girl trouble (as always)

So you're saying you're addicted to weed?

Anyway, have you even asked her why it's so taboo? My cousin has very similar attitudes towards weed because her father wasted his life and money for 20 years because he couldn't handle reality without being high. Money for food and clothing always went to weed, and it all started as a "harmless hobby" for him. Maybe your girlfriend sees your dependency as a symptom for a problem that will happen down the road. Most people who smoke weed claim they can stop but they always hAve "accidents" as you put it, which shows they have no will power to avoid the drug.

You probably must prove that you don't have to smoke. Maybe she knew someone who ended up badly because of weed.

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>>17403657
I don't think I'm addicted to weed. I can say "no", I don't smoke that much in the first place (I used to smoke a lot in high school, and against that a couple of times a month don't seem that much), but it's something I like doing, like making omelets.
I've asked her and what she told me is that all of the people she knows that smoke weed are grouse, and that in high school all of the people she knew that smoked weed were grouse.
I have my goals in life and I'm not willing to trade them for getting high. I've been around people that really sunk from smoking and I don't want to be one of them.

>>17403686
Well for the better amount of our first year I haven't smoked at all. Just one time with her, that went bad since she told she had cystitis and she wanted to kiss me after I ate her and I feel grouse for a second since I didn't knew very well what cystitis was by that time and I ruined it.
I often try to give her examples of recent cases were I didn't took the opportunity to smoke, but she feels like that sounds like an pathetic excuse more than anything else.

>>17403715
Discussions with girls may be difficult, it's possible that she won't change her mind just because she doesn't want to.

A few years ago, I was the girl in the same type of relationship. Had a stoner BF (addicted, seriously), who was addicted and I used to flip out on him because of that (well I wasnt really flipping out, only telling him I dont like it). It had its reasons:

- He didn´t realize it, but it made him less receptive towards world and hazy, he´d think he was okay to drive and whatever.
- He couldn´t handle school (or god forsake he´d work)
- He spent as much money on weed as I did for my rent
- He forgot about things like driving someone back home after he dragged them across half of the state (while he offered the empty space to strangers instead)
- Generally the people, who were getting stoned with him were pretty much bad influence
- And most of all, he didn´t care it made him that way, even though it was taking a great toll on his friends, family and everyone around him, he´d say he was sorry, but then did it again and again...

Now I´m not saying this is you and I know this is not how it goes with everyone and mostly it´s only something akin to having a few glasses of whatever.

But if she or any of her friends/family have ever experienced similar (or even close to that), she won´t be forgiving towards it.