ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

So guys,

Does swallowing the red pill actually work?

>>17401282
Depends
Don't swallow the /pol/ pill

Girls: if you fell for somebody else, would you leave your current long term partner?

Or more generally, if you were in a long-term relationship and fell for somebody else, how would you react?

>>17401270

If a young, shy, introverted girl has attempted to kill herself twice and has rows of razor scars on her outer thighs is it wrong to get her to fall in love with you and then break said heart?

A lot of my gums show when I give a sincere smile. Should I just not smile widely? Because I think it looks fucking awful and I know there's probably few chicks that would be into that.
Also, a closed mouth smile for me looks smug and/or seedy, I think it looks dumb, too.

For anyone

A girl I'm talking to is talking about a friend of mine obviously to make me jealous.

And honestly it it kind of is. But more making me kind of angry.

Do I show my jealously or play it off as no big deal?

>>17401351
I'm a guy but yeah it's pretty obviously wrong

why do you wanna do that anyways

>>17401360

I have a very slight overbite and my top row of teeth have a lot of gaps.

But when I smile and the overbite goes over my bottom row of teeth, it looks like regular sincere smile.

I've been told that it makes me look more approachable since braces are the norm these says.

I might get them bonded and then it'll just be a plain smile.

>>17401368

Well it wasn't intentional per say but people grow apart and most breakups don't go well.

I just know I broke her heart and I know there's going to be some permanent damage from it.

Love, it's a motherfucker.

>>17401270
Girls, what is arousing you in porn movies?

>>17401377
hard to say if it's wrong then since it wasn't intentional

not like staying with her forever despite not loving her anymore or whatever would be a good choice

>>17401361
Next time she brings him up just say enough about that guy let's talk about us. If she pushes asking about being jelly just tell her you aren't into games. No one needs a chick in their life who does that.

>>17401315
When I was 24 I found myself falling in love with an online friend. I was in a committed relationship at the time. I was shocked to have these new emotions. I had to stop and think why I was falling for this person. It turns out I didn't love them but the attention. My then boyfriend at the time was busy and I felt alone. I didn't leave him I knew I loved him and I talked to him about it. I told the online friend that we had to limit conversation and they were understanding. I wanted to work on my relationship before just calling it quits. I'm glad I did my boyfriend felt distant too and we worked together to get that feeling back to give each other the attention we both needed.

Guys: anyone want to speak on how to satisfy/resist an illegal fetish? (voyeurism/watching girls do exhibitionism)

>>17401351
Nah sounds hilarous

Guys (college/uni): how would you feel/do if your girlfriend whom you cared deeply for had fallen pregnant?

>>17401517
If I was thinking of marrying her nothing would change and I'd help with the baby, otherwise abortion

>>17401517
No kids. Abort. I do not bone girls that do not agree to get abortions if that somehow happens despite 2 layers of bc.

Call me evil, but I'd rather write a check every month than raise a child against my will. Especially in college.

>>17401517
Not a guy, but if you're in a relationship, and your relationship sounds pretty serious, why haven't you talked about this?

>>17401390
Rarely anything to be honest, I don't watch a lot of porn. If I do, it's mostly amateur stuff, mostly girls solo or lesbians, preferably slow sensual stuff. But I'm really pretty picky so I don't watch much porn at all.
Also, Hegre-Art I like.

>>17401517
oh my god get a fucking abortion. this is from another girl. you will seriously destroy your life, and he will NOT stay with you more than a few years no matter how much he loves you

>>17401315
Absolutely not. I know sometimes people can't choose or control their very base emotions and feelings, but I definitely can make decisions that would prevent me from even getting close enough to someone else where I could be in the position to develop feelings.

And even if I did, I feel very firmly about commitment and loyalty on basic moral level.

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I'd feel inconvenienced because I'd have to go buy one of these.

>>17401390
Really good, aesthetically pleasing art and animation. The sounds and voice acting are also extremely important.

why does my girl say she's incapable of loving and not ready for a relationship? I'm so confused by it

we're exclusive for over a month & known each other ~6 months

we hangout together, sex, go random places, make fun of each other, watch movies, cook together, it's literally a fucking relationship
yet "I'm not ready for a relationship and I want you to know that so you don't think I'm playing games with you"

we ask each other everything and are very straight forward, but she can't explain it to me... can anyone? or am I just too retarded and she makes perfect sense?
I don't really care at this point because we're in a relationship.. to me.. and when we part it'll be like any parting, she says she likes me all the time and likes me more than before etc.

>>17401390
P L O T
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T

>>17401590
you must not like any porn movies then

>>17401603
1. she's damaged from guys cheating on her and is afraid to commit
or
2. she's fucking other men so she doesn't want to commit

>>17401608
Some are fun, but imagination trumps all every time.

>>17401517
Up to her, if we were getting along well etc then I would stay together, without question.. but I'd give her that choice of what she wants to do because either way I'd stick by her side.

now if we weren't getting along: abortion or I'd be gone

>>17401617
i was including hentai in that category btw

How do I go about looking for a woman to pair off and start a family with?

>>17401509

Well I'm leaving out a lot of details.

I was her first love, brought her out of her shell, told her how lovely and brilliant she was, that I loved her, she would bake me vegan cookies and we'd go to an exotic fish store.

I fell in love with her, she fell in love with me but got bored but she didn't have the courage to break up with me.

She starting distancing herself from me and I asked her what was going on and she told me.

I made her feel like shit and forced her to fuck me one last time while she cried and sobbed the whole time.

Never heard from her again.

>>17401628
I know bby

>>17401615
she's not fucking other men, because we were with other people a few times while knowing each other and then started to just be exclusive slowly and now it's been a month and we haven't seen anyone else. (we do talk about it)

and she's only been in 1 relationship for 5 years (I was as well however I'm 4 years older than her)
the guy was a total piece of shit, literal opposite of how I am to her (she says)

do you think she doesn't actually trust me yet? I think I answered my own question and I'm going to ask her... I would assume myself to be "too good to be true" if I was in her position...
I'm extremely patient and like to discuss things in depth as well as complimentive toward her.
the old guy called her fat and yelled at her constantly

is my assumption decent?

>>17401630
Not by asking /adv/, or anywhere on 4chan really.

>>17401642
please don't call me bby unless you plan on taking responsibility

>>17401633
>I was her first love, brought her out of her shell, told her how lovely and brilliant she was, that I loved her
>she fell in love with me but got bored

I guess you can't help these things but damn it's hard to feel sympathy when I see shit like this

although the last thing you mentioned sounds pretty shitty on your part

>>17401633
when you put it that way she sounds like a bitch

>>17401644
she was in a relationship for 5 years (which is a loooong fuckin time) and treated badly for all those years. i'm betting it made her wary of men, no matter how illogical it is. it has really little to do with how you act, and more that she's associating you with this guy, just because you're a man in a relationship with her.

don't approach her like "why don't you trust me? do you hate me or something?". more like "hey, we're already doing all the things people in relationships do. i don't think you're wasting my time by not officially saying it, but i want to be with you in that way, i really like you" etc

>>17401633
you started dating a shy girl. then you lose it when she's shy to break up with you? you are a total douche t b h but you obviously don't care

>>17401680
Yea that's how I approach it, I try to understand it. and talk with her, I told her if she doesn't love me for a year it wouldn't bother me (and it honestly doesn't) as long as I see progression with each other I'm fine (and I do)
We've both had that 5 year relationship but I've had many more years to forget it.

I think she scares herself with liking me, it's hard to see and watch because I'm incapable of doing anything to help it or take some of the pain away to help.

Thanks for the advice I think I'm on kind of the right path with it, as we aren't butting heads in how we think I should go about this.

>>17401617
So much this.

>>17401701
np mate you know what you're doing
good luck

>>17401739
Thank you

I forgot to mention, her family is coming to visit (she's from europe here for 2 years) and she wants me to go with them for 2 weeks around the grand canyon areas, lake powell, etc. so it's really obvious to me that she likes me. It'll be her mom and brother.

all she told me was "don't kiss me too much in front of my mom" but it's not like we makeout in front of people anyway lol.

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>Girls
Tips for going down on you?

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>>17401270
I have a really distinctive face that usually usually either really like or don't care for, it 99% depends on my demeanor (prob true with most).

I do pretty well for myself, but recently I feel like this girl pulled an "oh god he's into me." We follow each other on tumblr and she always likes really specific stuff late at night (only the things where I've put a really personal thought in the tags). I come off as kind of a loser to her so she's likely not interested. She opened up to me about some really traumatic stuff in her past that nobody else knew about, after me knowing her like the 4th time we hung. I work at a hotline and active listening becomes the default so it's pretty normal. But she's rude to my face so she clearly feels some sort of negativity to me. I try to be really nice and I think the first day we were hanging out I alluded to her being pretty and she took it weird. Her friend also had a thing for me.

So how do I respond to the "he's into me" thing? Do I start ignoring her or should I try to amend it? I'm not interested and I don't like the feeling of being beneath someone because of their false assumptions.

In her position I used to get panicky cause then you have to implicitly lay down the "not interested" vibe and cause them a bit of grief. I don't want her thinking she has to do that, especially if it manifests as repeated rejection for me. We go to a community college and have a very overdeveloped high-school dynamic.

>me and boyfriend go through stressful things at the same time
>we both have completely different reactions to stress
>he sees me as needy and over sensitive
>I see him as cold and cruel (bc he'll call me mean names and say horrible things to me as jokes)

How do we work together to function better under stress?

>>17401874
he needs to stop calling you names and taking it out on you and you need to stop being needy and sensitive

neither of you should put up with the other's issue, you should fix yourr own

>>17401798
she's using you as an emotional tampon. stop wasting your time. fuck her friend

>>17401874
Grow a pair

>>17401887
I don't feel I'm needy or oversensitive though. He'll tell me something awful like "I don't even know why I'm with you, you're worthless" and I'll get upset. He sees me as needy because I want some comfort while I'm going through a tough time.

>>17401902
BAIL
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>>17401938
He's just joking though

>>17401360
No. Everyone has imperfections. Having some forced awkward smile that isn't sincere is less attractive than having a less aesthetic, real smile.

>>17401943
"teehee, you're so useless and disgusting! it's just a joke!"
bitch come on. whatever, i won't waste my energy, women always stay

>>17401351
I actually did this once. She had cuts all over and let me cum deep inside in the backseat of my old shitty honda accord several times. I told her I wasn't looking for love but I still cared about her, and i wasn't lying. Then she blew up on me and fucked my black friend.
Best part is I didn't care one bit.

i hate all of you

>>17402020
It's just a prank bro

>>17402029
eat shit

>>17402020
>Post ends in 2020
Yet you didn't have the perfect vision of a decent post

>>17402030
chill bro its just a prank

>>17402037
you disgust me, it's sickening to know scum like you exist

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>>17401894
I think it says opposite gender

>>17401777
Confident

>>17402051
Do you have that picture in a better resolution?

>>17401282
>Does swallowing the red pill actually work?

People who do this essentially going from one extreme to the polar opposite.

From passive as fuck Nice Guy™ to "Alpha Xtreme pickupologist 7 gram rock bi-winning chad"

And it kind of works, because the base of Nice Guy™ is passivity, whereas the base of red pill is giving no fucks and acting (I.E. an overcompensated variance of self-confidence).

You will never accomplish anything by doing nothing, but actions will at least get a response.

The problem with red-pill, like I said earlier, is that it's just as much a polar extreme, and extremes are never healthy.

Living in such an extreme state tends to tinge your perception of things and warp the way your mind works, which makes it difficult to relate with people who aren't in similar places.

On top of that it's not healthy, healthy people tend to stay way from people who are in that unhealthy state.

Through red-pill you may be able to find relationships with damaged individuals who are either naive, equally warped enough to think that unhealthy is the norm, but the quality and length of those encounters... tend to be of a lower grade.


TL;DR:
Redpill works in the sense that if you're a Nice Guy™ and getting nothing, at least you'll get something, but what you'll be getting will be the bottom of the barrel (I.E. daddy issues, superficial, crazy, possessive, etc.), bad for you , and will wreck your ability to have stable, healthy relationships in the long term.

Don't jump from one lazy extreme to the next, put in some work and become a healthy, fully functional person.

>>17401361
>A girl I'm talking to is talking about a friend of mine obviously to make me jealous.
>Do I show my jealously or play it off as no big deal?

*shrug* The more you feed in to those kinds of games, the more it makes her think that shit is ok.

Personally, i'd just say fuck that and write her off, but if you still want to be around her, do what other anon said.

>>17401517
>Guys (college/uni): how would you feel/do if your girlfriend whom you cared deeply for had fallen pregnant?

How would I feel? Conflicted.
I know my gf doesn't believe in abortions, and I know neither of us are in a place to raise a kid,
but i'd step up anyway.

I think the real conflict would be in the fact that I KNOW she'd reject it immediately if I asked to get married, on grounds that she'd think that'd be the most retarded reason to do so and would hate to think that it'd be the only reason for a proposal... but my sense of ethics would be one where I'd feel compelled to do it... And so there's probably be a conflict over that...

*shrug*

>>17401874
>How do we work together to function better under stress?

Talk about it, mutually agree to set up a stable foundation and system under normal conditions (where you both concede things), strive to act on that.

If don't think you can't do that on your own, couples therapy is advised--if only so you have a neutral third party to intermediate.

The key this is that ultimately you both have to agree about wanting to do this, or there's no chance.

I can't hear whispering, is this a problem?

For both: What kinks/fetishes/sex fantasies you will NEVER do even if you were offered a gorillion dollarydoos and rulership over everything to do it?

'After a break-up, the girl will cry for a couple of weeks and then be completely fine. The guy will spend a couple of weeks drinking and partying and pretending he's completely fine, and then get more and more fucked up as time progresses'

Guys and girls (please say which), what is your opinion on this? Is it accurate in your experience?

>>17402439
None.

>>17402441
>None

Never heard of it.

>>17402439
Coprophilia, necrophilia, and pedophilia

>>17402440
Women seek out other women in times of stress to comfort one another. Assuming they have a social circle, they tend to handle it better.

Men seek isolation and the effects can vary. Important note is that the reaction can vary depending on severity of situation.

>>17402450
>Coprophilia, necrophilia, and pedophilia

Those are automatic No's really.

>>17401315
I mean, I'd have to question why I was looking for the door in the first place. If it were even possible for me to fall for someone else, then that clearly means I didn't actually love the guy I was with anymore.
If the answer was yes, I didn't love my current bf, then that's my answer. Our relationship isn't working, and whether or not it can be fixed I don't know. I find 99% of the time once the love is gone it's a slowly sinking ship you cannot repair. So yes, I would leave him. Not necessarily for the new guy, but because I just obviously don't love him that way anymore. I'm also a firm believer in giving a decent grace period after a nonmutual break up though. I would not seek out another relationship for at least a month. I had an ex literally dump me and start fucking his new gf within seconds. Not even exaggerating he texted me to break up while in her bed so he didn't have to feel bad about cheating. He was kinda a shitbag.
Basically, I'd have to seriously look at why I'm with this person if I'm developing feelings for another. Maybe its like what the other anon posted about liking the attention and mistaking it for love. Or maybe it is just that I don't love my current guy anymore. Either way, somethings gotta give or get fixed. You wouldn't look for other people if your relationship was completely stable.
>>17401360
I feel ya. I don't open mouth smile, especially in pictures, because I already have the worlds worst face shape. Its a fat fucking oval, and open mouth smiling just makes me look obese from the head. And we all know how dudes feel about obesity.
I've just trained myself to keep my mouth shut when smiling even though I look like I'm smelling my own farts, or cover it when laughing. You just gotta deal with it one way or another, either by compensating or accepting. Though I would recommend accepting, it'll get you further in life. I'm still miserable about it.

>>17402450
Agreed.

>>17401361
>this bitch is acting like a 5 year old to make me angry
>and it's making me angry
Dude why even subject yourself to someone who makes you angry, is the pussy just that good? Because you obviously aren't "talking" (whatever that means) for her personality.
I'd drop her like a bag of bricks and move on. You don't enable 5 year olds when they're misbehaving, so enabling giant 5 year olds should be an obvious no.
>>17401390
I don't even know really. I focus purely on the dick going in and out, I don't really watch anything else, despite the fact I hate penetration.
The sounds are what get me more than anything though. I like moaning.
>>17401495
Seek professional mental help? I mean if you can get a willing partner and "act" that fetish, then fine. I have a rape fetish, but I get by on role play.
But don't go breaking laws man. If you seriously have the urge to go and creep on your neighbor against her will in the shower, then please seek immediate psychiatric help.

>>17401517
I'm a girl but I second the abortion. If you're in college I doubt you can afford a kid and all you're going to do is make the tax payers pay for your bastard. Your bf will leave you eventually, see if you can think of a single couple that had kids that young, kept them, and stayed together. I know I can't. And then you get to let your kid grow up in a broken family wondering if they're going to mommy or daddy's house this weekend.
Only way you can possibly avoid all this is giving it up for adoption, but you'll still have to take the year off to be pregnant, shit out the kid, you WILL freak when you hold the kid and second guess giving it up, and absolute best case you resist that urge and have to live with the knowledge your bastard spawn is roaming around out there in a world where there are already enough fucking unwanted children and not enough willing parents for them.
Do the responsible thing and fucking abort. For the love of god, save your own damn life and everyone else's too. You will literally ruin your life by having a kid.

>>17402462
>implying
>>17402436
Of course, go check your ears, m8

>>17401630
>>17401646
/thread.
>>17401633
>forced her to fuck me one last time while she cried and sobbed the whole time.
U wat m8. You fucking raped her for not knowing how to dump you. Jesus.
>>17401777
If I was blessed enough to have ever had a dude willing to go down on me, I could answer this.
Idk, lick the clit?
>>17402439
Anal, severe bdsm/anything severely painful, anything illegal, to name a few.
>>17402440
I was dumped 5 years ago and I'm still fucked up over it. Enough so that I can't move on, I have not dated in 5 years because part of me still doesn't believe I'll never deserve anyone else. I was also treated like second rate garbage the whole time, the fact nobody will date me (or even look at me) since only confirms this, that guy was as best as I'll ever get. And I still wasn't good enough for him. I wasn't good enough for someone who treated me like shit.
I'm a woman. The way you cope with a break up has literally NOTHING to do with gender.

>>17402500
Go to a swingers party, the people there usually fuck anything that is not their gender, in fact it's impolite to reject someone, afaik.

>>17402440
Nah. The guys that pretend they're fine are just trying to compete with the ones who are actually fine after it.

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in what situations it´s OK to approach a girl? what i m planning to do is buy her a beer, have a short talk and fuck

oh yeah and are you ladies into green hippie clothes?

>>17402510
My issue is I don't want to have penetrative sex. I mean, I've seen people advertising online for oral hookups (assuming that was the part you were responding to), but I just simply don't trust that it will end with oral, you know? Especially with a stranger I don't know anything about. And if it's impolite to reject someone, that clearly goes both ways then right? Meaning it'd be impolite if I didn't want to fuck them after.
Plus aren't swinger parties something like, old people do? I've never heard of an early 20's swinger party lol.

>>17401315
I do think it's possible to fall for other people while still loving the first. That's why things like polyamory exist.
If I have established a monogamous relationship, I'm going to be more drawn to sticking with what's working, rather than try for something new. Not to mention, you can be attracted to and drawn to a new person, but that doesn't mean you're compatible for the long term. The current partner has shown that I can trust them to work with me through many situations. They've seen me laugh and cry, and I've seen them laugh and cry. We've likely been through miscommunication, and helped each other with decisions, helped each other grow as people, and established a life together.

Someone new may be firey and exciting. But when it comes down to it, I'm not in a relationship for the excitement. It's the comfort and closeness. And those things are earned over time. Wanting to fuck someone new isn't going to take priority.

>>17402524
Ok, got it.
Just know that is somebody willing to fuck you; oral only, probably, but i won't guarantee.
Not an expert but i assume since old people have less to lose they can be more open about it so it's easier to find them.
You can also ask a girl to wear a mask.

>>17401644
You've known each other for only 6 months and only been exclusive for ONE MONTH? Give her a break. She hardly knows you.

Virgin here, question for both genders: Am I missing out on it?

Yeah sure I'm 99,99% possibly STD free so it's at least one reason to have safe oral sex at least.

And I'm not going to be a dad until I'm 30. Don't ask why, even I don't know.

>>17402436
Are they telling you to hurt yourself or others? Do they tell you things that distress you?
I don't think that voices automatically have to mean you're fucked up. In cultures where they aren't so scared of voices, they can even be a source of comfort and spirituality.
It's kind of a self perpetuating issue. Comparative to panic disorders, where people get panic attacks from freaking out over when they'll next have a panic attack.

I hope you can find a therapist who isn't so extremist about voices! It's good if you have an ally to help you through abnormal experiences.

>>17402533
Yeah, I mean I could just go post on soc and say "Will take a dude's virginity" and get 10 thousand responses, but I'm not really after sex. I would love a casual oral throwdown, an actual relationship even more, but with the former I just am way too cautious and feel like I shouldn't be doing any casual hookups until I'm willing to go all the way. Because it will probably happen one way or another.
Chicks are out of the question though, for personal reasons. Would probably trigger me more than anything.
>>17402551
They were saying they CAN'T hear whispering, as in their hearing is fucked.
Not that they're hearing voices lol..

>>17402553
>They were saying they CAN'T hear whispering, as in their hearing is fucked.
>Not that they're hearing voices lol..
Damn, I fucked up. I thought the other anon was being sarcastic to say to get their ears checked.

Maybe I should get my eyes checked!

>>17402555
>me myself & i
god damn you´re a narcistic piece of shit. get help.

>>17402556
????
I'm making fun of myself for misunderstanding an anon's question.

>>17402555
It's cool man, happens to the best of us hah.
>>17402556
Wat lol. I think you're misreading things too hah.

This was a mess lmao.

>older guy I met in a sports group
>he's around 40-50, even starting to bald/thin out
>took me to dinner first night, insisted on paying
>also took me to coffee, same
>texts me a lot
>thought it was just being friendly or he wanted to talk to me (we have an obscure hobby/interest in common)
>starting to wonder

He can't actually possibly be romantically interested, right? He's old enough to be my father. He's kind of dorky and sort of weird, but has interesting stories to tell about [interest]. I mean, are men self aware? That maybe a 45 year old cannot be romantic with a 20's girl? Right? And it can't be a sugar daddy thing because he's broke and jobless. I mean, please tell me he wasn't thinking of such things, right? Men?

>>17402551
>>17402555
Also, misunderstanding aside that is solid advice lol. So if anyone ITT is hearing voices, there you go.

Girls: If your notice a guy is into you and you're not, you wouldn't start touching while you're talking to him, right?

>>17402527
How about if you start to feel that closeness with someone else, if it's gone beyond fucking, even if you haven't fucked yet?

Is it sexist to have an ideal gf/bf?

If not, why?

>>17401390

Cock, hot guys, cock in puss, the motion of thrusting, the girl is enjoying it, guy is enjoying it. I hate porn with yucky old ugly guys or scruffy looking guys. If a porn were made to actually target girls, it would be a cute boy next door type, or a cute doctor or office worker or something. Not some grungy weirdo like is in most porn. I also like bf/gf porn. Not so much plot as romanticism.

>>17401603

Either she's batshit or she is just using you as a temporary thing.

>>17401630

Going outside. But actually also tinder. Came across a guy who had a tagline of that, that he wanted to wife up and start a family.

>>17401777

Don't use teeth. Figure out where the clit is. Finger + oral = cumming.

>>17402439

Nothing desu. Except bug catching or shit that could actually harm me.

>>17402521

Women will sense that you just want to get in their pants. Fair warning. Only chad could pull it off and you're not him.

>>17401315

Depends how serious I am with the current guy and how it is going between us. Maybe yes, maybe no.

>>17402564
It happens. Don't make assumptions that just because it's ridiculous for you, that he isn't excited about it.
I'm 21 and I'm chatting up a 45 year old who I met on a dating site.

I might suggest saying familial things, "You're like an uncle to me!" to pass along the idea that it's not gonna happen.

It could very well be innocent though. Several of my father's friends, who are 60-80, blatantly hit on me ("Hey, beautiful!", hugs, big silly winks). But it's all in good fun. They do it in front of their wives.

It's hard to say what your guy is thinking. He could be paying to make it a date, or paying because he's the senior and he's old-fashioned.

>>17402577
Yeah, common sense is if I wasn't interested and I knew he was I'd be gettin away from him or making excuses to leave.
Or telling him "Hey I ain't into it."
I cannot think of a single reason for a chick to touch a dude she's not interested in while talking to him. Now, the question is how do you know she knows you're into her? Women can be just as oblivious as men to signs. She may just think you're friends, and therefore casual touching is ok even though she's not interested sexually.
>>17402583
No. Everyone wants what they want, you shouldn't have to settle for anything. That being said, if you're completely unwilling to settle on anything no matter how small and will only accept absolute perfection, you're probably going to be single a loooong time.
But I wouldn't call it sexist at all.

>>17402564
>tfw 21 and balding
I'll look like a grandfather at my 30s

>>17402564
Lol There are LOTS of old men looking for a barely legal chick to bang. It's a pretty common fetish.
Could be he's just lonely and wants a friend. could be he wants to fuck a hot young girl.

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>>17402584
you know the most retarded thing here is that i posted a picture that shows ""insecurity"" and you think you know who´s chad and who´s not based on that.

All you did prove is that women are genuinely stupid, easy to manipulate and should be approached as full jerks who dont care about their opinions or them.

Thanks for redpilling me on being chad stupid bitch ;)

>>17402582
I'd venture to say that, while you can sense emotional compatibility with someone, it can only be proven over time.
How does the person react after you've told them the same story for the 5th time? What's it like when one of you go through a stressful situation like changing jobs or the death of a loved one? How do you cope with the inevitable cycles of good advice and relapsing into old bad habits?

There's a lot of things you can only learn about someone through time and circumstance.

If you've somehow allowed yourself months/years to get so vulnerable with someone new while still in a relationship- well. I guess you just have to choose.

>>17402566
Haha, thank you!

>>17402564
Sounds like he´s desperate

>>17402553
Even with a mask?
Imagine George Bush, Elvis or Mr. Beans going down on you.

>>17402614
all of those would be terrifying lol.
But yes, you cannot mask the fact it's a woman. It would freak me out, I'd feel like I was getting raped again.

im a 22 yr old virgin who's about to have sex for the first time tomorrow. She is 23 and way more experienced than I am

what can I do so I wont make such a complete fool of myself?

inb4 penis in vagoo

>>17402627
Oh well, i tried.

>>17402637
Free your mind and your ass will follow.

>>17402637
Don't expect to make her cum with penetration

>>17402588
I've been looking at her more recently and she's definitely caught me and we've locked eyes a few times.

I feel like I'm being a super creeper, so she must realize something.

>>17402647
kek
>>17402637
In all seriousness though, just talk with her. Ask her what she likes, what she wants you to do, communicate.
Seriously sex is weird no matter what. Just relax and do what comes naturally.
>>17402652
and this. Don't feel bad if she doesn't cum from your dick in her. Most women don't. Play with her clit while you're doing it if she likes that.

This goes to both genders but am I the only one who can't see why anyone would be interested in them?
I'm not ugly, I'm not (fully) autistic, I just can't imagine what would cause anyone to like me in such a way...

>>17402647
Ash vs evil dead?

>>17402665
No, Funkadelics.

People don't need reasons to be into someone, that said, if attraction was a check list i can't see anyone liking me.

>>17402676
That's the band's name right? It was played on the end credits of that TV show.
At least that's how I learnt about it.

Well dunno bro, people just "like" others, and I'm "kind" I guess? I just can't see how one could be invested in me.
It wouldn't be a problem if I couldn't see it in others to , but I can see why some of my friends for example could be.

>>17402665
I've been having the same trouble man, I'm tired of being lonely but I see nothing attractive from opposite gender and I see no reason for anyone to like me

>>17402688
>I see nothing attractive from opposite gender
what do you mean by that?

>>17402691
hes gay

>>17402682
Yeah, FYMAYAWF is the album and first song name.

People fall in love with others whom they never seen or abuse them or are distant, people who have nothing but negatives; there isn't much logic.
Somebody might fall for you even though they have no reason to.

It happened to me, can happen to you.

>>17402691
I mean that I have my job, can take care of myself, have friends to support me in need, can control my sexual urges. I still feel like I'm missing a woman in my life but I can't see why would I need one

>>17402700
I wish, being gay seems fun

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Why would a girl, who you have spent zero time with outside of class and group assignments, invite you to party in a nightclub on facebook, completely out of the blue?

She hasn't mentioned that shit to me in real life at all, and I haven't reacted to her facebook invitation. Why would I go, when I barely know her, and don't like nightclubs and bars anyways?
I can spend the weekend with my family at our summer cottage instead, which I recon to be far more enjoyable than the awkwardness of me trying to be in a nightclub, especially when I am not even sure why I was invited there.

For fuck's sake, I cannot understand why act the way they do. I sure as hell wouldn't invite some borderline stranger anywhere.

>>17401282
There's a lot of different red pills but I'll assume you're talking about the PUA stuff.
Does it work? Sort of. Pretty much all women will only date traditionalist men. It doesn't matter if she's a progressive feminist she still wants the man to ask her out, be assertive, and take all of the initiative.
If you aren't naturally dominant, then taking the red pill and learning to objectify women more will definitely help in the sense that you will become more assertive and confident around women, which is all they really care about. 99% of women would definitely prefer a red pilled man over a more passive guy who respects her and thinks of women as equals. Red pill also makes it easier to deal with rejection, so you can approach and ask out more women.

BUT! The negative view of women can make it hard for you to actually enjoy being in a relationship, and while women will be more attracted to you you also might just become some bitter asshole that gets laid a lot but nothing else, or has empty relationships with women that you don't respect.

So if women are rejecting you because you aren't assertive enough or confident enough, then the red pill PUA stuff can work but proceed with caution. Maybe just take a small dose and objectify women a little bit. And don't go full RooshV and start raping chicks or anything.

>>17401351
She sounds like an attention whore but fucking with somebody's heart is never cool even if they aren't suicidal. Just try to let her down gently. Don't be a dick and don't just ghost her. If she needs to talk afterwards try listening to her but be clear you aren't getting back together. And if you're really worried then talk to one of her friends about it.

>>17402719
She didn't text you to go there.
She saw you on facebook and invited you like she did a shit ton of other guys.
Don't sweat about it.

>>17402724
how do you exactly swallow the pill
do you just treat women like shit?

>>17402719
Sounds like you don't wanna go. Whats the issue?
Also I get bot invited to nightclubs on fb all the time. Sometimes clubs offer a discount or whatever if you get someone to accept the fb invite. They're just using hot chicks to get people to come to their event. She might even actually work there for all you know.
No biggie.

>>17402729
>>17402732
Oh, ok.
I was just really confused, because I couldn't fathom why anyone would invite me anywhere.

>>17402734
Yeah, sorry to break it to you but it most likely wasn't personal.

>>17402719
I know how retarded it is, but girls (and guys too) inviting everyone on their friends list to certain events is pretty normal

>>17402737
I didn't think that it was personal. As I said, I barely even know her. Which is why I didn't understand why the hell she would invite me.

>>17402742
So it's basically attention whoring?
God I hate social media. I only use facebook out of convenience, because sometimes you can't reach your family & friends trough phones.

>>17402753
Nah not attention whoring, it's like when people send farmville invitations to everyone. They just do it

>>17402730
Not quite "treat them like shit"
Basically accept that women do NOT want to be viewed or treated like equals. They will not ask you out, the will never take initiative, they will only date you if you are a lot more assertive than them.
Following that, just think of them as inferior. Women are incapable of asking a man out, or approaching a man, or making a move, etc. Because only men are capable of such complex tasks.
Objectify them some. It's a lot easier to initiate physical contact with an object than with a person you value as an equal.

Basically: Women are inferior, so of course you can't expect them to meet you halfway because they're incapable of taking any initiative or ever taking the lead. It's only natural that you do all the work. And since they're inferior, why should you ever NOT feel confident around them? And they're basically objects so stop second guessing whether or not she really wants you to go in for the kiss after the second date.

Again, this mentality will make you more confident and assertive, which will make you a LOT more successful with women. But, the negative view of women could lead to bitterness and make it hard for you to actually be in a loving relationship so try not to take it too far.

>>17402753
No she isn't attention whoring.
She just invites people to an event either cause she works there, or someone she knows does or to promote something or w/e.

>>17402734
I had to unfriend a friend of mine once after she started working at a night club lol. Literally every other day she'd mass invite her entire friendslist to the clubs events, because she got a buck added to her paycheck for every 10 people who accepted the invite.
Same with those scam/pyramid scheme things my broke ass friends fall for. "Come to my 'Jowschmoes weightloss powder' sample party!"
Only one of those things I ever went to that was fun was the girl who got in selling dildos. Nothing like going to a dildo party lol.

>>17402760
I will never understand these people. Never fucking ever.

>>17402768
>>17402771
At least a financial motivation makes some sense, though, to my understanding, she isn't working at that place, though, I could very well be wrong, because, as I said before, we aren't friends, and I don't know her well.

If you get rejected the first time while dating for partying, new fun, and that person comes back later wanting to start again, can you ever really move past it and have a functional relationship?

>>17401998

What happened to your Civic?

Did you try to 'trick' it out?

As for the cumdump, you're better off without that race traitor and will end up getting what she deserves: knocked up and all alone.

>>17402796
They are settling with you, the safe choice.

>>17402796
Not sure I quite understand why you were rejected, they didn't like the fact you were a party boy/girl?
I think it's possible if you've changed, maybe you've settled down and are more on par with one another. I wouldn't say it's a completely closed door. But you may have to prove it.
I find that most of the time though couples that break up and try to get back together usually do not work out.
Also depends on how strong their feelings were about the negative trait. Like I couldn't date a party boy, but I could date an ex party boy.
But some people are like, "Once a whore always a whore" you know? Some people think you're ruined forever from that behavior, so it'll depend what they think.

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>>17402500

Well she told me that she's always had a rape fantasy (What woman doesn't?).

I told that I already knew that but if I gave her what she wanted then she'd never talk to me again.

So I consider what I did a farewell gift.

Even though she wasted my time, feelings and money.

Had to go to out with a bang.

>>17402817
spent a couple months together initially. great dates- more outdoor adventure stuff than just sitting across from one another eating, cooked meals. I thought I got the real deal this time, then her friends breaks up and wants her to come bar hopping as a third wheel to help get over the break up. new friends are found and I'm sidelined. so like >>17402811
said, while starting a new relationship, being the that "safe" second choice has been in the back of my mind

I know this might break the guidelines but when women flirt with you (ie) blowing kisses and winking. Does it give a clear indication for her liking you or if she is just leading you on?

>>17402896
I'm rolling my eyes

>>17402884
I don't she why she wouldn't dish you again, if anything it's easier because she's done it before and she knows you accepted it.

Girls, what are things guys do that you find cute or attractive? for example I know girls that find it cute when guys are good with kids

>>17401902
get rid of him, are you cute? be my girl. I travel a lot for wok come with me

fuck him, I'm always very nice to people. idk wtf is wrong with people that they're mean to anyone they're in a relationship with

Girls: I just broke up a relationship by letting a girl know shes been cheated on by her boyfriend, whats the best way to now get with this girl? She isnt overly upset about it and I also just got cheated on and ended my relationship.

>>17402884
Sorry, my reading comprehension here may be shot due to drugs lol.
So you're saying she ditched you for her friends who were going through a breakup, and then is coming back to you now?
I mean on one hand I'm a firm believer in bros before hoes, so I don't blame her for wanting to help her friends and spend time with them, but she also shouldn't have left you feeling neglected.
I can totally understand feeling like you're second best. I feel it all the time in my relationships, though not necessarily towards their friends but towards other women.
But idk, I think you gotta talk it out. Discuss what made you upset when you broke up the first time, and what you can do to ensure that won't happen again.

>>17402913
When he likes animals.

When he has a hobby that requires hard work and patience. It doesn't even have to be one of my hobbies or even something I'm interested in. I just like it when a guy is passionate about something.

Cleanliness.

Smokers, but I have a male smoker fetish.
Honestly, the kid thing is a myth. Because people can be chill with other people's kids or a certain age group, doesn't mean he's gonna be a stable parent figure in the future. When a guy kinda "uses" his relationship with a kid to impress me, I'm beyond turned off.

>>17402941
>check
>check
>check
>smoke
Why

>>17402918
It seems to work, abusive relationships are long as fuck too.
>>17402930
Kek

>>17402945
I don't know why. When an attractive man smokes near me, my insides melt. It's not necessarily this bad boy image thing. Visually, it just looks beautiful.

>>17402913
I mean, being good with kids/animals is always a good sign. It shows you have patience and have broad social interaction skills. I don't even want kids, but I think you have to know how to talk with them. But maybe that's just because I work with them.
Like I remember being on a date once at a movie, and this dad brought his two young kids in and they sat behind us. Granted, this was an R rated movie and he shouldn't have brought his kids to it, but the kids were reading subtitles outloud and my date turned around and told them to shut up to their face.
It kinda threw me off, yeah they were annoying but I blame the dad more than the kids. They were young enough to not really know or understand they were being obnoxious. The dad was though.
Anyway idk I like a dude who's aware of the situation. Can be loose and fun and goofy when it's appropriate, but stiff when needed. Dudes who have darker humor attract me too, because it matches mine. Ultimately I like a dude who takes charge though.

>>17402908
that's what I keep thinking. the long term trust was tainted

Has anyone ever received head from a girl with braces?

>>17402947
yea it's sad to me, I should start abusing women

>>17402930
Geeze. I'll tell you what if you act too soon, she's going to see right through your plot. She's going to know you didn't inform her about her cheating bf out of the goodness of your heart or because it was right, but because you wanted in her pants and he was in the way.

If you're not just being a fucking douche, you'll just continue to be there for her, grow your relationship, and when she's ready she may or may not choose you. And if/when she doesn't, don't interfere unless you genuinely feel somethings wrong and not because you're mad she didn't fuck you instead.
>>17402945
I'm with ya. Idk what's attractive about dying of lung cancer young, yellow teeth, weezing cough, and the absolute stench of smoke on literally everything they've ever touched.

>>17402753
>attention whoring?

No you social autist. People like big parties as they're more fun. So they invite everyone. It's also out of politeness to not exclude anyone. Stop being so self centered. She invited everyone on her friends list, not just you. It was never about you.

You act like she pissed on your mother's grave by having the AUDACITY to invite you to a party.

Women: How strict are height requirements on Match.com? I'm not even really short, I'm 5'8 and yet half the profiles i come across want at least 5'9. Even without the height factor online dating is already stacked against men so it would suck if the dating pool gets cut in half on top of that, are half the women on there really eliminating just on height or is that more of a preference than a requirement?

Girls,
if a girl from one side, touches you alot, put her hand on you, leaning on you, and even flirts with you sometimes, but then she says "I don't know why would anyone want a relationship, I never had feelings for anyone".. Is she into me or not?

>>17402998
I can't speak for any website, but dude you're projecting hard here.
It's a preference, not a requirement. The only way I'd reject a dude on their height alone is if they were a midget or fucking Shaq. Most girls prefer a dude who's taller than them, sure, but given most women are around 5'3-5'5, you're going to be taller. I would date a guy at 5'8, of course if he was everything else I liked.

However I'll tell you why online dating is garbage in general. It is heavily looks based. You get chosen first on attractiveness, everything else is secondary. You'll have better luck just dating the old fashioned way, and probably meet less shallow and more stable women.
>implying you have friends
Start asking your friends if they know anyone they could hook you up with. That's how I've gotten literally every boyfriend I've ever had. They were always a friend of a friend.

>>1740298
Again, I am not her god damn friend, so why invite me?
I barely know her. What the hell would I do in some party where I know absolutely no one?
So again, what possible reasons would she have had for inviting me?

And yes, I am annoyed by her audacity to invite me, as it forces me to either reject the invitation and possibly offend her, on the chance that she actually wanted me there for some unknown reason, or accept it, and end up in a situation where I know no one, and won't enjoy myself at all.
Both are awkward and annoying prospects, that I would have rather be done without.

She should have restricted her invitations to just her actually friends.

>>17403001
She wants your dick and nothing more. That's what she's telling you.
Do you want a warm hole or a gf? that's the question you should be asking yourself.

>>17402957
I have given head with braces. What do you want to know?

>>17403011
Meant to quote this>>17402983

>>17403011
You can always like ignore the invitation or click the "maybe" button facebook has.

And how would she be offended?

Ok fuck it, you have reached a new level of autism, I'm done.

>>17403018
I have a nance button on the roof of my mouth. I'm afraid to hurt him but he doesn't seem to be concerned. And do you just pull your lips over the brackets?

There's a girl that's into me, but I'm not sure if I like her back. She's quite cute, but she also seems to be a bit arrogant, which turns me off a bit. Should I simply ignore her, or ask her out anyway and see how it goes?

>>17402961
Thats my plan, I did tell her out of the good of my heart but I mean I have liked her a long time, Im going to give it a nice bit of time and see if I can pick out any signs of mutual feelings.

>>17403016
I'm not the type of guy who'll do one night stands. Seems weird to me to have sex with a girl without both of us loving eachother.. So if she only wants sex ot's kinda heart breaking.. Really liked her.. Well. Shit. I guess i'll go back to r9k. Once a robot, always a robot. The universe won't let it change.

>>17401315
No, but I would tell them because I'm open poly.
>>17401390
The guys moans, but they don't really emphasize that except in gay stuff sometimes. Not like I masterbate anyway.
>>17401777
Do it like you mean it and you don't get to complain about smell or taste or else you should probably consider recieving in the butt.
>>17402439
Probably watersports/diapers, I'd kill before that.
>>17402521
>buy a girl a beer
Don't do that, it makes you look like you'd rather suck dick.
>>17402577
Maybe I'm too drunk for that conversation.
>>17402719
Because she wants to be nice and see new people at the nightclub.

>>17403010
How is it "projecting" when their profile literally says "Looking for: 5'9-6'11"
The way the profiles are set up it definitely looks like a requirement so that's why I asked

>Meeting irl
I moved to a new city and only have a couple of friends. They're a few years older than me too. We hang out but it's not like college where there are large social events to meet tons of new peopl, it's either just us our maybe 1-2 other people who are usually in a relationship anyway. With the only standards being not-fat and no more than two years older than me, I've only met two women in the last three months. One rejected me and the other is really flaky/bad at responding to texts.
After college, how do you meet new people? I've tried meetup.com but even in a large city there aren't a ton of events, and the events I've gone to most people are over 30.

>>17403028
I generally practiced holding my mouth even wider than normal, but you don't really need to worry much. The penis doesn't really hit the front of your teeth or the roof of your mouth, due to the angle. Just aim down.

>>17403035
Alright, as long as you're not just being a douche thinking you can break her up (even for a good reason) and then go in for the kill while she's mourning and feeling insulted.
>>17403038
Its not the life for me either, I understand. I mean, worst case you can just tell her "hey I'd like to date you" and see what she says.
>>17403051
I've never done match, sorry. Usually guys are just overly sensitive about height and dick size, when the reality is most quality women don't care nearly as much about those things as you men do.
I'm still in college so I'm not qualified to answer this too much, but I do understand the small town thing. My college is in a town with a population of like 15000, and also provides zero social opportunities. (No clubs, only events they throw are special lectures.) I guess just keep getting out there, go to bars, hit on chicks, see if any of them click. And if there's nothing for you, make an event yourself. Take the initiative. I was just saying that because again, in my experience online dating really is kind of a shitfest. Usually they're on there and not out in the real world for a reason, you know?

I'm pretty tarded when it comes to social interactions cause I was plagued with animu when I was a 12yo, so I missed out on a lot of my social maturity/development, but I've slowly been getting better and am actually pretty extroverted now with a crowd that I know. but that's the problem, I can only speak to people I already know... and I sperg in front of girls still..
say when I'm anywhere, bar and there's a cute chick sitting/dancing somewhere across the room, or just at a cafe with a girl sitting next to a window alone, how can I start conversation and make friends/something more with her without coming off spaghetti?

>>17401270

Ladies:

What are your feeling about uncircumcised cocks?

I'm not circumcised but most girls can't tell but once they find out, they say it actually felt better due to the slight ribbed condom feeling.

Aesthetics can vary but so can a vaginas.

>>17401270
Me 23, her 25.
I kinda fucked up, there is a girl I met in school, after getting to know her I got a huge crush on her. I just graduated and she is still in school 2 hours away. I text her time to time to ask what is new. She informed me that she is now dating someone for about a month, felt my heart drop and regret of not asking her our before. I still want to date her (never liked someone this much before, wife material), I dont want to be a dick, but the next time I text her in about a week or two, should I ask if she is dating the guy? If she asks why, should I tell her I want to date her?

>>17403172
>most girls can't tell
Nigga say what

>>17403201
he's right they have no idea

>>17403201

You'd be amazed how many girls can't tell unless they've sucked a lot of cocks and then suck an uncircumcised one.

>>17403207
>>17403210
Seriously?
Its a piece of skin how can you miss it?
Learning something everyday

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>>17403172
I've never had sex with one, but I've given handies/blowjobs to both. There wasn't that much a difference in preference really, but if I had to pick one over the other I'd probably pick cut just because of the way I like to tease. I'm all about the really soft gentile touches. When I was with my cut bf, I liked just running my fingertips across the shaft and tip. I found I couldn't do that very well with the uncut guy, just kinda dragged the skin rather than that fluid motion.
But even still, I don't have that heavily of a pref either way I'd turn a dude down just for being uncut. They have their own fun perks, doing the tongue swirl thing between the forskin and the head's kinda fun. Plus they feel like pic related which makes me giggle lol

>>17403172
I have no preference over these things.

But with all genitals, obviously just keep it clean.

>>17403226
>implying girls have a clue about anything
hahahah
you'd need common sense for that, my friend

rarely do they notice, unless the lights are on and they're licking your dick

>>17403226

Some guys have too much foreskin (Europeans) or it's too tight and stands out like a sore thumb.

I have just enough to protect my head but once I get had it peels back enough to look like a circumcised cock but it feels different (better) to the grillz. Like I said, once I tell them they're surprised and actually start preferring uncut cocks.

I don't pretend to understand women but there are some motifs.

Men what does your girlfriend have to do to get you all over her again? I feel like my man got used to me and doesn't appreciate me anymore

>>17403332
let him put it in the pooper.

>>17403318
>>17403326
Are you guys twins using the same computer?

There is a difference between foreskins? I never thought about it, but i guess it makes sense.
Today is a day of knowledge.

>>17403368
no that ugly faggot isn't my twin
I'm beautiful

>>17403332
start taking interest in what I'm working on / lick my dick
idk I don't think I would lose interest in someone I'm seeing all the time, or I would no longer see them all the time....

>>17403332
Not necessarily this >>17403336
But the general idea is right. Figure out what he wants. Kinks etc. And indulge

>>17403373
>>17403336
Is the only way a girl can keep attention on her is using sex?

guys, what's more sad?
being seen as a brother to a girl or a son?
How would you even react to the son part?

>>17403372

Look how I type and use correct grammar and punctuation then look at how that faggot types.

But I'm also beautiful so it's possible I'm your doppelganger.

Have you seen Enemy?

>>17403386
No, it's the easiest thing to think of, other things are more personal.

>>17403395
you trying to make up for something there m8?

want to have a scuffle?

>>17403387
I'd wonder why I was interested in a MILF in the first place

>>17403386
how affectionate are you? do you nag him a lot? do you have anything to say that's interesting or shows that you care about him in normal conversation?

>>17403387
Having no one.
>>17403395
No, i was going to, 3 times, but never did.

>>17403408
I wasn't that girl, just asking

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>>17403387

Yeah she was/is, she was VERY 'girl next door looking' and I was very 'boy next door looking but with a bit of edge' and we both had dark hair and looked a bit similar so sometimes we'd be out in public and I call her "Sis" and give her a kiss and/or grab her ass.

Turned out she liked it and I later find out that she has a HUGE big brother complex.

He joined the Marines and when he came home on leave, the whole family and I went out to dinner. I looked EXACTLY like him: dark hair, blue eyes, broad shoulders.

I looked over at her with disgust and arousal.

Then I told jokes to her brother and made him laugh while I was rubbing her thigh with my hand under the table.

Later on, she told me that made her wet.

As for the mom part, don't ever call her mommy; use mom or momma.

Let her lead you since "Mother knows best".

“A boy's best friend is his mother.”

>>17403387
being seen as a brother is just being an emotional tampon
being son on the other hand could be nice

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>>17403410

I don't like spiders so the ending is what's preventing me from watching.

Even though it's the pussiest of spiders.

Watch it today and so will I, brother.

>>17403404
hue
There's this guy 2 years younger than me and I see him more like a son. I give him advice, encourage him, etc. He's been very flirty so I'm just worried/curious about how he'd react if I told him?

>>17403419

Filling the void of a girls big brother when he leaves to join the Marines combined with her severe 'Big Brother Complex' is one of the best situations in the world.

>"Don't tell mom, okay?"

>"This is our secret."

>"Promise me, sis"

>"I promise."

Tell me that isn't the hottest thing ever and I'll call you a fucking liar.

>>17403386
It's the easiest. What do you do to show him you appreciate him? Figure out an activity he would enjoy and take him on a date

Girls, I have a major question.

So I hung out with this girl I find attractive for some odd reason. I hung out with her and one of her lady friends the other night, till the next morning. We had a great time. Anyways, somewhere during the night, her friend went to the bathroom, and she said to hold her hand. I did, because we have done so before (I find this somewhat weird desu lel) Anyways, I asked her if she wanted to go to a party on Friday, and she said yes. It's been about two days since we have said anything to one another (I don't text people just to converse/talk) I usually just hit people up to hang out, besides that I usually don't call/text people.

Besides my blabbering and autism, do you girls find it annoying if I were to text you to see if you are still going? And why do I feel autistic whenever I talk to her, even though we were talking to one another the other night like we were a couple?

>white male says he's straight
>Check your privilege cis scum!

>Asian male admits being gay
>Such a brave man! A true inspiration to us all!

>white male had a circumcision
>fucking mutilator! Hope you become a limp dick!

>man who identifies as a woman gets a sex change surgery to look more like a woman
>A true inspiration! A scholar!

>straight guy flirts
>Rape Rape Rape!!!!

Gay guy who identifies as a female lawnmower flirts with a woman who identifies as a black African albino homosexual man
>You go girl!

>>17403499
Kids, stay away from drugs.

>>17403332
Not really sure what you mean exactly. But I respond very well to someone acting in a happy/positive way to me. I've been involved with a lot of women who won't just say what they want or need, but instead act in negative ways until I drag out what is wrong, and then they continue to act sullen even when I try to give it to them. At some point that's going to make me want to stop trying.

And sometimes people don't actually really care about you or enjoy being with you that much, they just want someone to be around. Once they feel secure with you they stop making the effort they put in to "get" you.

>>17403387
You mean if I wanted a sexual relationship but these are the reasons why it wouldn't happen? I don't think I'd feel sad about either, I'd just figure they weren't available and look for someone else.

I've had a lot of women want to mother me, and while it can be kind of sweet, sometimes it can be annoying or really inappropriate.

>>17402480
> in a world where there are already enough fucking unwanted children and not enough willing parents for them

I can see why people might think this because there are still kids without permanent homes, but it's not because of a lack of willing parents. There are actually more people wanting to adopt than there are children in the system. The problems are the hoops and loops of getting approved.

That being said, you will never have to worry about your child not finding a home if you're considering adoption over abortion. Babies, especially white babies, will ALWAYS get adopted. In fact, you can find your adoptee family while you are pregnant and they will pay for all of your pregnancy costs.

>>17403499
My /adv/ice is to go outside and get some fresh air, and stop being such a fucking retard

>>17401270
What;s the most unattractive thing a guy can do? Girls too for that matter.

For me it's constant blabbering. If a girl can constantly talk about mundane shit, she'll seem dumb and won't deserve my genes(is probably what my brain subconsciously decides). I understand that you gotta make small talk to get going, but if you're just talking to talk then my interest is out the window. It'll take an 8 down to a 5 for me desu, but maybe I'm extreme here.

>>17403408

yes I do but I feel like he doesn't want to talk to me about that anymore

>>17403488

No not at all. She's probably waiting for you to text. Girls like when you treat them different to others.

>>17403539

Thank you for your answer

>>17403577

Being too distant and acting cool.

>>17403516
>Kids, stay away from tumblr.

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>>17403499
What the fuck does any of this have to do with the thread? Where's your question. Other than "why am I so autistic"

>>17403577
Unattractive things for girls:
Be fat
Be a feminist
Be too passive / expect me to take charge all the time

Also being late or being bad about returning texts aren't "unattractive" but they're annoying and usually a deal breaker

>>17403560
Willing parents would go through the loops and hoops. If you're deterred the second you have to submit a background check then you're not a willing parent. It's not supposed to be easy.
Is your experience with this from the movie Juno? Coming from someone who knows people, white people even, who were trying to find adopters for their bastard in high school, it ain't as easy as asking man.
Yes, babies are more likely to get chosen over the 10 year old, but it happens. You wanna live with even the chance your kids gonna grow up its whole life foster parent to foster parent? I don't. Rather spare it from misery and abort it from the start.
Plus you also have to worry about the kid finding you when it's 30 and a broke deadbeat who wants easy money. "You abbbbaaannnddooonned me mommy. So how about letting me live in your house and eat your food while contributing fuckall?"
That's what happened to my neighbor lol. Ruined his marriage, relationship with his son, and somehow got cucked into financially supporting this 30 year old daughter he put up for adoption and her 2 bastards as well.

>>17403577
Smoking, number one lady boner killer.

But also thinking being a douche will get you the girls lol. I'm just like "Ok bye I don't have to put up with this."

>>17403664
do you mean that for you personally it's the main turnoff or that most women you know don't like it?

what about smoking do you hate?

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Question for women

I met a girl online recently and I want to know what's going on. Does she have an interest in me or is she just looking for a friend?

>Very interested in skyping with me
>Stays up later then normal waiting for me to Skype
>Didn't mention she had a boyfriend ever until I brought it up and never talked about him since
>Always tells me to brush my teeth before bed
>Let's me know she'll message me as soon as she gets up or when I do.
>Hasn't lost interest after we videocalled a few times
>interested in seeing my house and room or whatever
>makes excuses to stay up longer to talk to me

Is she just trying to make a friend? From what she tells me she already has a lot of male friends online.

>>17403674
Oh I mean me in specific I guess. But I don't know a single woman who disagrees, but then again we tend to make friends with like minded people right? My sample pool is probably biased.

idk, everything about it is just gross to me. It smells, it makes you have that awful flemmy smoker cough, yellows your teeth, etc. I also find it kinda selfish and arrogant, because you're affecting more than just your own body by doing it. I'd actually rather a guy chew than smoke.
I also physically cannot be around it anyways, bad asthma.

These threads are pointless.

>Asking a fish how to catch a fish

>>17403680

not the guy but I think smoking people smell bad and imo it's just a bad decision and I would'nt choose to be around a smoker

>>17403674

she's clearly interested. I only behave like this with guys I'm interested in

>>17403703
>implying winning someone's heart and fucking them is the same as killing and eating them
You realise people want love and sex, right?

>>17403774
Well, mostly sex kek

>>17403516
Don't you dare comparing drug intoxication with this kind of retardation

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>>17403783

>>17402896

The idea of leading someone on is them thinking you genuinely like them.

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18 y/o. The fuck should I do with my facial hair and hairstyle in general, I don't know what's deemed attractive and nothing I've tried has suited me at all, growing my hair (not facial) made me go from like 4/10 to 0/10 so that's not an option either.

>>17403832
try smiling

>>17403499
Get off tumblr.

>>17403836
Never been able to smile in photos, I can't grasp why but I just don't like it.

>>17403655
It's true. You can look at the statistics, and it's not at all as simple as most couples fail the background check.

My family is heavily involved in adoption, both domestically and internationally, from teenagers to unborn babies like I described.

>>17403832
You look decent to me. Maybe try shaping your brows a bit more, make em a little less bushy.
Also try a hair style that uses less gel, or learn how to gel better without looking like its greasy.
>>17403865
That was my point, you don't want to just shove babies off to anyone who asks for one if you can actually have that option. You should have to do a lot to adopt, I only wish it were possible to force biological parents through the same loops to have a damn kid. Then we wouldn't end up with irresponsible little shit kids like the chick in question.
Either way, statistically there are more unwanted children than fit parents, adding to that number is just irresponsible. Abort it or raise it yourself and accept the consequences. Putting a kid up for adoption is the most disgustingly irresponsible option of the 3 imo. If you care enough about the fucking clump of cells to birth it, then you might as well fucking raise it. Not subject it to the possibility of a garbage life while you wash your hands of the experience and continue on to try and live a great one, all while patting yourself on the back for being such a great person for it.

how do girls feel about curved penises, is it something normal or am i a freak?

im also a virgin btw :(

>>17403859
Smiling shows confidence, and you clearly lack confidence (hence your question). That's probably why you can't smile.

I'm not trying to be a jerk, but looking at your picture I already don't like you. Now you may not be a bad person, and you likely aren't but our psychology is hard to fight, when I see the expression on your face I immediately think of you as unfriendly, non approachable and a bit creepy.

If you were to smile that would likely break that bias. Smile is the universal "i'm a person you would want to be around" sign

>>17403884
I thought all penises were curved to some degree

>>17403884
Depends, turning to the left is haram.

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>>17403832

Master the smirk.

Don't ever try looking hard; that just makes you look stupid.

>>17403890
then im absolute haram :v

whats the right side mean?

>>17403878
Bushy eyebrows here, thanks for the criticism I'll focus on finding a new hairstyle, I hate the idea of giving the impression I don't take care of my hair.

>>17403893
The smirk makes you look like a try hard douche, it looks cheesey unless you're 9/10 attractive smile will suffice

>>17403888
I don't think you're a jerk, thanks for letting me know. I have confidence in my social ability but not in my looks, obviously. Thanks for the advice I'll have to work on it because I do see where you're coming from.

been with girlfriend for 6 months now. in my mind ive started to check out, knowing I need to get a legitimate career im happy with instead of this handyman nonsense I do now. when we first started dating, she pretty much sidelined me for other fun and then came back. i thought a second go i would get over it but it just bothered me more and more thinking I was that safe bet, second choice. am I being rational here or just really insecure?

>>17403901

I have a 7/10 smile that looks genuine; I've found having non-perfections and a 'boy next door look' gets me more action than 9/10 fit guys with Tom Cruise smiles.

But what do I know?

>>17403878
>statistically there are more unwanted children than fit parents

No, my point was that this is not true. Especially not for newborn babies. You'll have something like more than six fit couples trying to get one baby. In this current day and age, you don't just relinquish the newborn to the state and hope for the best, you can easily choose from a number of responsible, loving families BEFORE the baby is even born. So I think adoption is a very responsible and good option in that situation. My little cousins is absolutely wonderful and I'm so thankful that's what his mom chose to do.

>>17403911
Another anon asked this itt already.
>>17403894
You use right for noble things and left for haram things.

>>17403911
Nobody can explain her actions apart from herself, and the only way you can come to understand her point of view and clarify/disprove yours is to speak to her. She's your girlfriend, so be more open with her and share your opinion. If she over reacts and blows the way you feel out of proportion then it's time to get a new gf m8. Honesty is key.

>>17403914
Age, personal preference all comes into play very true. I attract women by smiling being happy and joking around.
>>17403905
This all being said, you're not unattractive. I think working on a good smile would do you WONDERS especially if your personalities good (no homo)

>>17403774
Men want sex
Women want money
Love is a lie

>>17403897
np man. Best of luck to ya
>>17403916
Then explain to me why there are 140 MILLION orphans world wide? and over 100 thousand kids under 16 in the us foster care system waiting to be adopted? If there were 3-4 parents per fucking kid flocking to get them, and they were just and fit parents, then why the fuck are there that many?
Why would you even RISK having you kid be one of them when you can just get the goddamn abortion? It's the laziest option there is, I'm glad for your cousin and everything, but goddamn it's incredibly lazy and insulting to say "Eh, I'll spit this thing out but I won't have anything to do with it later. That's someone else's problem."
You're just shoving your responsibility onto someone else. That's why I think its irresponsible. You aren't even owning up to your own actions and mistakes.

I was going to make a thread about it but I'll try my luck here first.

I've been chatting with a girl I met online. We have similar interests, she's cute and we live in the same city so I'll probably ask her out . soon. Thing is, she told me she defines herself as "non-binary" gender and having a better look she does have a kind of androgyny about her. What are the chances of "her" being a trap? Is it ok to ask her directly? I really have no idea.

>>17403011

Holy wow this autism level. I've browsed 4chan since 2007 and this is the worst I've seen after Chris-chan.

>what would you do at a party

HAVE FUN?

>actually annoyed that someone made the mistake of talking to him

Just quote her this thread and your problems with unwanted social interaction will be solved forever. Print it out, post it around campus with your name and photo, and no one will ever annoy you by inviting you somewhere again.

Now we know, you have important anime girls to fap to and 4chinz threads to shitpost in. No time for parties, ladies.

>>17404019
Kek. If she's going to freak the fuck out about you asking her you're dodging a bullet anyways t b h.
Just ask, politely, to explain what she means. You can play dumb if you gotta, and ask "Oh are you mtf or something? I'm just confused, please explain I want to learn."

>>17403114

Go up, sit next to her, start talking to her.

You get better with practice. I went through this myself. If you're scared go to the next town over so no one will know you.

Girlfriend is almost 33 and is still a virgin. She won't put out, we've dated for a year. Marriage has been discussed, but still....

Her biological clock is ticking loudly, she has hinted at wanting sex but with strings attached-- such as, us both getting in better shape, me being nicer, etc. etc.

Should I just dump her and move on to a younger? I'd like to date and marry a 25 year old. 33 is too old. I want kids, lots of them.

>>17404058

Sounds like you've already made your mind up there.

And she's adding unnecessary conditions. Being in better shape COULD be a self-conscious thing, but you being nicer? Even if you were a total dickhole that sounds like something needed in order to continue the relationship, not something needed so you guys can have sex. Her age isn't seeming to be a problem except for the kids, and at this rate she'll run out the clock coming up with every excuse under the sun.

>>17403884

Try fapping with the other hand for a while.

>>17403832

Are you trying to look like a douchebag on purpose or does it come naturally to you? Take better pictures, shave your face, and get out of that punk ass clothing.

>>17403577
>What;s the most unattractive thing a guy can do?

Smoke. I don't care if you're 10/10 and make 400 grand a year as a rocket scientist at nasa. You smoke you're not getting it.

Nasty facial hair, especially pube beards. So many fucking guys. Why? SHAVE.

Shitty clothes/attitudes, especially suburban white guys who think they're hood. Yeah, throwing gang signs really makes you cool, you middleclass whitebread-ass momma's boy dipshit. I want to take them for a ride and drop them off in a real hood and watch them cry and beg to be let back in the car and taken home. Mhm.

Incessant party/drinking/cigar photos. You're not cool, you're a massive tool and an immature shithead. We're all over 21, anyone can go to the store and buy some beer.

Also manlets. Sorry but please kill your parents and then yourself. Should have eaten your vegetables as a child. I just want to beat them up and bully them. There's this guy my height and really skellington, and I just think how much I want to pin him to the ground and bully him. Maybe put bugs on his dick and push his head into the dirt with my sweaty feet.

>>17404058
She's probably lying about being a virgin.

But you should dump her either way.

Guy here accepting advice from any gender.
How do I learn to appreciate the girls that are attracted to me and stop being attracted to girls that aren't into me?

>>17401315

I'd say it depends on how much I'd fell for the new person and how good I'd feel in my ltr. I wouldn't break up lightly for some crush but if I really fell for him and wanted to be with him and felt like I'm betraying my partner I'd split up. I think no partner deserves being a safe number or a number 2. I'd have too much respect for my partner to act like I love him but already fell for someone new. This could fuck up people's trust and I don't want that. When I'm with someone I want to be sure that they love me and want to be with me and are not sideways interested in some other woman.

>>17404095

Well, you already know what the problem is. Just start creating a mental block. Chicks that aren't attracted to you either want nothing from you or they want to use you - excluding friendship, but that's always a grey area. Some want it, some pretend they want it.

Now start focusing on mutual attraction. There's no reason here not to go after a woman that you share an attraction with. So do. And enjoy that. Focus on that.

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girls, Is it a bad idea to ask someone why they seem so distant. i have a penpal that i have talked to for a year now that came to America recently. we hungout twice, but she seems very hesitant when i ask her if she would want to go the movies or go to a surf competition (similar to the X games) with me. i don't know if its good to ask why she seems so distant.

>>17404126

Ask if things are okay between you too, and then mention her being distant if she asks why. Opening with the concern approach is better.

>>17402577

no

>>17404058
"You're nice enough for me to date... but if you ever want a piece of this pussy, you're going to really have to treat me like a princess!"
Sounds like there's a reason she's still a virgin. Tell her that you think sex is an important part of a relationship, and if she can't see that then dump her.

>>17404086
>I just want to beat them up and bully them. There's this guy my height and really skellington, and I just think how much I want to pin him to the ground and bully him. Maybe put bugs on his dick and push his head into the dirt with my sweaty feet.
Tell me more about this. Let's say I'm a short skinny guy. Please, give me some details about what you want to do to me...

>>17404036
Yeah that sounds like the right idea, I guess. Thanks man.

Is it ok to text a girl if I got her number from a friend? We have talked but idk

Girls, what is attractive about broad shoulders?
I can't see the appeal.

>>17404346
ehhh it's a grey area. I'd have a specific reason to text her other than just to ask her out. And make sure you include who you got her number from.
>>17404349
idk either. I don't like muscle in general, the most I'll stand is like a swimmers body. Some people like big guys, others (like me) like the twig boys.

>>17404349
>Girls, what is attractive about broad shoulders?

Not a chick but uh... what's the deal with wide hips or big sacks of fat on the chests (aka breasts)?

>>17404095
>How do I learn to appreciate the girls that are attracted to me and stop being attracted to girls that aren't into me?

Sounds like you're not actually attracted to individuals or personalities, you're actually attracted to a situation/a fantasy/an idea of how things would go.

Stop over-hyping things/putting things on pedestals. >>17403387
>guys, what's more sad?
>being seen as a brother to a girl or a son?

Probably as a son.

>How would you even react to the son part?
To be honest... no fucking idea... Even my own parents never really babied me and treated me more adult like because I just always looked intense, intelligent, and proper, even as a kid.

I guess I'd be... bemused?

>>17403332
>Men what does your girlfriend have to do to get you all over her again? I feel like my man got used to me and doesn't appreciate me anymore

*shrug* love is cyclical. He either goes back in to the lovely-dovey stage, or he doesn't. You can't force the cycle.

Typically it tends to go something like:

Months 1-6: Infatuated lovey dovey stage
Months 6-11: calm comfort (with a minor tiff probably)
Months 11-18: infatuation (with a major tiff probably)
Months 18-36 calm comfort
etc etc

It's all a cycle. Young kids make the mistake of thinking everything's always going to be butterflies and rose tinted glasses, but that's just not how humans work.

>>17402658
she just texted me.

she got her period so no sex tomorrow. cucked by nature

>>17404124
I'm hardly ever attracted to the girls that are attracted to me, so I'm not sure how to go about focusing on mutual attraction.

>>17404619
Yeah I have a problem with idealization

>>17404685
You'll have to learn how to see people as people, see their qualities and defects; don't get stuck on the first impression, learn to always analyze people.
They aren't angels nor goddesses

>>17404367
girls like you exist? hm this breaks every preconception i've ever had.

>>17404619
>what's the deal with wide hips or big sacks of fat on the chests (aka breasts)?
It screams fertile on an evolutionary basis.

>>17404086
>Should have eaten your vegetables as a child.
I'm 6'2" and I always avoided eating my greens.
Go me.

>>17403387
Brother. Maybe I just have bad experiences but I rarely see any respect in that dynamic.

I actually had a thing going with a milf for a while, and we had a bit of an age dynamic going on. Nothing I'd suggest for the long term, but it was definitely interesting at the time.

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Well I did it /adv/
We've known each other for 10 years.
Known each other better than anyone.
Shared lots of intimate moments together.
Been going out with each other a lot recently.

Aaand she flat out rejected me.
And made sure to remind me that there will never be anything between us.
And for some reason added that she felt betrayed.

>>17404996

>10 years

A grill knows if she's going to fuck you in the firs t 3 minutes of being around you.

>>17404996
>And for some reason added that she felt betrayed.
Yeah nigga you got her thinking the past 10 years was some elongated autistic plan to start a relationship with her. You got her questioning the very nature of the friendship.
>>17405049
Is right if she wanted you she would have done so YEARS ago.

>>17404996
>Aaand she flat out rejected me.
Bad luck, but what can you do?

>And made sure to remind me that there will never be anything between us.
That was considerate of her, no use risking you pining for something that can never happen, especially if you guys intent to continue the friendship.

>And for some reason added that she felt betrayed.
As you would, if someone you've trusted as a close friend for 10 years reveals he's been harbouring other intentions.

>>17405172
>she would have done so YEARS ago.
the bell tolls for thee, asker

>>17405193
not him but don't project so hard

not everyone is so autistic as to be angry that their closest friend had romantic feelings for them

For both genders. It's just a general question that's not worth it's own thread.

How do I uninvite someone to a party? He invited himself but the guy gives me rapey vibes so I don't want the person around me or my friends in a setting with alcohol. I don't want to flat out tell him that especially since I work with him.

>>17405221
>He invited himself
Tell him it's a private party and he isn't invited. Tell him the party is cancelled. Tell him he never had an invite in the first place.

>>17405049
I don't believe that. Personally I've fallen for people after having known them.

>>17405221
Just tell him it's a small get together for really close friends.

>>17404035
Nice projection faggot.

>>17405193
>As you would, if someone you've trusted as a close friend for 10 years reveals he's been harbouring other intentions.

>be friends with someone for a long time
>become close and gradually develop feelings for them
>confess those feelings
>"OMG! I can't believe you feel that way about me after all we've been through!"
>"I thought you were different from other guys".

When you think you know someone...

Girls what do you think when you're cuddling or otherwise in close physical contact with a guy and can feel that he has a boner?

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What do people talk about on their first date?

I'm a 24 yo virgin male and it will be my first date next week.

>>17405340
"Down, boy! Down I say. Bad dick!"
Which I hope is what the guy is thinking too.

>>17405335
Forgot to add
>feel like she shares the same feelings due to recent events
>such as going on dates every week for the past month

>>17405346
>I really hope you're suppressing your natural urges, because I am.

Fucking grow up.

>>17405351
More like
>I really hope you're not making this any awkwarder than it already is, because I'm not attracted to you

girls, why are you against prostitution

>>17405362
Why are you getting boners on you if you don't like them? Wouldn't you rather eat pussy?

>>17405369
I'm not.
I'm against human trafficking and forcing girls into prostitution.
If someone decides of their own free will to be a prostitute, preferably "self-employed", well good for her. None of my business.

>>17405373
I in fact would, yes.
But cuddling with people isn't always explicitly sexual (nor only done with people one is attracted to)

Hey women, what does it mean if a girl leaves her underwear at your house? I knew this girl from highschool sorta, she was younger than me and we hooked up after finding eachother on tinder. She seems really cool and into me, a lot of the same interest, its just the distance holding me back from pursuing anything.

But anyways do you think she meant to leave her underwear here? She texted me later after she left and said she had a good time and thinks im really cool. Its been almost a week, should i send her a text and say something like "hey hows it going? I found your underwear in my room, made me think of our time together, hope everythings well"

Or would that be creepy? Or would she like that in a perverted kinda way? Mind you she invited me to stay with her if im ever in her town, so Im pretty sure she still wants my dick. I also gave her this art zine I made and printed out so maybe it was a trade...?

>Tl;dr would a girl leave panties in a guys room as an excuse to make contact again?

>>17405362
>this any awkwarder than it already is
>because I'm not attracted to you

>what do you think when you're cuddling
>or otherwise in close physical contact with a guy
>can feel he has a boner

if you are so close up on each other that you can feel his dick get hard and you're not attracted to him and the situation is "awkward" for you, you're a cunt.

>woah what?! when i jerked you off I meant it as friends you fucking pervert!

>>17405380
>cuddling with people you don't like
You are Fucked Up

>>17405375
this is the way rich white girls think.
poor women (the majority of prostitutes) do it because they have no other option, and if you support this shitty industry of women selling their bodies idk what to say

>>17405208

Apparently this one was? It's not projecting when that's literally what was stated. I didn't even remotely imply that it was the way I'd personally feel in that position.

>>17405389
Well I am a rich white girl so fair enough.
I'm pretty sure not every poor girl works as a prostitute, though, so there are other options.

>>17405389
how else are incels suppost to get laid?

>>17405221

If you booked a venue, just say there's too many people and the venue is forcing you to bump people.
If it's a private party at someone else's property, you can say the owner isn't comfortable having a stranger show up.
If it's at your place, tell him it's cancelled.

>>17405394
By spraying orange juice over girls

>>17405400
so you rather have mass shootings then prostitution be legalized?

>>17405404
I'm not >>17405389, I'm the one they're quoting, was just making a joke.

I don't understand why my boyfriend doesn't want to kiss me and I'm not sure if it's normal to be upset about this. I'd like opinions or theories for either issue from both genders.

We've lived together for a couple of years and although he used to initiate hugging, kissing and cuddling during the first year or so, nowadays he seems outright disgusted and annoyed with me whenever I try to kiss him unless it's during sex.

I've asked him why but he either completely disregards me or says "not now." I understand that you don't always feel like it, but if we're never going to kiss again I'd at least like to know why. He isn't willing to explain and since it hurts more with each rejection, should I quit showing affection altogether? I'm not sure if I want to be in a relationship like that but I do love him a lot. I don't know what to do.

Fuck, we do some play-wrestling and the more forceful I get with my kissing attempts the more he squirms and pushes me away. It's like he's fighting for his life. I don't even know which one of us is being stubborn and childish here.

I've checked my breath but he still turns me down after a bottle of Listerine and I've considered whether he thinks I'm initiating sex (which has gotten a bit scarce as well) but that isn't likely either. What else is there?

>>17405380
>But cuddling with people isn't always explicitly sexual (nor only done with people one is attracted to)
>nor only done with people one is attracted to

What kind of fucked in the head are you?

>>17405335
>When you think you know someone...
She's probably thinking the same thing if she feels betrayed. She sees you as an intimate, trusted friend and now it looks like you just want to fuck her, of course she's going to question the depth of your friendship.
You're not supposed to want to fuck someone you're that platonically close to, like the Westermarck effect. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with accidentally catching feelings, but it's clear the two of you weren't on the same page. And considering your closeness, being on the same page is probably important to you both. You're just as disappointed as she is, she's just as disappointed as you are.

>>17405349
If they were actual dates, why would she be so surprised to learn you have feelings for her?

>>17405389
luckily it's only illegal in burgerland eh ya dumb slut

>>17405369
Women are basically vagina salesmen
They sell their vagina to men in exchange for attention, resources, shelter, protection, etc...
But prostitutes sell the same product as them, just generally much more cheaply and reliably.
It's only natural for a salesman to want to crush competition that takes away their business and drives down the value of their product.
Basically women want an absolute monopoly on sex so they can drive the price as unfairly high as they want. Prostitutes throw a wrench in that plan so women hate them. It's also why lots of women tend to hate porn and male sex toys and want those outlawed, and sometimes makes them even hate non-sexual male hobbies like video games, because it lets men enjoy themselves without paying a woman first.

>>17405369
This >>17405375

>>17405389
People get all kinds of demeaning jobs for the sake of survival. Some would rather be a prostitute than be treated like dirt in retail, or erode their bodies doing labour, etc.
You yourself say they do it because they have no other option, and you want to take that option away and leave them with nothing? That makes you the good guy?
How about you stop trying to be the world's mommy and respect their autonomy? Let them do what they feel is best, and fight for them to have better opportunities so that no one will have to choose prostitution unless they're legitimately okay with it?

>>17405419
>wanting to have sex with someone automatically dismisses any prior relationship/friendship we had
>thinking that being in a relationship with someone is purely about sex
>sex is bad

>"hey lets go on a date, just the two of us"
>"ok"
Yeah, I'm not sure why I thought those were actual dates.

Guys, how much are you willing to spend on a first date (assuming you're just paying for your half)? Like would a $30 ticket be too much?

>>17405433
most legit thing ever, screencapped

>>17405443
Doesnt seem too high if I was into the girl and could see it going somewhere, and assuming I actually had a job.

>>17405383

You sound to be in a pretty good position, I'd go for it. I don't think it'd be very easy to leave someone's house without underwear and not realise it, she may very well have left it as an excuse to see you again to retrieve it. Worst case scenario, she may have just been unable to find them and too embarrassed to say anything, but even if that's the case, I don't think your message sounds creepy and she's expressed interest in seeing you again.

>>17405340
Whenever I spoon and I feel his boner I act like I'm sleeping and grind on it more.

>>17405446
Crazy old shit Anon, my grandfather told me that when I was 14.

>>17405440
>wanting to have sex with someone automatically dismisses any prior relationship/friendship we had
>thinking that being in a relationship with someone is purely about sex
>sex is bad
I didn't say any of that, I said that you two appear to be not on the same page anymore, which is jarring for the both of you. I said that the hurt you're feeling now at being rejected sounds like it's probably exactly the same as what she felt at being pursued.
The fact that the issue is sex/romance is arbitrary. It could have been that you both have passionate views on drug laws and discovered they're at odds.

>>17405440
>Yeah, I'm not sure why I thought those were actual dates.
I wasn't there, man, that's why I asked. Maybe she was just being cute and didn't actually mean it romantically, maybe she does like you and is scared of the friendship being put at risk, maybe she's just a little cuckoo and her mind is one of life's great mysteries.

>>17405340
If we're already in a sexual relationship I feel delighted.

If not, mostly just awkward. If I cuddle with a guy it's likely that I'm really attracted to him and probably want to have sex at some point but being ready to cuddle doesn't mean I'm quite ready to take the dick yet.

Once I had a guy bring it to attention by asking me how I felt about watching a movie with his boner pressed against my ass and I had no opinion apart from "erm" and a really long uncomfortable silence. Then again I was pretty inexperienced back then.

>>17405463
Yeah, she was wearing a dress and I'm almost certain she left them and didnt care, because they were right where they would have been easy to find.

Just trying to gauge if that's something a girl would do. I just dont want to seem desperate but fuck it right? I am just kinda anxious cuz I kinda really like this girl and I dont want to seem all in love with her if she was just looking for a hookup and again she doesnt live very close. Guess I'll just feel my way thru the situation.