Haven't had sex in 2 years, since my GF dumped me. I've gotten my act together; I've obtained a good job and I have started lifting again. Objectively, I could cut a little more, but I'm still above average in looks. This has generally been validated by my tinder matches, who are pretty good looking. The problem is, I'm socially inept. Most of the time, I message them something, (be it a conversation starter, or a simple hey), and never get a response. When I occasionally get a response, the convo normally fizzles out, because I have no idea what to talk about. Every now and again I manage to get a number, but I haven't even gotten date to happen yet. I'm so fucking bad this, I haven't even come close to getting laid. Anyone more experienced have a guide or blueprint for using tinder?
>>17377815
talk about shit in their profile and ask basic question to learn more about what they like then ask question relating to those topics. easy shit bra
if the girl doesn't give you anything to work with like "ya haha" either move on or just ask for sex straight up. wtf do you have to lose?
>>17377829
When every I've asked for sex straight up, I've gotten unmatched, every single time. I know a lot of people who have had a ton of easy bangs but it feels like I'm missing something when I try. It doesn't help that for most of my interests women have little interest in, (Soccer, Baseball), or are generally very niche (Political Philosophy, Jam Bands). Idk most profiles are really dumb and don't give me much to work with. Are there any general descriptions or jokes that imply interest in casual sex, aside from of course straight up saying so (which I rarely see)?