>22
>Subject Above
>We both REALLY like each other
>Below average dick
>Super nervous putting condom on, heart rate through the roof..
>Cuddled with a hardy for like ~2 hours
>Super nervousness and anxiety killed my mood and dick.
>Lasted about one minute before she hopped off muhh dick
>She cuddled afterwards but didn't stay the night
What's the best response to this? I feel like she thinks it's her fault, but I told her about my nervousness and I think she's understanding. I'm more scared that the next time I have a chance, i'll completely spill the spaghetti again. Is sex really just a mental game of staying hard more than anything?
I don't fap frequently, exercise, and don't smoke. Main problem anxiety. But I don't know how to approach her through text, or in person, and I really don't want to come off as clingy.
how comfortable r u with this girl?
get stoked but relax. relaxing is key. before initating sex, remind yourself to calm down. get horny. get pervy and think of some nasty shit that gets you off. get in that mindstate before initating things. kiss her... unleash that beast bc u two really gotta get that *spark* before you whip your dick out, homie
next time don't fuck up. lay the fucking beats like a man and show her what u can do.
and dude. learn to love your dick... u only get one
it just sounds like you are uncomfortable and insecure
Sex is about wanting to fuck the brains out of my partner. The rest falls into place by itself. Spend time on foreplay, and give her the dick when she's begging. Go to town and enjoy yourself.
Condoms can be a source of stress by themselves. If you're having trouble staying hard putting one on, have her suck and tug you hard then put on the condom for you. Use a little bit of lube on your erection if you think the condom is a little uncomfortable. If it's noticeably uncomfortable, try another brand.
If you're really worried about ED, go see your doctor.
You're okay, m8. If she's understanding like you say she is, just tell her you're really nervous because you're new.
It may take a few times to get comfortable.
Concentrate more on cuddling and such. If you both enjoy that, you will worry less about the quality of sex.
Me and my girlfriend suck at sex due to lack of experience, we both don't enjoy it that much. We prefer to cuddle.