Hey, i know there are milions of threads like this every day.
And that's why I will appreciate every reply.
I cannot get over one girl. Let's name her M. We weren't even together, we were just dating. I had 19 y/o then, she had 15 (legal in my country). And well, these 6 months were best of my life, l felt like the king of the world and everything.
I'm a person who wasn't a jealous - she wants to go with a male friend, go for it and shit. One time she was writing to me while she was metting him. Messages like "I wish I were with you" and "I prefer you over him".
Well bullshit, like 2 months later she told me she developed feelings for him, and she dosen't have sexual attraction to me. I gave her choice, me or him. She choosed him, so I just dropped the contact. Deleted from fb (yah childlish, but I just was broken) and everything.
That was 2 years ago. And I was dating several girls, all where short-time relationships. Just after I'm always thinking "It would be better with M", and I dunno, I just feel like something wasn't closed between us. I didn't saw her for 2 years, and recently my friend told me she is still with that guy, from before.
I don't know what to do. I tried other girls, it just wasn't that. I don't know how to say it.
I changed. Very much, from 19 old fattie with little shitgoatee, to fullberad, fit guy. I have no problem with getting other girls.
Well premature post.
I would like to get an advice - should I even try to get her back (she's 2 years with that guy) or wait for them to split up?
Or how do I get over her?
Because I have no idea.
>>17369996
Neither, move the fuck on and find someone else man. There are 3.5 BILLION women in the world, odds are there is a much better girl out there that won't ditch you for some other guy
>>17370019
Tried to, for 2 years I've been looking for someone for longer. Well I so far I didn't find the girl like her - in a meaning of the feeling alone. Every girl just feels like she's lacking something
>>17370031
What is every other girl lacking? M is still just a person, and still has flaws like all others. You sound like you're holding onto her for some specific reason, and you need to address that before you do anything else.
>>17370051
I have no idea. Just there isn't a connection for me, like it was with M. Just no chemistry or whatever. I would like to change that, but I have no idea how.
>>17369996
bump