How can I tell if shes interested?

She is.

If you havent made a sexual advance during the 4 years then I think youre stuck in the friendzone.

If you tried touching/holding her at any point AND she was receptive to it, then she is waiting for you to make more advances.

If you tried touching/hold her and she was UN-RECEPTIVE, then she wants to stay friends.

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>>17382362
We havent had much time for that, we've met twice and as students we cant afford to see each other

define receptive to touch? in what way? we've sat next to each other where our legs have been touching, tapped each other to get attention and shes grabbed my shoulders lightly and turned a couple of degrees because I walked down the wrong direction

>>17382384
receptive is if she doesnt push away, where she reacts to it in a positive manner. Example is you massaging her back after she says it hurts and then she rolls her shoulders and she massages.

It has to be with sexual intention, rather than social interaction. Her correcting your wrong way walking isnt sexual. Her holding your hand and pulling you to her to correct your direction would have been.

Sorry OP, sounds like your a friendzone guy. Like I said, if you haven't made ANY advances in this time, then your stuck.

>>17382411
Ahh ok
well there is an exeption to that, I almost walked into the path of someone taking a photo, I didnt really notice at the time but she hastilly grabbed my hand and pulled me to her so hard that I almost fell on her

I see

>>17382362
>>17382411
I'm a bit socially retarded, am I in the green zone? Girl is comfortable with touching her hair or arm or shoulder. Seems to find reasons to grab onto me even when it isn't really needed, but when it is vaguely plausible. (Oh no this beach is hard to walk on let me grab onto you, oops now I'm falling on you haha). Pretty sure I'm not retarded and that this is positive.

>>17382411
>>17382384

This is an entirely different culture here man, you aren't friendzoned dude- but regardless you'll have to make a move at some point and find out. You know the situation better than some random anons

Based on what you said I think there is probably interest. Japanese culture around dating is really different than western culture, do you have any Japanese bros you could ask for advice? 100% you'd get better/more reliable advice.

>>17382355
Gaijin anon here,

I'm sure this girl was thrilled to hear that her own personal free English teacher was coming to town. I'm sure she can't wait to show you to her friends, family and acquaintances, for her to feel superior to others by showing how globalized and intelligent she is. You will be her accesory, just like an earring or chain. Just think of an exit strategy then if things go south and you better assume it will.

Sorry man but you have to think negative here, the people around may say somethingto you but they mean something else altogether. Look into honne and tatemae.

If you come here again then finding alternative pussy in no time will depend on your skin color and race. If you're white and someone in shape then it's pretty easy, if you're Asian then it's on hard mode.

Are you a weeaboo Amerifat by any chance?

>>17382530

Dating here isn't that different than the west, but don't let me stop you from believing stereotypes

>>17382557
Naaa, I havent watched anime since pokemon when I was a kid, I never even knew Pokemon was Japanese. I've always had a vague interest in the east since my mother lived in Hong Kong. Im white British.

I highly doubt she views me as an accessory, she has a near perfect command of English, I know nothing of her family except both parents jobs, nor do I know of her friends. she is extremely bashful and is very quiet about a lot of things to do with herself.

>>17382530
I know, the culture is on the other end of the spectrum to the wests, in all honesty I dont think im friendzoned, she shows concern and care for me, and sometimes goes out of her own way to cheer me up, or do something for me.
Actually, come to think of it, my Japanese university teacher might help, hes a /b/ro, hes like 23 and him and his mother run a Japanese class im apart of.

>>17382355
That's how all Japanese treat foreigners. "CAN YOU EAT WITH CHOPSTICKS??" "YOU'RE SO FUNNY".

Also, I hope you're getting something back from her. You simply supporting her while she "occasionaly" helps you out, doesn't seem like a balanced relationship. I think you're fucked.

>>17382557
This.