I have a gf but I am still obsessed by sex. Should I pay for

>I would never dump her because she's flat

Yet you would cheat on her? That's even worse. I would MUCH rather be broken up with than be cheated on.

Please do he a favor and just let her find someone else who likes her enough to not contemplate being unfaithful, and then you can be with as many different girls as you want.

>>17376009
>Yet you would cheat on her?
And that's exactly why I have doubts and I am feeling guilty, as I said.

So, how do I get rid of this obsession?

>>17376002
Sounds as though you're in a serious, monogamous relationship, but how long have you been together?

Have you talked with your girlfriend about your desire to sleep with someone else?

If you did ask to open up the relationship, do you think it would end your relationship? If so, is it worth it?

If she's willing, will you be willing to extend the same courtesy to her, and let her fuck someone on the side who has something you don't? Is THAT worth it?

These are serious questions. I don't generally think cheating is a good idea, and I definitely don't think sex with a busty prostitute is going to make you happy. But if you're not attracted to your girlfriend, I don't think the relationship is making you happy, either.

I think you should keep this a fantasy and see where your relationship goes. If you can't, I think you should talk honestly with your gf and be prepared to break her heart. It's either that or break her heart when she catches you, or deceive her for bad hooker sex.

I doubt you'll be with this woman forever, in either case, and now you know to look for a bigger-chested woman next time you are single.

>>17376002
>However, I have this obsessive thought: you'll die without having tried sex with a stacked girl.
That's enough of a reason to dump her. Go do whatever the fuck you want and quit wasting her time, fuqboi.

>>17376035
>I think you should keep this a fantasy and see where your relationship goes.

This is the only option I feel like relating to...

>now you know to look for a bigger-chested woman next time you are single

I am not really sure.

I just know that my obsession for boobs is childish. And when I met her, well, I could see she was flat. Yet, her personality captivated me so much that I fell in love with her.

But still, I have this obsession lingering in my mind. Seriously, how do I get rid of it?

>>17376020
>>17376043

You CAN'T GET RID OF IT. Break it off. You're only going to end up destroying a perfectly good person, or being miserable and feeling like you're missing out. Maybe you'll reconcile. later on, who knows.

Your obsession will only grow, despite logic telling you that you have it good. Logic doesn't matter. Ditch her now for her own good and yours.

>>17376043
>But still, I have this obsession lingering in my mind. Seriously, how do I get rid of it?
You probably don't. So you look at pictures of boobs when you whack off, and/or start fantasizing about girls who look like your gf.

I'm in the same spot as OP. My gf is my first and I love her. But I have this feeling that I have to try other girls (in my case, with small breasts, my girl has honkers) or I'll miss out on some life experience. I think this is part of the male psyche, the desire to conquer new women.

The problem is I want to marry this girl but I cant until I resolve this feeling I have. And I cant resolve this feeling without ruining the relationship. So we're fucked, trapped between our mind and our heat.

>>17376002
The reason here is a market need for strip clubs.

Trust me when i say, its really all the same. Grass is always gunna be greener.

you'll break up with your current girlfriend and date a stacked one and wish you had a flat one.

If you truly want my advice, you stay with your chick if you actually like her and encourage her to work out, hit the gym, lift weights.

Because in reality, there is nothing sexier than a CONFIDENT woman. Its the only reason you are attracted to chicks with big tits, because they are typically more confident.

-2¢

>>17376058
>So you look at pictures of boobs when you whack off, and/or start fantasizing about girls who look like your gf.

Well, to be honest, I usually start from pictures of boobs, but when I want to finish I think to my gf. And it feels great... because I know she's real, and not just in my head or in a computer screen.

I was just about to post on this topic.

I have pursued women to get things I thought I was wanted.
After I got them, as you would expect, I realized I didn't satisfy me.
Those women were the worse (for me) in every way that matters and I made a large effort to get them.

I think men make a very huge mistake in sexualizing women to irrational extremes.
When you think clearly, you know you only need someone who treats you well to be happy.
You don't need any specific color or size to be happy.
You make yourself want those things and you must make yourself stop.

With me, I focused on features that only 5% of women have and ignored all the evidence I got from dating that showed that these women were not good partners. Looking back, the women who didn't have the rare size were many times better lovers because they cared a lot more about me.

The girls that are in the 5% range for some feature are really flakey. They constantly think they can upgrade to a better guy because so many guys flip out around them. Most iconic, they have really low self-esteem because they think that their prized feature is stupid and it freaks them out that men are too stupid to realize that it meaningless. They are insecure because the guy who is head over heals in love with them is going to leave once the feature ages, they find another feature she doesn't have or he realizes that the feature doesn't actually make sex better.

Sex workers are a horrible group to support. Most are ok but they have to cut off the part of themselves that is normal and that is bad for them and you. Bad for you because you will eventually find the one who has an incurable STD to share. Bad for her because she is addicted to something that is so strong it forces her to sell herself.

Chances are you're not going to get married anyway. And if five years down the line you're still crazy about her, I doubt the big boobs will be as much of an issue as they are now.

In a similar situation to you. I am with a wonderful girl, we have sex every damn day;sometimes four times a day. She's always in the mood, I turn her on and I love her personality too.

However, I am obsessed with sex. Not even the actual sex part of it, in fact sometimes I think that if I cheated it wouldn't be what I wanted. Instead I love the chase, smiling at a girl on the train, talking to a cute girl on the bus or a coworker. I make accounts on dating sites with fake pictures just to have girls be turned on by me. I don't want to cheat though, I just can't control my urge. I've been with this girl for a hair over two years, and I can say without a doubt that we have fucked every single day, we are moving in together and everything. I guess I will always be like this though.