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I am a Christian. I love my religion. It has brought me out of depression, saved me from suicide, and has filled me with a sense of meaning and purpose. However, I have always struggled with porn. I used to watch it 15-16 times a week, but now it's down to once every 2-3 days. How do I cut it out once and for all?
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This is probably a troll thread, but fuck it if it isn't.

How are you Christian?

I want to believe but I can't.
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>>17383846
Why would you want to cut porn comply out of your life? God doesn't give a hoot if you look at porn.
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>>17383851
I was raised a Christian. Around middle school, I doubted God. I went on this crazy anti-God spree. Then I started looking for the truth, only to find out there wasn't. Things only went downhill from there. My life got worse and worse, until finally I was about to kill myself. I was going to drive my car off a mountain that Friday. The day of, I entered the church and screamed and flailed, since I was going to die. In the midst, I heard a voice, "Be still and know that I am God." I was immediately filled with a sense of peace and purpose ever since.

That's why I believe in God.
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>>17383852
I do though. It messes with my mind, making me depressed and so unconfident that I become socially awkward. I want to cut that part out of my life.
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>>17383858
I don't believe you.

But I shall say exposition because I want to.
I was raised essentially atheist. My parents were/are Christian but they didn't have strong beliefs. They told me as a boy, if I wanted to be Christian, I could read the Bible and choose. I didn't and I didn't.

Now as an adult I did read the Bible and I learned Christian history.
It's appealing but there are so many contradictory things. Things like the Council of Nicea or why the Arian Heresy even exists.

I don't believe anyone who says they hear the voice of God.
If you're a troll, then fuck off, if you're legit, then don't take if personally.
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>>17383846

Red pill time:
God doesn't exist, religions are there to control people and help those who are weak of will.

You can reduce the times you watch porn instead?
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>>17383860
Its not porn that's dragging you down its your lack of self confidence. Stopping your porn habit will only move those feeling on to something else. You were ready to kill yourself, you need real help now. God might have stopped you but you have to do the fallow up with a therapist, or a counselor. Even a priest will do. No matter what you need real would face to face help. <3
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>>17383871

While i do agree with what you said to a certain extent, i have this knee-jerk reaction to how you phrased it just cause it comes off as an edgy enlightened atheist.

That aside, what's wrong with it helping the "weak minded/willed"

And/or

Why do you think many atheists feel the need to urge people involved in religion to change their ways?
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Im not a christian.

Go back to your therapist.

When i belove and read some words and verse.

I still watch porn

Im not a troll

I feel bad and i become a hudge hypocryte to god.... Makes me feel down sometimes.

But idk

Most nights i get lonely so i watch porn

I can tell you this.
Last night i was watching these people taking testerone supplements to be come a transgender. I saw the the before and after videos. It was shoking to me.

After watching that on you tube i went to my porn website. Then i realized that transgender are ruining porn.... Just by realizing they might be tra
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>>17383846
Make a strict distinction between reality and what you're seeing on the screen. No matter how hard you masturbate or concentrate, you'll never actually be in the scene in the porn you're using - you're still the loser bastard masturbating to the computer screen (an extraordinary sense of shame, I think, is very useful in keeping you away from the stuff).

I think the secret to permanent nofap is to seek the truth and follow the facts. Also, realise that actual reality is better and so much more satisfying than any fantasy you masturbate to - rather than be a useless, waste of space of a loser and masturbate to a computer screen, do something fantastic with yourself - find what you love doing and earn bucket loads of money and actually make it happen in real life, rather than be that pathetic loser with his porn. You'll not only be able to actually screw the models you look at in porn, you'll buy all the other things you've ever wanted - a luxurious home, a fantastic car, maybe be a Trump and apply your influence in making Western civilisation great.
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>>17383846
Here are some further thoughts, in case they might help:

The benefits of nofap: having immense self-control and self-discipline and not being ruled by your primal urges and impulses. It'll improve your strength of will and character. The man of great self-control and self-discipline will always beat the guy who has his urges to satisfy. The man who allows his impulses, especially his sexual impulses, an important say in his life is easily manipulable, whereas the man of great self-control and discipline is free. Have you read J. D. Unwin's Sex and Culture? In a world where most people are just screwing themselves and behaving like wild, impulsive animals, the people of /pol/ can have a real advantage in following nofap and being the calm, strong and grounded opponents against those who keep spreading this degeneracy.
I've always imagined army generals and the great leaders of history and today are men of extraordinary self-discipline, which makes sense since they usually have a great deal dependent on their ability to live a stable and well-ordered life, a life not so easily drawn to primal vices.

Also, permitting your impulses any influence, I think, can really draw you into women who'll use your need for sexual activity. Abstinence from sexual activity will give you that level-headedness you need in selecting mates and you'll naturally seek the kind of partner that'll fulfill you in an intellectual, virtuous and soulful way - you'll pay a great deal more attention to her personality and character, and therefore better at avoiding manipulative witches, rather than seek to satisfy your lusts.

I also think that a man who has mastered himself is capable of mastering the world.

Perhaps you'll find this informative:
https://m.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1uth8n/the_list_of_greats/
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>>17383846
Christian here.
I watch porn, why is porn wrong? I think it's only wrong if the people involved in it are married maybe?
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"I have always struggled with porn"
WTF you need serious help
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i am not religious but I envy those who find happiness in their beliefs.
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>>17384740
Same here though I am part of Christian groups even though I just don't "feel" anything about Christianity. I just want to find out what THEY feel, how do they believe.
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>>17384740
You can always go find your own set of beliefs.
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Sounds a lot like you need to do what I did. Try to use your mind instead. Meet someone and connect. Porn will have a lesser influence.
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>>17383897
Many atheists feel the need to urge people involved in religion to change their ways, because for them its just as crazy as believing fairy tales are real.
If i told u aladin is real, you would probably do the same.
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>>17384859
but believing in aladin isn't a worldwide phenomenon like christianity
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>>17384867
Still based on nothing but believing
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>>17384875
Doesn't matter. If a ton of people believe in it there must be a reason. Not saying the reason is that it's true of course, but a reason it attracts so many people. If you believe in Aladin you are alone and people don't like supporting people who are alone.
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>>17384906
The reason why people believe is because they want to believe they will live forever & have no pain in heaven, they're protected and god will aways be with them. It just sounds like a fairy-tale, and if i could i would believe in it too.
But because many people believe in it doesn't mean its any more real than Aladin.
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>>17384932
But... that's literally the point of my post. Like I said, it doesn't make it any more real, but people believe in strength in numbers because it's confortable. If you believe in Aladin you are alone. But if suddenly a lot of people start believing in Aladin you will be a bit more acknowledged and respected even if it's like a fairy tale because people who don't believe have to learn to accept it rather than facing being against a lot of people.
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>>17383860
First step is leaving 4chan, unfortunately. There's tons of porn addicted people here who don't really care about which boards are worksafe.
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>>17383871
>red pill time
>states the most blue pill viewpoint in existence
Fuckin reddit
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>>17385283
His right though. Only mistake is that God made it so.
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>>17383871
You must live a fun and fulfilling life.

>>17383884
This is good advice.
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