Girl, best friends with another girl, really wish I could date her.
She says she is asexual and at least a few years ago said she was straight, but I have never seen her attracted to either gender. So that makes things complicated, but it's not the main issue.
I kind of want to make a proposition to her that if she was interested, we could try dating, but if she wasn't, then I would let it go and continue our relationship as is. Is this a bad idea?
I'm happy just being friends with her, even though I'd rather be dating. Does this mean that I shouldn't risk it?
>>17375589
>asexual
Im guessing you and your friend are underaged, 18 or in an arts degree course of some form. Either way labelling yourself in that manner is a sign of immaturity so simply based on that, no.
Play it safe. If she is a good friend, dont risk ruining it and you said yourself that you are happy being just friends. Dont ruin something like a good friendship.
Just ask her on a date. Nothing more. Don't scare her away unnecessarily. Mention that you'll fully accept her asexuality.
What would really be the difference with a friendship, tho? Seeing each other more often? Doing cute things together? Assuming she doesn't want anything physical, even handholding.
>>17375603
>Im guessing you and your friend are underaged, 18 or in an arts degree course of some form
All three of those are incorrect but I appreciate your input.
>>17375608
Well basically I'd want to take her on dates, cuddle romantically, hold hands, kiss, etc. She doesn't mind touching or cuddling, but I wouldn't push her. I just want her in a dedicated relationship to possibly become my life partner.
>>17375614
Thats tough. If she is asexual you can always look towards a very close platonic relationship. You dont have to make it official as such, just arrange to meet up more and fo more things together. Asexual or not, you can work on building a strong emotional bond. If you feel that strongly though, maybe follow through what the other anon said.
Sorry about the assumption before.
>>17375624
No worries m8. A lot of kids just try on labels these days like fashions. She says she's asexual, so I'll take her word for it.
I'm leaning towards asking her out on a casual, no-pressure date that she can turn down without question or awkwardness on my part.
>>17375589
Friends are just backstabbing fiends, wake up girl.
>>17375629
Well good luck. My only concern for the pair of you is that it may change the dynamic of the relationship by asking but I wish you the best regardless.
>>17375632
You're right. Hikki-mode activated.
>>17375589
Why is it that so many women like Madoka but hate Rebellion? It's like they hate the best part.
Movin' on. Just live the Yuri dream. If >>17375614 is correct then just take her out camping and get liqoured up. Talk about guys then chicks then each other. Don't fucking rape her though, women can get weirdly aggressive during lesbo time.
Or do the same at your house. Maybe hold her hand every now and then to pull her along and slowly make it natural.