my gf left me a while ago, we still chatted daily and i had actually had a vain hope to get her back.
yesterday she asked me out for dinner and i said that i didnt want to be friend and if we couldnt have a relationship i'd rather cut her out of my life than just be friends.
she said that this behaviour is selfish and immature, but i dont understand why. she's seeing another guy now and being in contact with her is painful. help my understand bitches mind adv.
she blocked me a that made me realize what a shitty person she is, at least i'm free now.
Well the way you described it's sounds like you came as an asshole, but if we assume you were nice about it and explained that friendship isn't possible because of feelings then she is being dumb. Not everyone can be friends with exs.
Nah, you did the right thing. It's tempting to stick around after a relationship's over because you still want the other person in your life or something but it ends up just fucking shit up and someone eventually should feel free to cut it off if need be
Pretty classic shit, it happens. It sucks, but it's hard to maintain friendship a lot of the time after a relationship ends