I'm a female in the mid-20s and I have a serious problem in the bedroom lately - I can't get 'fully' turned on and more or less don't really get aroused at all lately. It's nothing to do with my boyfriend or anything, I am attracted to him and we do have a solid emotional connection. I just can't get turned on. Lately when we've tried having sex it started hurting during penetration and I assume it's from a lack of wetness/arousal on my part.
It's not that I'm necessarily not turned on, but I don't know whether I am or not. Maybe I'm somewhat turned on but just can't be 'fully' turned on. Even after 30+ minutes of foreplay I still don't feel fully turned on.
What could this be from and how do I solve it? The only thing I can think of is that it's because of all of the stress in my life lately - but even knowing that problem how can I fix it?
>>17380946
Use a bit of lube until you get back into the game.
Stop overthinking, just do it. Close your eyes and use your imagination.
>>17380946
>and I assume it's from a lack of wetness/arousal on my part.
This happens as you get older, it's why God invented lube.
>>17380956
>>17380968
That's not really the problem, the problem is I'm not getting fully turned on.
>>17380976
You are clearly thinking a lot about it. You know what happens when men overthink getting hard, right?