Gf won't sleep at my place

>>17393276
lol
are you mentally handicapped or just stupid?
if she wanted to, she would. she clearly does not want to.

>>17393308
That's why I made this post.

I clearly wasn't direct enough. I just wanted some insight and advice and if I'm in the wrong here. she did tell me before I moved that she would stay over most nights and now she went back on her promise.

Seems like kind of a big issue, especially considering you made the sacrifice so to speak, of moving over there to be nearer to her, and to bridge that gap in the relationship.

If she were 18-20 or so, I'd understand her reluctance, but you guys are pushing into mid-20s territory... So it sounds like a personal issue on her part.

Does she give you any other more honest reasons? That whole thing about convenience and her stuff is horse shit. Also, honest question, do you guys fuck? Good sex life?

>>17393349
you could have just said "no, anon. im just stupid"
whether you are wrong or right is irrelevant. youve been bamboozled, and you are refusing (or at the very least hesitating) to face/accept it. the "reasons" this girl is giving you are obviously bs. it seems to me that she never thought you would actually move to be with her, so she told you what she thought you wanted to hear so you would keep paying attention to her. now you are too close for comfort and she doesnt actually like you, and probably never did to begin with. sorry about your luck, hope its not too late to move home

>>17393349
> I just wanted some insight and advice and if I'm in the wrong here.
That's not "insight and advice" Anon, that's you looking for validating like you have a vagina. I'm not the guy you're responding to btw.

But really, you're just looking for people to emo support you
>UR SO RIIIIGHT GUUUURRRLL
Please just stop, you're only hurting yourself. Like the other poster said already, if she wanted to stay, she would stay. Hell, she would whine and beg to get you to let her stay.

So she doesn't want to stay.

This reminds of men who get on here:
>WHY won't my girlfriend fuck meeeeeee
Obviously because she doesn't want you.

>>17393276

Maybe her parents are pressuring her not to.
Have you asked her about this?

>>17393365
Yeah I kept calling her out telling her it was bs but she is stubborn as fuck and won't tell me anything else. If I bring it up at all she immediately gets angry.

Sex has been meh. i know this sounds like bullshit but she has some kind of cyst problem so sex is always painful. After doing it a few days she's been bleeding so she just gives me head. She still is down to fuck but it's been a bloody mess every time.

This girl always brings me food and takes me wherever and cooks for me it's just the sleeping over issue.

And to that other asshole: I'm not looking for validation from Internet strangers, I wanted to know if I'm just being a prick or if she's being unreasonable.

>>17393390
Yes this is what I assumed from the start because she stayed over the first few nights then had to go home because her mom wanted a talk with her. They are Italian so her parents are controlling and crazy. Probably why she never moved out. I brought it up during a heated argument kind of making fun of her "oh your mom won't let you stay?" And she denied it, but it makes more sense than anything.

Is your apartment nasty Op?

lol op why the fuck would you move states for someone you weren't sure about?

Oh I mean, you may have been sure about her, but she clearly does not have the same interest in a relationship.

It's okay, I made the same mistake. Just go home before you get hurt much more.