the better option.

I'll never really get how people can stay in love with an ex for that long. Chances are you're both different people and leading different lives at this point. Even if you spoke to her again now it wouldn't feel the same as when you dated her.

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some flings which filled the void for a while, but after so many they felt meanigless. Now the only other kind of change im finding is women who straight up think im marrying them and expect us to be starting a family in a year, which I sure as shit am not ready for