Is having sex on the 1st date indicative of slutynnes for a girl

Are you serious?

>>17377869
No. But it's a sign that she doesn't value sex in a traditional way. She may only have sex with 1 person a year, or every few years, but fucks on the first date. That isn't slutty. It just means she doesn't regard sex as an emotional bonding experience. She thinks of it as a fun thing to do, which is what most men think of it as. Men or women who fuck on the first date are in the same boat--they don't adhere to traditional values.

If not holding traditional values is a deal breaker, then don't be with that person. But if you fucked them on the first date rather than turn them down, you're just as guilty of being non-traditional. So you really have no room to judge.

Yes.

Sex before 4th date = into the trash she goes.

>>17377869
No, although id still be weary of a girl who wanted to fuck on the first date , unless I already knew her well as a friend / aquitance

>>17377869

Yes.

BUT, women these days are slutty in far worse ways, such as being in porn or taking nude selfies. It's normal now for women to be in degrading sex videos and such. It's considered "empowering" and "cool" and such.

So if I had to choose between a woman that had sex on the first date, and a woman that has been filmed/photographed nude or having sex, I'd choose the former.

>>17377901
Its all kim Kardashian fault

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>>17377901
Fair points. I dont know, it's been a while for me, and this is a first. All of my previous gfs were total prudes, so this is kind of shocking/new.

I'm going to stop overthinking this and just enjoy her company as I really like her

Thanks.

While we are in the subject, anyone has tips on performance anxiety? I had some fumbles here and there. It is true - use it or lose it

>>17377982

All I can say is that it's up to you who you want to date. Don't feel pressured into dating a slut just because feminists and modern western culture insists you should. If you want to date one, fine. I would never do that, but you just need to make sure you actually want to do this.

Prude women are great, not enough of them exist anymore and they are ignored and not appreciated enough.

>>17377995
Honestly, I dont think shes a slut, but I had that intrusive thought in the back of my head. I like her a whole lot and I'm not dating her because of any pressures or anything - simply because I like her as a person. I think it'd be wise of me to move past something like this, which in all reality might not be that big of a deal.

Thanks for your input.

>>17377886
This is such bullshit. So she's a slut for giving it up, but it's not going to stop you from fucking her anyway and judging her for it? Double standards abound.

>>17378027

calm your tumblr instincts. the question was about women specifically.

I fucked a girl on the first date once. Never saw her again afterwards. I'm 100% positive I'd have called her if we didn't fuck. She had the nerve to be mad at me via text when I wasn't interested and tried to say all kinds of bullshit about my character.

I'm slightly conflicted on this one because obviously I want to fuck and it might just speed up the process for the woman and filter guys out who only want sex at the cost of actually getting pumped and dump. On the other hand it makes the girl seem like she's throwing it at everyone and no guy wants to feel like he's with a girl who fucks anyone. Also sex is a lot better once you get to know each other better and I believe that the relationship will be healthier if it's founded on real interactions without sex involved.

Do guys not worry about being judged for fucking a girl on the first date?

>>17377982
You had sex on the first date too, what's the problem? Why the double standard?

>>17378051
see >>17378010

It was just an intrusive thought and I wanted nip it in the bud

Idk about slutiness but I know I wouldn't be interested, in sex with her, or just her in general. Sex is really personal and emotional for me.

>>17378051

go away tumblr! nobody is persecuting women for having sex in western society, despite what your tumblr blogs and obscure internet blogs/websites tell you.

>>17377869
it means you and she are not special to each other and it's about sex not a relationship from the jump

>>17378045
Nope. It's okay for a guy to whore around.

>>17377869
Huge red flag if she needs to use sex right away to hook you in.

>>17378748
Not really people still talk shit about man whored and did you forget the word "fuckboy" exists.

>>17377901
>implying you're not dying a khv

>>17377995
>tips fedora

>>17377869
it depends on what kind of girl you want.

but you guys suck at choosing girls

See you when alimony friendo-kun

Maybe, but mostly just indicates thats shes more interested in sex with you and not necessarily romance.

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