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Start dating girl, everything awesome for a while then stops things with me off for some other new people, kinda hurt but whatever. Few months later, friends are out of the picture and wants to start again
Reluctantly agree and the first couple months are great. The kids question pops up, she doesn't want, I do, so we break up. Then we're on again, maybe having kids isn't so bad after talking to friends who were parent's now
This grey area lasts for a while until I start really thinking about the relationship and how it ended the first time. I say that we're better friends than lovers and I should get on with my career, not be tied down. She says something else is bothering me, held back to not sound so insecure but said fuck it, so I tell her I just never got over the rejection the first time, resentment started to creep in and I'd question why she's really with me.
Is the second go usually doomed? Does the trust feeling come back? How to not feel like I was the safe/second choice? Should I just gather my self respect, keep my peace of mind and end it?
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you say that as if first go's arent doomed.
all relationships are doomed. some are less doomed than tohers, but they're all pretty doomed.
you need to learn to live a little in the moment man. a few months in is not when you want to talk about kids. then suddenly its 'OH I SHOULDNT BE TIED DOW NCUZ CAREER'
i mean really? kids arent being tied down but a gf is? and even if you argue 'WELL KIDS WOULD BE WAY OFF IN THE FUTURE'
then why does it matter if you get with your eventual baby-momma now?
just ditch her you clearly dont have anything particularly strong for her.
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