Okay so I have a problem with sex/women/intimacy. I have only

I masturbate a lot, but who wouldn't? I haven't had a good sexual experience in my life. I've only met a handful of women in my life can honestly say I'd be really be comfortable with, not just find attractive but have a connection as well. I would say I have a much lower sex drive than most men, the idea of settling for something I don't have much interest in is really unacceptable for me. I grew a toxic belief about women that they were all mostly selfish and insecure, but I attribute that mostly to the fact that I personally have had no success with them. I feel like men constantly have to settle for less cause we spoil women them with attention/affection. Guys have to make the first move 99% of the time and have to be quite persistent and convincing to be successful in an attempt of seduction, which results in women having a "Midlife crisis". I believe that it's just women coming to terms with how good they got it when they were young because of their looks but now that they don't have easy looks they have to try harder. You don't see older attractive women with the same problem. Girls tell me I'm cute and I know I'm not bad looking, I've had girls approach me quite a few times but I was never interested in them, the only time I was interested was once with a girl that is "polyamorous" and didn't get involved with cause I knew I would get my heart broken (remained friends with her cause of work but ultimately had heart broken anyway), and the second was with a girl I met at a bar I frequent but she was having trouble with her boyfriend and was having an episode (multiple times she tried to kiss me during the night but I refused cause I knew she had a boyfriend, to which end she took me aside and proceeded to dump emotional baggage on me, haven't seen or heard from her in 2 weeks.

SO, WTF do I do /adv/, I refuse to settle for less but am lonely as fuck.

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c'mon /adv/ say something, suck it up or something, don't leave me hanging

alright back to the bar I go, no one gives a shit

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I mean, seriously?
>I've had girls approach me quite a few times but I was never interested in them, the only time I was interested was once with a girl that is "polyamorous" and didn't get involved with cause I knew I would get my heart broken (remained friends with her cause of work but ultimately had heart broken anyway), and the second was with a girl I met at a bar I frequent but she was having trouble with her boyfriend and was having an episode (multiple times she tried to kiss me during the night but I refused cause I knew she had a boyfriend, to which end she took me aside and proceeded to dump emotional baggage on me, haven't seen or heard from her in 2 weeks.

Holy fuck, that's one sentence. One.

Break that shit up.

>>17381725
Here's what you do, anon.

Take a hammer and smash this Great Wall of Text you just build. Or condense it and create a less obnoxious thread.

Then someone will read this, maybe.

alright fair enough, next time I will, I cbf right now and just want to get drunk and play pool, thanks for the reply

>>17381772
Green text it next time. There are reasons why it's so popular:

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Protip: that format works with all online texts (including emails). People are lazy and don't read whole paragraphs

Hi. I'm female. Not crazy or polyamorous or any kind of red flag alert personality.

I think you should try tinder, or okcupid - fill out a funny profile. We like funny.

While I get that you have standards, I also think it's worth considering that you don't just have to talk to girls because you're interested in them. Have you ever considered being FRIENDS with the girls that approach you?

I think your problem is that you don't know how to communicate with girls.

I also think it's a bit sad that your father took you to your first prostitute - it tells me that he doesn't really know how to talk to women either.

Learn to be around women, learn how to be YOURSELF around women. Your standards will change you know - and your opinion of women might even change too.

Hey OP I think your problem is that you put pressure on yourself to be with women but you don't actually like them. Maybe its cuz society makes it seem like a man has more self worth the more bitches he gets... but you need to find a woman who is actually interesting and special to you. Then your sex will actually be good. Don't settle for less than a woman who actually turns you on, or else it makes sense that you find sex disappointing. There's no rush OP just wait until you find the right girl where you can both be into each other.